What did you learn from the fire of the family drama Xiao Shede?

The TV series Xiao Shede is being broadcasted recently. This TV series tells the stories of several families. After watching this TV series, I also understand a lot of truth. I'll say it one by one.

First, don't push the child too hard.

In this TV series, Tian Yulan, played by Rulu, pushes his son so hard that he doesn't even want to leave him an hour of rest and relaxation in a day. Her son's tour was occupied by cram schools all day. On one occasion, Ziyou was not smart enough to understand a topic many times and was scolded too much by the teacher. At this time, Tian Yulan did not comfort his son, but apologized to the teacher. As a result, the mental state of the face is getting worse and worse, so I think this kind of education is very undesirable, and children should pay attention to the combination of work and rest.

First of all, you shouldn't always cry in front of your children.

Mi Tao in this TV series feels inferior because her parents always tell her that her family is poor and she is cautious in everything she does. Although Mi Tao is very sensible, she is a child after all. She hopes to have a beautiful new schoolbag, but she is afraid to tell her parents. Her parents also think that Mi Tao should know more about the situation at home. Even once Mi Tao went to Huanhuan's house and found that the gap between the rich and the poor was particularly large, but her father directly scolded her and thought she was wrong.

Third, a husband should pay more attention to his wife's feelings.

In fact, Tian Yulan has become extremely extreme, and it is not without reason that Ziyou is always forced to study. Because Tian Yulan's husband is a rich second generation, he usually ignores many things at home and plays games every day. So Tian Yulan thinks that if his son doesn't study hard, his husband won't be very successful. My son will definitely not be as old as her husband in the future. Tian Yulan's husband even wants her to have a second child, but he doesn't care much about children at ordinary times, so he doesn't know how hard it is to take care of them.