Behind the "Xiong Haizi", there may be "parents of bears", and the absence of parental education deserves reflection.

I once saw a news that a "Xiong Haizi" dropped a bottle of water from the 35th floor. Although it didn't directly hit the pedestrian, it caused the pedestrian to fall and become disabled. According to this fact, the court sentenced the victim to compensate for medical expenses, disability compensation, nursing expenses, appraisal fees, spiritual comfort and so on, totaling more than 8, yuan. When this news came out, it instantly detonated widespread controversy. In fact, such news is not surprising and common.

Apart from netizens' abhorrence of high-altitude parabolic objects, it also triggered a heated discussion about "Xiong Haizi". In fact, in the face of "Xiong Haizi", parents should correct their children's wrong behavior in time and don't become "bear parents". Whether it causes serious consequences or not, it is parents' unshirkable responsibility to cultivate children's good behavior habits and improve their quality.

In fact, in life, there are many examples of "Xiong Haizi". Some parents can respond in time to correct their children's wrong behavior, but some parents indulge and spoil their children blindly, and even encourage their children's behavior to a certain extent. For example, when eating in a restaurant, many Xiong Haizi will run around the restaurant, which will not only disturb other guests' meals, but more importantly, people come and go in the restaurant and dishes are constantly passed around.

It can be seen that Xiong Haizi's bad behavior may not only affect others, but also hurt himself. Other children are usually taken care of by grandparents, and sometimes it is inevitable to cherish and spoil them a little more. Many times, grandparents are responsive to their children's needs, even if they are unreasonable, they accept them all.

For another example, a five-year-old child treats his grandfather as a horse, and occasionally whips him with a small whip. The parents of the children nearby not only did not stop him, but also laughed happily. And I believe that as bystanders, most of us may not be able to stand such a scene. Grandparents are old. It is time for parents to teach their children to care for and take care of the elderly. Why should they let their children "be the king and dominate" and treat the elderly as a toy that can be used at will, which does not reflect the traditional virtues of respecting the elderly?

Actually, when we talk about "Xiong Haizi", we don't mean that children can't be naughty. After all, it is children's nature to be playful and curious, and they still have too many unknowns and desires to explore the world. However, as parents, we must set a behavioral boundary for our children. A basic principle should be followed: don't disturb or hurt others, and of course, don't cause potential hidden dangers to children's own safety.

In fact, when we criticize "Xiong Haizi", we are also looking forward to a more positive guidance for children, so that they can know right from wrong and distinguish between good and bad. In this educational journey, parents undoubtedly play an extremely important role. The birth of many "Xiong Haizi" is due to the lack of education of parents, especially parents. Many "Xiong Haizi" have a "bear parent" hidden behind them. Just like the child who used grandpa as a horse and even whipped him, maybe if the parents on the side could stand up and stop the child in time, we wouldn't see such an uncomfortable picture.

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