How do you feel about working with middle-aged and elderly women?

I was transferred to a department soon after I started working. Among the four of us, one was a man, who was unmarried at the time, and the other three were all women, and all were in middle age. The department is not busy with work, and these three ladies are very harmonious. They talk to each other about anything when they sit down, and they don't shy away from me. They often communicate about their respective marital lives last night. I really feel...

When talking about the feeling of working with middle-aged women, it mainly depends on what kind of middle-aged women you meet. Different personalities bring different feelings to people.

When talking about this topic, I remembered a middle-aged woman I met when I was working in a company many years ago. At that time, I was in my mid-twenties and she was in her forties. It had been so long that I couldn’t remember my exact age. I was doing design at the time, and she applied to come to the company to do budgeting.

When you first meet her, you can tell that she is a cheerful and energetic middle-aged woman. On the first day he came to the company, he started chatting with us without any sense of unfamiliarity or restraint as a newcomer. When working with middle-aged women with this kind of personality, there is no generation gap, and there is no need to worry about running out of topics to talk about. It may also be related to her working years. She has experienced many things, contacted many people, and has rich experience. No matter what age group she is with, she can find topics to talk to you. Therefore, even though she is much older than me, it is quite pleasant to have sex together.

I remember one afternoon, there were not many people in the company, and we started chatting after finishing the work at hand. After chatting here and there, she suddenly asked me if I had a partner, and I said no at the moment. She immediately said: You look pretty good. I have a niece who I can introduce to you. I asked: Is she as beautiful as you? She immediately laughed loudly and said: You are joking about me, an old woman. A girl in her twenties must be much prettier than me. We cannot compare her age. You have such a sweet mouth. There are many such laugh-out-loud moments when we work together.

Although this middle-aged sister and I are more than ten years apart in age, we have no bad feelings about each other when we work and do things together, and we get along very happily and harmoniously.

Before, she met a middle-aged woman who was engaged in finance, and the feeling when working together was different. She is a few years older than the budget eldest sister, and her personality is not that cheerful. I can definitely feel the generation gap when we work together, and her mentality is not that positive and optimistic. She always likes to complain and complain, which gives people a feeling of depression.

Therefore, we seldom chat and only have contact for work reasons. One thing she often likes to say is: "I'm old and not like you young people anymore." This sentence makes others unable to continue the conversation and dampens the enthusiasm for chatting. Sometimes colleagues play poker together during lunch break, but she doesn't participate much. She always feels that she is our elder and cannot play together. It's really not a good feeling to work with this middle-aged lady.

Therefore, the feeling of working with middle-aged women is not fixed. It mainly depends on the specific state of the person, whether the feeling is good or bad. There is an important relationship between personality and mentality.

Tell us what it is like to work with middle-aged women?

When working with middle-aged and elderly women, the cheerful ones are made into depression, and the depressed ones are made into happy ones. The spiritual ones have been transformed into nerves, and the nervous ones have been transformed into great gods.

I used to be a middle-aged and elderly woman in a workshop of a printing factory. Every day when I opened the door of the workshop, it was like entering a duck shed by mistake, and it was so lively.

At that time, printing and typesetting was still relatively backward, and there were no computers today. I was worried when I took the typesetting paper pattern. Among the middle-aged and elderly typesetters, none of them went through menopause on time. They were always noisy and the pattern design was never satisfactory in their eyes.

The broken printing press is in the hands of another group of middle-aged and elderly women, who have never been able to print efficiently. They print for five minutes and tinker for half an hour. Print for half a day, bang bo for a whole day. When the printing press finally stopped, my head was heavier than a truckload of newspapers.

There is also the final process. The middle-aged and elderly women who cut and fold the pages are relatively leisurely compared to picking words, typesetting, and printing, but their mouths are busier than anyone else.

What gossip, marriage, weight loss, raising children, meals, health products... It's just a radio and television station.

To this day, when I think of that scene, my head is buzzing and I have to immediately drink two ounces of white wine and two bottles of beer to stop it.

When I first started working, I was the accountant in the workshop. In our office, there were four of us girls in our early twenties and a forty-five-year-old female secretary. Our workshop director was in his thirties. The foreman has five male colleagues who are all in their thirties. We don't have much work to do all day long. We all stay in the office and just gather together to chat, but this secretary always likes to take care of things. No matter what, not only do we dislike her, but the director and foremen also dislike her, and what’s more! Why did a 45-year-old woman at that time seem so old to us? We actually all call her old lady! It’s too much to think about now! But at that time she was so marginalized and annoying! Then she was withdrawn! She retreated at the age of forty-five. She really didn't want to leave at that time and cried several times, but she finally retreated! We are so happy that she is gone! At that time, I felt like I had an extra old woman! It really feels like that! Now that I think about it, I feel sorry for her! Secretary Liao! Aunt Liao! sorry! I'm the labor employee you called a smart little fool!

I remember that when I was 12 years old, I worked in a Taobao company. At that time, I was working as a front-line operator, and there was a fellow from Henan on the assembly line who was in his 40s.

The people seem to be quite kind. I am a talkative person. I got into a heated relationship with them within a few days of arriving. The aunt is also very good to us newcomers, but there is nothing wrong with it. If you know, run over and ask your aunt and she will tell you.

What impressed me most was that the aunt asked her son to find a girlfriend, saying that his son was stupid and couldn't speak. She showed us that there was a suitable introduction to him, and then gave us a lot of candies. Eat, the most important thing is that the girlfriend is not found.

I feel that it is good to work with middle-aged women. She is like a senior and can teach you a lot of things. What do you think?

Our office is all female, and I think my colleagues all have very good personalities. But in the office opposite, there is a young man born in the 1990s and a 50-year-old woman. I can always see them not turning on the air conditioner. Using the fan, the boy looked speechless and collapsed, but the girl was enjoying herself. I guess she was afraid of the cold, so she just turned off the air conditioner and let us all accompany me in my heat stroke.

Unfortunately, I When I went to work for the first time, my colleagues were all women who were ten to twenty years older than me. I didn’t know what the problem was. In those years, I found it very difficult to go to work. I felt like I couldn’t fit in with them. They were also new to me. I was ostracized, and without the help of my seniors, even though I was cautious in what I said and did, I didn’t win anything. In the end, I had a low self-esteem and felt stupid and useless. After ten years in that unit with a lot of women, it brought me What came out was only doubts about interpersonal relationships, which was not what the media said in the book. Now that I am away from the place that consumes my positive energy, looking back, I feel that those people were narrow-minded and stupid. It was just that I was too Innocent values ????too much importance on the relationship between colleagues

Older women are different, some are kind, some are picky, and some are unscrupulous. There was an aunt who forgave me when I made mistakes when I first entered the industry and helped me make up for it. Now that we no longer work together, I still visit her often. I am grateful to her for bringing me into the industry and nurturing me. The current aunt I feel is my mother-in-law. I won’t go into details. After all, she is so old. The main reason is that she is always too private. She is super conservative about things at work. She often loses her temper over small things outside of work. She usually closes the door and does her best. Even if you have a job, you can live peacefully. A few days ago, a colleague of the same age as me fell ill. I sent her to the hospital before she went to the hospital. She told me with tears in her eyes that she could do her job but she had to keep herself healthy. Don't get angry with your mother-in-law and mother-in-law, be yourself, do your work happily, and change places if you are unhappy. Hope she recovers soon! I would like to say something weak here, it seems that men are easier to get along with than women, and menopause seems to be less obvious in men.

Most women are also good. The people you meet during your career advancement are very important. I hope everyone can meet kind and capable seniors and have smooth sailing on the road ahead.

When I was an accountant, three of my colleagues must be in their fifties! How to say it? It kind of ruins your outlook! Once again, I went out to do errands with one of them. There was a row of cars parked on the roadside and we passed by. A car was about to reverse out. I stopped and waited, but she just brushed against the back of the car and walked forward. The person reversing was forced to stop and wait for her to pass first. Later I asked her if she didn't see the car reversing? It would be dangerous if there is a blind spot in the field of vision or there is no radar. He replied directly to me. What are you afraid of? I wouldn’t dare to hit him even if I had ten nerves... Maybe I’m being hypocritical! After working for three months, I decided to resign! I am afraid that I will be affected by it and become the aunt that everyone dislikes

For middle-aged and elderly women, this is really sad, and they feel a little unwelcome. In fact, I have also entered the ranks of middle-aged women.

This should be divided into several categories. There is a type of middle-aged and elderly women who have a certain level of education and have worked in the workplace for a long time. They are well-mannered in all aspects. You should be able to learn a lot from being with them. And their care and concern is just right. The eldest sister I used to work with is about to retire. Her lover is a leader of a company, but she is never arrogant and is dedicated to her work. She is absolutely assured of the things assigned to her. If we say that she is as smart as a orchid, she really is. Just right. She would always take care of everyone during lunch in the cafeteria. Even after the meal, she would still wait for everyone. Anyway, it's very comfortable to get along with. No matter what happens, she won't panic, just like the magic needle that fixes the sea.

But another type of older sister may be really uncomfortable to get along with and full of negative energy. The only people I talk to you about are the parents of the east and the west, or they will talk about their own family affairs. Indeed, this is related to individual differences, personal personality, and personal vision. But in fact, this kind of person actually has her own advantages, including enthusiasm. When it comes to matchmaking for young people's marriages and whatever happens at home, these older sisters are still very enthusiastic and really willing to help.

Lifelong growth should be a required course for everyone. If we don’t learn it, we will indeed become what others call “middle-aged and elderly women”!