Excellent template for a letter to a deceased relative

In the hearts of our loved ones, they are always there, as if they are still with us, no matter how long it takes. Although they are gone but they are in our hearts, let us write a letter to them. What follows are the letters I compiled to my deceased loved ones, welcome to read.

A sample letter to a deceased relative

Dear Mom and Dad:

Hello! Another Qingming Festival is here, a time to pay homage to your loved ones and express your gratitude. A day of mourning is also a sad holiday for me. My father has been away for some years, and my mother also passed away some time ago. Tonight, when I dragged my tired body back home and took off my police uniform, I saw the stools you once sat on and the dishes you used. Your voices and smiles appeared in my mind, and I couldn't help but burst into tears. Eye sockets. In the past few days, because my son has been busy with work, he has not been able to visit your graves to pay homage, and he has not been able to fulfill his filial piety properly. He feels guilty in every possible way.

Mom and Dad, I hope you don’t blame me. My son is responsible. During this year’s Qingming Festival, in addition to ensuring smooth traffic at major intersections in the city, our team is also responsible for maintaining traffic order at Sixialing Cemetery. There are tens of thousands of vehicles and more than 100,000 people arriving here every day. My task is to divert and divert the flow of vehicles and people coming to sweep the tomb, ensuring their smooth arrival and safe departure. Every morning at 7 o'clock in the morning, my comrades and I have to go on duty around the cemetery on time. We can't evacuate until the traffic calms down in the evening. So I can't spare the time to pay homage to you. I can only go home and think about the past. I pray silently in my heart and express my deep condolences.

Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been difficult to achieve at both ends! During your lifetime, I was busy with work and could not accompany you and honor you. Now that you have gone to another world, I cannot go to the tomb to lay incense or say a word. I really feel that I am very unfilial. However, I believe that my parents will understand and support my work. Because you have always taught me: Listen to the party, obey the organization's arrangements, and be a good policeman who satisfies the masses! During the Qingming Festival, all members of our detachment were on duty, and my colleagues, like me, gave up their vacations and stayed at their posts. , leaving the small house for everyone, ensuring safety and smooth flow. There is a firm belief in everyone's heart, which is to serve the people wholeheartedly; we are still adhering to a spirit, that is, "striving for the first, creating the first, winning the first" and "not afraid of hardship, not afraid of losses, not afraid of difficulties" Nanning Traffic Police Spirit! Our hard work has been praised by the general public?! Although I have been very tired and hard these days, my heart is full and satisfied, because I have always kept your teachings in mind and done what you want me to do. Seriously fulfill the glorious duty of a people's policeman!

Dear parents, it's late at night, and I will continue to be on the road early tomorrow morning. Please rest assured that I will do a good job and live up to my expectations. Your expectations have become your pride! That’s it for now. After I finish this period of work, I will definitely take your grandson to burn incense for you in front of the tomb and pay homage to you!

You Son of Zhang Hao

Part 2 of a sample letter to a deceased relative

Dear grandma:

How are you in heaven? Your soul already resides there. It's been a whole year, but you haven't really been laid to rest yet, your ashes are only temporarily placed on the mountain. Grandma, is it cold in heaven? Do you still think about our family? I am your youngest grandson, the youngest son of your only daughter.

I believe that you who passed away suddenly last year, when you are dying, when the end is coming, when you are breathing your last breath, when you are about to bid farewell to this world and all your relatives, you must be in your heart. There are still many helplessness and too late, too many things that are difficult to let go and endless concerns, which are the same as our feelings for you. We have always hoped that you would live to be a hundred years old, or even longer. Take the major events of my life as an example. Every time I went to see you before you were alive, you were very caring. You told me again and again that I needed to find someone, and before you left, you always told us that everything was going well. He told us not to come back for too long, and watched us leave from afar at the door of the house. We are all the same as you, with too much reluctance and concern for you.

Prior to this, at the end of last year, on the 100th day after your departure, we also conducted a worship ceremony in accordance with rural customs.

As the saying goes in Chaoshan, "Everything goes straight in a hundred days". It is a day that rural children value very much. My grandchildren all arrived that day. I also had the opportunity to go with my uncle to your birthplace, Qiankengzhai in Jiexi. And today is the first anniversary of your death, so we went to pay homage to you. It happens to be a weekend again. Just like your funeral ceremony and 100-day festival before, we don't need to ask for leave. Maybe it’s your just-in-time arrangement and your consideration for us as your soul returns to heaven. In the old house where you lived before your death, there were sacrifices prepared the day before. Seeing things and thinking about people, when I saw the things you used in the old house, I had a reverie again. Regarding your staggering figure, loving eyes, and gentle words, I vaguely seemed to have an illusion that you did not Even though you are far away, you are still alive in my heart as the youngest grandson, and in the hearts of our family.

Looking back on this late night last year, the moment I learned your bad news, my heart almost broke and tears rolled in my heart. To this day, I clearly remember that increasingly cold autumn night with drizzle. It was Tuesday, October 26, 2010, which was September 19th in the lunar calendar. I almost stayed up all night, thinking over and over again of your love for me, of your hard work, of your kindness and affability, and of the last time I saw you on Sunday a few days ago, you were obviously still fine. , speaking and hearing are all normal, why did you just leave like that? Before that, I had thought that one day you would leave us, but when it all came so suddenly, I still felt I read too quickly, too quickly, so I don’t believe it. I don’t think that your departure is an ironclad fact. Do you naively think that you are still there?

In the week since you left, the year has been approaching. At the age of thirty, I experienced the pain of losing a loved one for the first time in my life. I could only express my condolences with the silent words I was accustomed to, and let my tears turn into lines of words and flow freely. The real pain is in the heart. Once the pain is so deep, it cannot be explained with tears. In the midst of my heartache, I felt the impermanence of life and gained a special understanding of life. Life is nothing more than a few decades or hundreds of years. Life is the same for everyone. Emperors, generals, princes and concubines, no matter how noble or prominent their souls are, will eventually turn into a piece of loess; ordinary people, common people , no matter how poor or humble the soul is, it will eventually return to heaven. There is no reason why we should not cherish life, and there is no reason why we should give up on ourselves. There is nothing more sad or difficult to face than death. After experiencing the death of our loved ones, we must treat life well, cherish our limited life, cherish the time with our loved ones, and leave behind many unnecessary gains and losses. Be less blaming, more grateful, sincere, and kind to others.

In the past year since you left, our family is still living healthily and harmoniously. Every once in a while, I will mention how time flies and how long it has been since you left. You will also talk about your care for us during your lifetime, your life that has gone through many vicissitudes of life, your example of being a good person, educating us to be kind to others, and you have persevered no matter how hard the days are.

Today, we are living calmly after a year has passed, without the pain of facing your departure last year. I believe that no matter what happens, living well, living strong, and being kind to others is the response to your spirit in heaven. I believe that you are always there, and you will always be there, in that place called heaven, watching our growth and blessing our future generations with happiness and well-being.

Dear grandma, your son, my uncle and our family have been preparing to bury your ashes this year, so that you can be laid to rest as soon as possible so that your soul can have a place to live. Let you be buried together with your grandfather who left you decades ago, so that you will have a companion when you are buried in the ground. This is what is called life and death in the same cave at the same time. We can also clean your graveyard every Tomb-Sweeping Day in the future to remember you and express our condolences. This year I will work hard to fulfill my unfulfilled wish for many years as soon as possible so that my family will no longer have to worry and you will have peace of mind. I believe this is the best comfort to your soul in heaven and the greatest filial piety to your son-in-law, daughter and my parents.

Dear grandma, although you have passed away, we still deeply remember you! Respect you! Whether it is now or in the distant future, as long as it is our lifetime, we will continue to do the same as before. I will worship you on your death anniversary on the 19th day of the ninth month of the lunar calendar every year, tell you about our family's situation this year, and then use this to deeply remember your teachings and miss your kindness.

I would like to write this article to commemorate my grandmother who passed away on the first anniversary.

Your youngest grandson

Sample letter to a deceased relative

When the bad news came, I was deeply shocked and suddenly , I couldn't accept this fact for a moment. I didn't believe it was true. Maybe I was too sad. I didn't know how to cry. I let my tears roll down silently and soaked the pillow. This night was the longest and most difficult night in my life. I don't know how my heart was torn into pieces, and then fell one by one like fallen leaves.

God, why are you so blind? A good person took him away just as he was told, leaving his loved ones and friends heartbroken and heartbroken.

Yeyu weeps, as if she is shedding tears for your departure; Yefeng mourns, as if she is sorry for your departure.

No matter how deeply I call, brother, you will never be able to respond. Unexpectedly, the meeting before May Day turned out to be a farewell. You left quietly and affectionately. I couldn't even see you for the last time. You didn't even leave me a word, which made me infinitely sad. of sadness and regret. Brother, you have decided to get married on the National Day, but once you leave, you will never be able to lead your bride into the marriage hall, and you will never be able to enjoy the warmth and happiness of your wife and children around your knees. . God is so cruel. He has deprived you of all these rights. Can I not feel sad for you?

May, rainy May, sad May, ruthless May, May is a month I don’t want to remember again in this life. Because on May 3rd, my brother died in a foreign land and lost his precious life forever. From now on, your mother who loves you has lost an excellent son, your friend who loves you has lost a generous and loyal brother, and your lover who loves you deeply has lost an affectionate partner. All your close friends and relatives are shocked, sad and in tears because of your sudden passing.

At this moment, apart from sadness, there are only tears. I can't accept this sudden blow. My heart has been hollowed out. I have trouble sleeping at night and no appetite. What should I do? Brother, why did you leave us so cruelly? You love your job so much. , my relatives and friends who love you so much, how can you be willing to leave us like this? I wish that time could stop, so that you would still be alive with us, chatting and laughing with us; I wish that thoughts could solidify, so that there would be no more I will be saddened by my grief for you.

Brother, where are you? Can you come back to us? Can you look at your face again, touch your hand again, and hold me again. However, brother, you pretended not to hear my cry. I wish I could hear my brother’s laughter again, smell my brother’s smoke again, and taste the food I cooked by my brother again. My brother will never be able to fulfill such a simple request and leave you and the person you love forever.

Brother, you left, and my heart was hollowed out, and my heart was bleeding. Brother, your sudden departure has uprooted my pain and sadness. I don’t know how to get out of this deep pain. But I know that my brother often told me during his lifetime that he took life and death very lightly and always lived optimistically. Your wish also made me live a happier life. I will never forget what you said. For my brother’s unfulfilled wish, I will work hard to live happily.

In just a few days, my brother and I were separated from each other. How can we not be heartbroken? Now my brother has been buried among the green mountains. The mountains are crying for you, and only the green pines are with you. . In another world, brother, are you still used to it? You must be happy. Because we all love you brother, your spirit will always live in our hearts, and we will never forget you.

No words in the world can express the deep pain and sorrow in my heart for the loss of my brother. I type these words with tears at this moment to commemorate my brother who died young. This is a tribute to my brother's heroic spirit.

I wish my brother a good journey in heaven. I hope there will be no cars or car accidents in heaven.

Brother, rest in peace! If there is an afterlife, you will still be my good brother, okay?

Part 4 of a letter to a deceased relative

Dear Grandpa:

Hello!

It has been many years since you left us. Although I have never seen you, I really miss you and hope you can come back to life because I have a lot to say. I want to talk to you. When I was young, I never had the concept of a grandfather. It wasn’t until I went to kindergarten or elementary school and saw that other children had their own grandfathers, but I didn’t, that I asked my mother. My mother said: “My grandfather passed away in an accident.” ?I’m so sad, I couldn’t help but shed tears!

Grandpa, I’m nine years old now, and I’m about to enter the third grade of elementary school. Not only do I wear a red scarf, I’m also a member of the class. Health Committee member, I must study hard now and become a useful person in society in the future. You must cheer for me! Grandma is in good health now, but she is very lonely. Sometimes I feel sad when I think of you, but don’t worry, we I often visit her. Oh, by the way, grandpa, let’s not mention how happy we are that my sister was admitted to college this year. You will be very happy too, right? Grandpa, Dinghai has changed a lot now. It has also become a new district of Zhoushan Islands. If you How great it would be to see it! Grandpa, although this is a letter that cannot be sent, I really hope you can read it! Sincerely

Salute!

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Year, month and day

Part 5 of a letter to a relative who has passed away

My most beloved grandfather:

Today is already you It’s the 32nd day since you left me. You know, I really miss you. Especially when I am unhappy, I miss you very much, and every time I think of you, my heart aches. You probably don’t know it now, but I really hope you know it and can comfort me. I really want to talk to you.

A lot of things have happened recently, let me tell you slowly now. Not long after you left, Dad also went to the hospital for a minor operation. Although it was minor, he was in pain for a long time because he didn't listen to the doctor. If you were here, you would definitely talk about him again.

Do you know? After you left, my mother-in-law was really lonely. Now she is alone. She is really sad and sad, maybe more sad than any of us. Just Not long after you left, she also fell ill. Although she is not your biological mother-in-law, she has been with you all your life, so she still has some feelings for you, and I still feel heartache. In the past, she would often call you even if she was not at home; I would call you at least every week at school. Now she and I can call anyone. We all miss you. I'm really reluctant to let you go, but the reality is really cruel. Obviously you can still stay with us for a while, but? I really haven't come out now. I'm a little afraid to go home. I'm afraid that I will be everywhere when I go home. Your shadow will miss you more and feel more heartbroken. I feel that without you, the warmth of home is missing. It seems that home is no longer home. It feels so deserted. Every time I think of this, my heart aches and I can’t help crying. Maybe I am too fragile. . I really miss you, Grandpa!!!

After you left, I went through your old things and found that you were really a very careful person. You kept your daughter’s primary school days. You keep the homework you did when you were young, you keep the letters others wrote to you, and you keep photos of recent times, but what you keep the most are the receipts you received for withdrawing money. It can also be seen from this that you are also a very frugal person. Because the receipts for your money withdrawals will almost never exceed 500 yuan. But I also read your autobiography, and I realized that you were a person who had a very hard life, but you had a better chance to gloriously become a people's teacher. After reading your autobiography, my heart ached again. , I feel like I really didn’t understand you, and I felt very sorry for you. Maybe it’s because I’ve grown up, and I’m starting to understand some truth bit by bit. I'm sorry, my dearest grandfather.

I have also had some unpleasant experiences with him recently. Sometimes I feel that I think too much, but it is really uncomfortable. Sometimes I just keep holding it in. If I hold it in too much, I really miss him. I vented it out, but I really couldn't find a place to vent it. I just felt so uncomfortable. I missed you every night in those days, and I would cry secretly under the quilt every time. That feeling was really uncomfortable.

Have you met him, and you think he's okay? Yes, I think it's okay too, but sometimes I feel a little tired. Maybe it's the result of thinking too much. I really want to have a good time with him. Keep going, but I also know that life can't be smooth sailing. There will always be some twists and turns? Just try your best to bear it. Don't wait until the day you feel you can't bear it. Just let nature take its course.