During confinement, my mother-in-law gave me leftovers every day. How can I repay her?

Marriage is like a trip, you never know what will happen in front. Husband and wife walk hand in hand to explore the unknown distance together. No one knows whether distance is happiness or pain. What most couples don't know is that the happiness of this journey called marriage is actually in the hands of both husband and wife.

Manage a good marriage, then the front must be happiness; If the marriage management is not good, then it must be a painful marriage life waiting for the couple.

In the journey of marriage, couples will encounter all kinds of contradictions, temptations and even hardships. Because of this, it is not easy to get a happy marriage, because there are too many factors that can affect marriage.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is one of the main factors that affect marriage, and it is also one of the main problems that cause marriage conflicts. How many couples are helpless in the face of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and can only watch it slowly destroy their marriage.

In real life, how many couples divorce because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and how many couples are suffering the consequences of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become one of the important factors that destroy the relationship between husband and wife.

Therefore, if you want a happy marriage, you must learn how to deal with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is best to mediate before the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, otherwise it will be difficult to control when the conflict breaks out.

The high incidence of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually when the daughter-in-law is pregnant and confinement, because at this time, the mother-in-law will take care of the daughter-in-law or wait on confinement, and it is inevitable that there will be contradictions when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together for a long time.

The war between Xiaoli and her mother-in-law lasted for more than ten years. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in the same boat, and no one wants to bow to anyone. The infighting between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law broke out, which affected Xiaoli's marriage with her husband Paul Yupin and their feelings.

Once the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law breaks out, it shows that both sides can't stand it. It's too late to mediate contradictions at this time.

When Xiaoli married Paul Yupin, Paul Yupin was still a poor boy with nothing. His family is average, his parents are farmers, and there are many children at home. Paul Yupin belongs to that kind of neglected child. He didn't study well, so he went out to work after graduating from high school and met Xiaoli when he was working.

At that time, two people were only in their twenties and loved each other. Xiaoli thinks that Paul Yu Pin is honest and good to herself, so she agrees to be with him.

Xiaoli's family is also very ordinary. She also has two brothers. Because she is the youngest child in the family, she has been loved by her family since childhood.

At that time, both of them worked in a factory and talked about love for more than two years, because they were young at that time and were not in a hurry to get married. At the age of 24, Paul Yu Pin and Xiaoli discussed going back to their hometown for development. Over the years, he has saved some money, and it is more than enough to go back to his hometown to do some small business.

Xiaoli agreed. They are fellow villagers and their hometown is very close. After returning to their hometown, the two first prepared to get married. When both parents met, they had no objection to this marriage. So the wedding was held smoothly.

After the marriage, the two opened a small restaurant in the local county. Both of them are hard-working, so business is not bad. At that time, two people lived separately from their parents-in-law, who were in the country and two people were in the county, so they lived in peace.

In the second year after marriage, Xiaoli became pregnant. In order to take good care of her, Paul Yu Pin took her mother over.

Now the "war" between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has officially begun.

When her mother-in-law arrived, she said she was taking care of Xiaoli, but she didn't contribute. When Paul Yu Pin was here, her mother-in-law took care of her very carefully, being caring and attentive. But when Paul Yu Pin was away, her mother-in-law didn't care about Xiaoli at all, and sometimes she had to instruct Xiaoli to wait on her.

Xiaoli was very angry with her mother-in-law, a two-faced woman, and complained to Paul Yupin, but Paul Yupin didn't believe her.

When her mother-in-law knew that Xiaoli was complaining to her son, it was even worse and she found fault everywhere in her life. It is not that Xiaoli spends her son's money indiscriminately, nor that Xiaoli is unfilial and slanders herself behind her back. She is a villain.

At first, Xiaoli chose patience in the face of her mother-in-law's difficulties. Later, her mother-in-law became more and more troublesome. She couldn't bear it anymore and had a quarrel with her mother-in-law. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law escalated.

Xiaoli was a daughter when she gave birth to a child, and her mother-in-law treated her worse, saying that her stomach failed to live up to expectations, and she gave birth to a loss-making product, which could not be passed down to the next generation. She was a waste.

Xiaoli was very angry at her mother-in-law's abuse, so the contradiction with her mother-in-law deepened.

Moreover, her mother-in-law often gives Xiaoli leftovers when she is in confinement, or she doesn't cook. Xiaoli is very wronged and resents her mother-in-law.

After serving Xiao Li, her mother-in-law returned to her hometown in the countryside. After so many years of marriage, Xiaoli has never taken the initiative to see her mother-in-law. Every time her mother-in-law comes over, she will reprimand, satirize and even insult Xiaoli. Xiaoli keeps all this in mind.

After ten years of marriage, the relationship between Xiaoli and Paul Yupin tends to be dull. Like many middle-aged couples, there is almost nothing to talk about.

Between Xiaoli and her mother-in-law, it is also a state of growing old together until death do us part. However, not long ago, a serious illness of her mother-in-law made Xiaoli "revenge".

Mother-in-law got an acute illness and was admitted to the hospital. Her other children can't come back in the field for a while, and her mother-in-law won't let them come back because she is afraid of spending money. She wants Paul Yu Pin and Xiaoli to take care of her.

Xiaoli said directly to her face, "What did you say when you were waiting on the moon ten years ago? Does that mean you don't need me to raise you in your life? I have to listen to you. Do you want me to wait on you? No! " Xiaoli said, turned and left.

Paul Yu-pin has been asking her to take care of him since he came home, but Xiaoli insisted on not going. Paul Yu-pin was busy with work and had little time, so her mother-in-law had to ask a nurse to take care of him.

Xiaoli heard that her mother-in-law regretted it. She shouldn't have done this to her in the first place. She is old and sick, and there is no one around to take care of herself. Xiaoli thought, it's too late to regret now.

In fact, many times the mother-in-law thinks that it is right for her daughter-in-law to be filial to herself. In fact, there are too many things that should be done in this world. It is mutual affection for a daughter-in-law to be filial to you. If there is no affection between you, there is no need to be filial to you.