Chinese Valentine's Day: True love comes with human fireworks

The fine clouds make tricks, the flying stars spread hatred,

The silver man is far away in darkness.

As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet,

they will defeat countless people in the world.

When I was a child, I often looked at the bright starry sky in Ke Tian, ????and I was always worried about Niulang and Weaver Girl, hoping that one day they would meet again. Their story is the most beautiful interpretation of love.

Chinese Valentine's Day is here again. In your mind, what does it feel like to defeat countless love in the world?

Are they Jack and Rose from Shipwreck on the Ice? Or the prince and Cinderella?

Or is it a romantic and charming wedding between celebrities?

Or childhood sweethearts?

Or in a corner of a certain city, that light that shines only for you?

True love is always condensed over time

What is love?

Some people say that love is the steadfastness of knowing you through all the hardships;

Others say that love is the deepest lovesickness after first seeing each other.

True love does not last for a while. It must be washed and baptized by the years and formed through the hard work of life.

When a person gets so old that he can’t even remember his own name, when he hears his wife’s name, his wrinkled face will show an innocent smile like a child. This kind of emotion that fully blends with the years and comes together is the most beautiful love.

The love between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang in the last century touched countless people——

Qian Zhongshu said to his wife Yang Jiang: From now on, we can only say goodbye. No birth and separation.

The two of them have been really good for a lifetime.

What is surprising is that they were formed by their parents.

After meeting, these two recognized talents in the Chinese literary world did not have a sentence that could be passed down through the ages. The moving words and phrases, on the contrary, are rubbish!

Qian Zhongshu said: I am not engaged, and Yang Jiang replied, neither am I!

The blind date was successful!

There was no heart-warming vow of alliance between the two people after their marriage. They were committed to the end, and they even did not hesitate to "steal" other people's words to express their feelings!

Yang Jiang read the book by the British biographer to Qian Zhongshu: "Before I met her, I never thought about getting married; I married her for decades and never regretted marrying her; nor did I regret marrying her. I have never thought about marrying another woman."

Qian Zhongshu immediately said, "I am the same as him." Yang Jiang replied, "Me too."

A second-year elementary school student. In terms of grade level, it actually perfectly sums up their decades-long love.

I have to say that the two of them seemed to be cutting corners when it came to expressing their feelings!

Loving someone is not a momentary hand-holding, but a lifelong heart-holding.

True love is always polished by life

In addition to talented people and beauties, our country is more about ordinary people's long-lasting love stories.

The most touching thing about Chinese Valentine's Day is not the extravagance between wealthy families, but the ordinary days of simple life. This kind of love often lasts longer.

In this world, there is the most solemn and profound love called mutual dependence.

It is a long-lasting penetration, a kind of warmth integrated into each other's lives.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: Time can understand love, prove love, and overthrow love.

In 2017, in the mountains of Guizhou, my country, there was a couple whose combined age exceeded 215 years. Their marriage had lasted for more than 90 years. They were recognized by the China Elderly Association as the couple with the longest marriage in China for nearly a century. In their married life, they interpret the love of ordinary people.

The male protagonist Yang Shengzhong is 109 years old, slightly deaf and doesn't speak much.

My wife Jin Jifen is 106 years old. She is very talkative, has good hearing and vision, clear thinking and loves to laugh.

The two of them were childhood relatives. When Jin Jifen was 17, she married Yang Shengzhong, who was three years older than her. The two had never dated before.

Jin Jifen revealed the secret of the two of them in their early years. Before they got married, Yang Shengzhong often went to her house to help with farm work in order to "please" her parents, but she had already run away shyly.

When they got married, the only jewelry her husband gave her was a pair of fake silver bracelets.

She said that the things were fake but his feelings for her were true. She did not blame him because her family was poor and sometimes, in order to fill their stomachs, the two of them had to go to the mountains to pick wild vegetables to satisfy their hunger. This is how hard times come.

Previous cadres in the village said that they had never seen the couple get angry when they quarreled.

"Naughty" Jin Jifen said: He can't hear now, let alone make noise!

While everyone was chatting, old man Yang Shengzhong didn't say much. He just looked at his wife lovingly and smiled naively. Who dares to say that what they have is not love!

I love you not only for your beauty and your joyful and charming youth, but also for the wrinkles on your face as you age.

Some people say that true love is like wine, brewed over time.

True love always has the smoke of human fireworks

Fatuman wrote in her book "The Smoke of Human Fireworks":

"Some people say fireworks Qi is tacky, because it is full of blandness, but I only love to embrace the trivial warmth exuded by the smoke in life, but it is the most authentic life Qi.

I like to cook and do housework; I like to buy vegetables and go to the morning market; I like the kitchen and the vegetable garden

I like the sound of pots and pans clinking, and the sound of clinking on the cutting board. Ding-dang-dang, I like the boiling in the oil pan, I like the steaming fried dough sticks and soy milk in the early morning, I like the shouting and bargaining at the wet market, I like watering the vegetable fields and pulling weeds to drive away the bugs, and I like watching the little green seedlings turn into cucumbers, beans, radishes Cabbage..."

True love is always hidden in the trivialities of life, and is full of fireworks.

In this life, I hope someone will stand with you in the evening, someone will ask you whether the porridge is warm, and someone will accompany you through the long years.

On Chinese Valentine's Day, I hope I can look back in time and grow old with deep love!