I have a friend around me who tries to imitate everything I wear, talk, behave, family, children, husband and everything. Why?

What I want to say is that others imitate you, which is sometimes an affirmation to you. Because your dignified and generous way of dressing will imitate you and make yourself as excellent as you. But for people who imitate in all aspects, it is really annoying. Can be ignored. A good person, others are imitating, but she is still herself.

In our life, there are always imitations of others' behaviors. Generally speaking, we imitate people we respect and admire. He imitated his parents when he was young. He imitates school teachers and successful people in society. In this case, a friend chooses to imitate her good friend, which may lead to excessive inferiority. She may feel that she is far away from her friends, so in order to make up the gap, she imitates her friends.

Imitation can be conscious or unconscious. We often behave as automatic imitation and intentional imitation. In intentional imitation, the imitator imitates purposefully and actively. Even if he or she doesn't know why others do it, she thinks it's good and will imitate it. If the friend in this case belongs to this kind of imitation, he must meet his own needs through imitation, but this demand may also infringe on the interests of the parties to this case, and he does not know this; Of course, the two sides are not friends. It is the object of imitation learning, so even if you realize that it will affect your friends, you may not pay special attention. In addition, the unconscious imitation does not mean that it must be unconscious, but the level of consciousness may be relatively low, and it is impossible to clearly grasp the motivation and purpose of imitation. If the friend in the case is an imitator, she may not realize that she is imitating her friend.