Friends of the opposite sex say that wives always tell outsiders things. Do you think this is right?

Family harmony has always been the goal pursued by married families, both at home and abroad, and the center of a family has no intention of starting from two people forming a marriage relationship. How can husband and wife always maintain a harmonious relationship? That is, between husband and wife, don't tell outsiders about these three things, otherwise it will be easy to lose! Leave? Happiness? These two words will only get farther and farther.

1. Never complain about your husband's shortcomings in front of friends. As a man, he is destined to bear most of the family burdens from birth. In the eyes of parents, he is the hope of the family, and in the eyes of his wife, he is a harbor to rely on; There is always no perfect person, and there are many kinds of shortcomings, and the weight is different. Now that we are married, both sides should understand and respect each other. Tolerance is not a matter for one side, but for both sides. Many wives will complain to their friends after they feel that they don't understand and feel wronged. This kind of behavior is undoubtedly very harmful to their husbands' self-esteem. However, there is always an impenetrable wall in the world. Under the exaggerated expression of friends, the small problem you said may become a big problem. How do many people feel when they are criticized by their husbands?

2. Don't always take your husband out to compare with others. It is very valuable to know how to cherish and be content. People who are content tend to be happier. ? Compare? This word has existed since a long time ago, and its significance is only to satisfy the vanity of many people. The husband, as a living person, is compared as an object, competing for advantages and disadvantages, which is also extremely disrespectful to personality. What's more, they will feel ashamed to talk about it under the contrast of a group of friends, and then go home and lose their temper with their husbands. If we do this, everyone will be unhappy. How can we be happy?

3. Don't gossip about your family outside. Many families will have many problems with their relatives, and unreliable relatives can't be controlled by themselves. For example, the man's cousin has done something shameful. At this time, as a wife, you should choose silence and not treat these things as? Hot news? Tell a neighbor and friend. If you do this, you will lose the face of your own family, and the rumors outside will inevitably bring your own family; If the mother-in-law's family also knows that this matter is said by the daughter-in-law, there will be some quarrels. People are mutual. If you want to do a good job in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, at the very least, you have to take the family affairs as your own business.

There are endless troubles in life, but the best way to solve them is to keep a good attitude, don't blame others, and don't feel sorry for yourself. People with families always have a sense of belonging, and happy families will make people feel more worried. No matter what setbacks or bad things they encounter outside, they will feel warm when they get home. And an unharmonious family will only make people want to escape. Under the trend of social pressure, many middle-aged men have begun to resist going home. The pressure of work during the day is great, and it is a painful thing to listen to his wife's endless complaints at night. Therefore, everyone still needs two people to understand each other in life, and life will be comfortable.