What are some words of advice to patients and their families?

I would like to advise the patient’s family members to take it easy and take it as it comes. If we cannot choose the disease, then we can choose the attitude towards the disease. The stronger, more optimistic, and more positive we face it, the greater our hope.

I compare your pain to white clouds, let the breeze of my care gently blow it away; I compare your pain to ice, let the sunshine of my care gradually melt it. . I wish you a speedy recovery. Maybe I am just the shade of a tree that you occasionally pass by, and I am willing to bear the burning of the scorching sun for you; maybe I am just a shooting star that quietly passes by when you look up at the stars, and it is only because of you that I bloom at all costs.

How to comfort others

If you really don’t have the energy or mood to listen to or comfort the other person, then sincerely tell them that I really want to be with you and listen to you. Talk about it. But because there are so many things going on today, I’m a little tired, so I’m afraid I won’t be able to support you well. How about we find a later time to talk.

If the other party is angry because of this, we should not force it, let alone criticize ourselves. Just like if you encounter an accident on an airplane, even if your child is sitting next to you, you must put on your own oxygen mask first.

So if you don’t take care of yourself, you can’t take care of others effectively and continuously. Of course, everyone speaks differently. Everyone is welcome to use comforting techniques flexibly according to specific cultures and situations to help people around you.