How to euphemistically express your unhappiness with your roommate?

My roommate ahua always takes other people's things without their consent and doesn't say anything. When she comes back, she won't apologize for breaking them, which often makes me unhappy. Seeing that she is a roommate, I don't want to quarrel with her, so I can only express my unhappiness in a euphemistic tone.

I used a laptop in college. There are no drawers on the desk in my dormitory. Every day, I don't need a computer. I put it in my computer bag, and then I put it in a shoe box because the battery is too hot. Because thieves often appear in our school, I locked them up and put them in the cupboard.

On Sunday, when there were no classes at school, I took a part-time job. It will rain and thunder soon. The boss told me to go back and said there would be a typhoon, so I went back to the dormitory. I have some homework to finish this week, so I have to make a PPT. So I took out my computer. I didn't see it in bed when I took the battery. I carefully looked at how it was served. Where's the shoe box? Run and get it.

I clearly remember that the shoe box was put with the battery. Why can't I find it? Xiao Yang asked me what I was looking for when he came back. I said I was looking for the shoe box, but she said Jane took it. I'm surprised. Why am I carrying a shoe box? It's worthless. She didn't tell me.

I began to feel uncomfortable in my heart. Soon, Ahua came back. I asked her if she had taken my shoe box. She said yes, yes, I'll pay you back. She took the shoe box out of her bag, opened it, took out her shoes and gave them back to me.

I guess she boxed her shoes with my shoes, so I thought forget it and let her go. Shoe boxes are all back.

Who knows, after I took the shoe box, I found it was wet and had a rotten foot. I am very, very sad. I asked her, "Hua, let me know next time you take my shoe box." I've been looking for it for a long time. If Yang hadn't told me, I didn't know you took it. "

Ahua always thinks she has a high position in this dormitory, so she doesn't take my words to heart. She said, "Isn't it just a shoe? Is it necessary to tell you? Just take it and bring it back to you. "

What she said made me even more sad. These shoes are not hers. Why should I have such a tone? Besides, I have used this shoe box for a year and have feelings for it. I usually like it. It's rotten now. I really want to curse. How can I have such a roommate?

I tried to control my temper, carefully wiped the shoe box with a rag and gently said to her, "The shoe box has been with me for more than a year. I cherish it very much and regard it as my treasure. It doesn't matter if you treat it like grass. You know how to respect people. We are roommates and I don't want to say anything more. "

Jen opened her mouth to say something, but she didn't say any more. She doesn't think it appropriate for her to do it.

Everyone is sad for a reason, but in the face of people who make themselves unhappy and don't want to destroy the relationship, we should let the other person know that what she hurt you is wrong in a euphemistic tone and express her unhappiness. I think I can do this.