How to deal with rumors?

I'm happy to answer your question. I have never encountered such an experience, but I have seen many such things. Let me tell you what to do when you are slandered.

1, it is not appropriate to go directly to the other party to reason.

Our first reaction is often to talk to each other directly. The problem is that the other party often refuses to admit it, and when the other party's interpersonal energy is higher than ours, we will definitely suffer, not only losing face, but also bringing new troubles to ourselves.

Some outspoken people will scold each other directly. But you've only heard of it, and you can't tell who said it; On the one hand, there is insufficient evidence, on the other hand, even if you have evidence, it is not a good thing to deal with it rashly.

2, through influential people, beat about the bush.

It is not appropriate to find the other party directly, but it can be handled by influential people. For example, as the marketing director of a company, M came to the company because the HR manager Ali recommended it to the boss. The manager of the technical department has a view on Ali in the personnel department, because the arrival of M has reassessed all aspects of product performance and product advantages, which has affected the right to speak of the manager of the technical department, and the maturity of the product at the technical level is not enough.

At this time, the technical department inexplicably appeared some rumors about M and the personnel manager Ali. The rumor is vague, but it clearly points to another unknown relationship between M and Ali.

Personally, I think we should do this when such a thing happens.

First, the best way for us to treat rumors is to treat them calmly and objectively.

A rumor can only be called a rumor if it is proved to be false. Before this process, it was just one of thousands of different sounds on the Internet. The greatest significance of rumors lies in exposing the truth. Rumors are yellow sand that sharpens real gold. It is the greatest misfortune for onlookers to block the channel of voice because they are worried about the spread of rumors

Two, in the face of slander rumors, you can call the police to clarify, you can sue the people's court for rights protection according to law.

Those who slander or maliciously harm others shall be detained for not more than five days or fined not more than five hundred yuan; If the circumstances are serious, they shall be detained for more than five days and less than ten days, and may be fined up to five hundred yuan; Whoever constitutes a crime shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years, criminal detention, public surveillance or deprivation of political rights.

Third, don't play dumb in the face of rumors.

Never pretend that you don't know anything about other people's code words, because this kind of deaf performance will only make people believe rumors.

There's no point in pretending not to know. The first step in dealing with rumors is to admit that you know the existence of rumors.

If the existence of rumors directly affects the smooth development of your work, you must coordinate through key people. Even if you don't pursue the source of rumors, let everyone know through your boss that spreading rumors at will will bear the consequences, which is not allowed in the company.

Let everyone concentrate on their work instead of spreading some unconfirmed gossip. If rumors directly threaten your position in the company and your personal future in the company, you can't let them go easily.

We need to trace the source immediately and spread the news that you have asked a lawyer to pursue the responsibility through legal means. If you really find the source of the rumor, or if it is not the source of the rumor, it belongs to the spread of the rumor, then I am sorry and send a lawyer's letter to the other party immediately.

Since the purpose of slander is to make you feel uncomfortable and get you out, what is the need to be polite to each other? If rumors and slander damage your reputation, you can even call the police directly. Of course, before calling the police, it is best to lay a good foundation.

Therefore, as long as we make a calm analysis of ourselves and rumors, we will often find a more desirable way to deal with them.