The life you want can only be achieved through your own efforts.

Those who drive luxury cars, go to high-end clubs, carry Starbucks coffee, and wear crisp suits. You envy their wealth, status and people's respect for them, but you don't know, they eat How much suffering.

The kind of person you will meet depends on the kind of person you are.

If your monthly income is over 10,000 yuan, then people with 2,000 to 3,000 yuan are bound to not dare to chase you, because they are afraid that they cannot afford it. If you can afford lipstick worth a few hundred yuan, , the person who gives you cosmetics is destined not to give you cheap street stall products.

Someone once asked me, he said, you are a girl, why do you have to toss around, often stay up late and work overtime, for what? I said it’s for myself, so I try to do my best and let the choice be in my own hands in the future.

They say that if a girl finds someone with a car and a house, she won’t have to work so hard in the future. But let me tell you, if you earn all this by yourself, then your status in the family will not be the same. I will be very tough in front of my mother-in-law.

If you envy others who have necklaces, rings, bracelets and other jewelry, then you can make money to buy them for yourself, but you also have to work hard to meet someone who is willing to buy them for you, just like you have to meet someone who is willing to give them to you. You are the one who cooks and eats, but you must also learn to cook.

There is no such thing as a peaceful life. If you want something, just work hard for it. Your overall quality will determine the kind of person you meet.

When we don’t have money to enrich our material life, we can enrich our spiritual life through reading, enrich our experience by traveling, and learn new skills by constantly improving ourselves. As long as you keep walking in the direction of improving yourself, you will be able to use it sooner or later.

Girls, you must be financially independent, so that you can have the confidence to live.

In the past few years, I have traveled to many places and experienced some things. I have been hesitant and helpless, I have been wronged, and I have been lying in bed and felt that even the air was so oppressive. When I was suffocating, I was alone in a foreign country and had no one to help me when I encountered difficulties, so I learned to be strong. I learned to change light bulbs by myself, cook porridge by myself, and occasionally cook. Although I was very poor at it, if I didn't With those experiences, I probably wouldn’t have tried to learn to cook.

I was crying until I got lost and saw a snack bar. I calmed down enough to go in and order a meat bun with a glass of lemon juice.

In the past, I would get angry if I was dissatisfied with the smallest thing. Now I am much calmer than before. When encountering a problem, I will think about how to solve it and deal with it. If the main plan fails, then prepare What are the options.

From the little girl who believed in fairy tale love stories, she has become a girl who wants to have a better life, so she has to suffer more when she is young and complain as little as possible about life. Discovering the beautiful things in life, I want to buy a leather jacket, so I work hard to make money to buy it. I want to treat my family, so I work hard to make money to go to a big hospital to see a doctor. Although I still have some debts that have not been paid off, I am still walking in the future. Work hard to get back on the road.

When you only have a thousand yuan to live on, and you are struggling every month, then the person who chases you can treat you to a big meal and add a few bouquets of roses to move you. But when you earn tens of thousands a month, treat yourself occasionally, buy clothes that cost more than 2,000 yuan a piece, and travel to your favorite ancient city, then the person who pursues you will want to give you a house or something. It is a luxury item, but the premise is that you have the capital to make money. The harder you work, the luckier you will be.

Don’t believe that people who are not good themselves will meet great people.

The woman behind the underworld boss is actually not an ordinary woman, and the woman behind every successful man is actually not simple either.

Zweig wrote in "Marie Antoinette, the French Queen Who Died on the Guillotine" that all gifts of fate have a secret price tag.

I think this sentence is very reasonable. Even if you are born with a good card in life, if you don’t work hard, you will still be beaten into a mess. I think the truly awesome people , even if you have a bad card in your hand, you can still play wonderfully.

Lai Dongjin, the author of "Beggars", relied on begging when he was young, but eventually founded his own company, gained a wife with a good family background, and was able to take care of his wife who was unable to take care of himself. His parents suffered a lot, but in the end he gained everything he wanted.

I myself was born in a small rural area in the north. When I was a child, my family was very poor. There was no harvest for one year. When the corn came out, I boiled it and ate it every day. When the potatoes came out, I ate potatoes every day. I even read the review materials when I was in junior high school. None. My dad squeezed out 50 cents for lunch from between his teeth every day.

But now, I also have a college degree and have been working in the education industry for several years. But I am still far away from the life I want, so I need to work harder.

I don’t want to have a day when my family is sick and I have to borrow money from everywhere. I don’t want to have a day when I don’t have my own place to live. I don’t want to have a day when people around me talk about books and I don’t know about emerging writers. Who is.

? Only if you work hard enough can you deserve to have everything you want and the lifestyle you want.