What happened to those who got married in a hurry because their parents urged them to get married?

The real example that happened around me is that two people have divorced. Marriage is a very important thing in life, so it should be carefully considered and decided, instead of urging children to get married early all day, and it is most appropriate to decide for themselves.

Many parents are particularly anxious when their children reach marriageable age but have no partners. They found the other half and got married in a hurry. They want their children to get married and have children as soon as possible. It seems that they are much more anxious than their clients, but some things are urgent, especially in marriage. Two people want to spend their lives together, and making a hasty decision is to lose their wives and lose their soldiers.

There are two living examples around me. There is a boy in the village, who is almost 30 years old and has no object yet. His parents are very anxious and have been arranging blind dates for him. In our countryside, it is difficult for boys over 30 to find a partner. Either he looked down on others or others looked down on him, so many blind dates failed. In February this year, I met a girl through the introduction of his elder sister-in-law. Both of them have a good impression on each other, so they went on blind dates twice after meeting. I also know each other's problems very well. It is interesting to see that the two of them are interested in each other. His elder sister-in-law and parents told him to get married early. At first, he refused, feeling that he had just met someone and didn't know. It is inappropriate to get married so soon. He wanted to talk for a while, but his parents urged him every day, bought him something as a bride price, and were anxious to let him go to the woman's house to find a job. However, he had to follow him.

Our banquet here depends on the date. The appropriate date for wine release was 165438+ 10, but in June, the two divorced. After marriage, the two don't get along, and they often quarrel over a little thing. Moreover, the man's job here is not very stable and there is no fixed income. These are the root causes of their dispute. Although their parents made up many times in the middle, they were still their clients that day. Others say that no amount can help much. If you want to leave, you will always leave. Finally, draw water with a sieve. His mother was so angry that she didn't want to take care of him anymore. He also complained that his parents had to make their own decisions. Things are pretty stiff now.

A friend I know, she was 3 1 year old. According to our convention, most women of this age are married, and children who get married early will play soy sauce, but she is still alone. Her mother cried and hanged herself, and when she met a boy on a blind date, she was in a hurry to get married. After about a year of marriage, she divorced. She said that when there was a conflict, the two men fought directly, and no child said it. Up to now, several years have passed, and she is still single, completely ignoring what her mother said.

It is normal for parents to worry about their children's lifelong events, so don't interfere too much, let alone make decisions for their children at will. It is the most important thing that they get along well in this life. Today's society is not what it was in the 1970s and 1980s. Unlike the older generation, they have to live together even if they submit to humiliation, so the divorce rate is high now. Therefore, be more cautious when getting married. We should also make decisions for our own life events, not just obey our parents' arrangements.