What should I do if my girlfriend is too sloppy?

Such a sloppy woman who doesn't like cleanliness must have no expectations for life and herself. This is the root of the problem. She is not necessarily unhappy, but there is nothing to be happy about, so it doesn't matter if she sleeps in the garbage.

Even if I clean the house, the woman in the mirror will not become more beautiful, and my husband will not become richer. So, what is the point? It is better to escape from reality and play games! I suggest you spend some money to buy her a set of high-end cosmetics. Help her clean up a neat and practical dressing table.

Let her gradually come out of the game, fall in love with makeup and fall in love with herself. Let her put down the game first and love herself. This dresser is the first step. Keeping it clean for a long time is the cleanest corner in the house. Of course, you must have kept it at first. You can buy some flowers from time to time and put them on the makeup table, urge her to make up and praise her for her beauty. Gradually, she will prefer herself in the mirror to herself in the game. Other messy places in the home can be compared with here.

Step two, you can buy her some beautiful skirts and hang them neatly in the corner of the wardrobe. Let her dress you every night, praise her and forbid her to play games. Then you can take this opportunity to invite her to tidy up the closet. Remember that this is an invitation, not a compulsion. If she doesn't want to, then don't force her. Believe me, if this continues, one day she will clean up this messy wardrobe by herself!

The third step is to find a weekend, find some aunts who do odd jobs and clean the house. Remember to tell my aunt that the family is in such a mess because my girlfriend has been home for a month and she is alone. Don't call your aunt unsanitary in front of her! That's what women do! If you are disappointed in her, she can let you down! If you dare to expect her, you must dare to change!

After the house is cleaned, you can sit in the clean living room and cook a good meal. When she is happy, you can invite her to clean the room with you. Teach her by hand like a child, throw the garbage into the trash can, put a garbage bag before throwing it, make the bed early, throw the dirty clothes into the dirty laundry basket or washing machine, there should be no leftovers in the refrigerator for more than two days, don't kick shoes when entering the door, put them in the shoe cabinet and so on.

Let her trust you and feel that you are not abandoning her, but just loving her. Of course, you can't force her if she doesn't want to. Wait till she's in a good mood next time.