"You have to have a second child, or you have to give up the bride price and get divorced." What should I do if I marry a husband who prefers boys to girls?

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A family that values boys over girls is a nightmare for every woman. Married to such a family, the happiness of married life depends entirely on whether the child born to a woman is male or female.

If boys are happy, women's status at home will also rise; But if you have a daughter, then the next life can be said to be difficult.

Unfortunately, Cheng Yu married such a family, and her son preference seems to be integrated into the blood of their family. Especially after she gave birth to her daughter, married life was like falling into hell.

When talking about the wedding, Cheng Yu didn't see that men were so patriarchal, but she thought it was not bad. But since the birth of the child, it has been revealed. This makes Cheng Yu feel that the gap is too big.

The two met on a blind date. At that time, the two families were actually a little far away, and it was not easy to inquire about the situation. Cheng Yu's mother did ask, but she didn't get any useful information.

The matchmaker spoke very well about the man. When they met, Cheng Yu really didn't think anything was wrong with him, and they got along well, so they decided to have a relationship soon after meeting.

Maybe if two people meet on blind dates, the progress will be faster. Cheng Yu and the man have only been in love for half a year, and the matchmaker and his family began to urge them to get married.

Cheng Yu is actually a little hesitant. Although she likes men, she still wants to spend some time together. However, the family is in a hurry, and Cheng Yu has been to his house several times. Although the prospective mother-in-law looks strong, she is very enthusiastic about herself.

So after much reasoning, Cheng Yu nodded and agreed to the man's proposal.

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When getting married, according to local customs, Cheng Yu's family asked for a bride price of 5, yuan. But in the same way, Cheng Yu's parents also took 5,. It's just a custom.

The man's family had a quarrel with Cheng Yu's family because of the bride price, but later, under the mediation of the matchmaker, both sides took a step back. The man's family gave Cheng Yu a bride price of 3, yuan.

Because of this incident, Cheng Yu's parents felt that men were too stingy, so they refused to give him any money.

After marriage, men often complain to Cheng Yu about this matter, and Cheng Yu's mother-in-law also complains about it. But at that time, Cheng Yu was young and didn't take anything they said to heart.

But since she got married, her mother-in-law has been urging Cheng Yu to give her a grandson. Cheng Yu didn't think her words were son preference at that time. Originally, she was going to have children as soon as she got married, so she began to prepare for pregnancy.

Three months after marriage, Cheng Yu was pregnant. My mother-in-law was so happy when she first learned that she was pregnant. She also said that if Cheng Yu gave birth to a son, she would give me a red envelope, and that the original bride price would not be in vain.

This sounds uncomfortable, but Cheng Yu was immersed in the joy of pregnancy and didn't think about it.

After pregnancy, her husband is more considerate to Cheng Yu than in the past. Her mother-in-law basically doesn't let Cheng Yu do all the housework she did.

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But the good times didn't last long. When I was almost four months pregnant, I accidentally learned that Cheng Yuhuai was pregnant with a daughter, and her mother-in-law suddenly faded. Every day, she said that she had lost money, and all the housework returned to Cheng Yu.

The husband has also become indifferent to Cheng Yu, and from time to time he says that he is lucky to have a second child. This made Cheng Yu feel very chilling. She asked her husband what to do if she didn't have a second child.

At that time, the man actually replied to her: Then abort the child! It's a girl anyway.

She still remembers Cheng Yu's mood at that time. She never imagined that this was the words from a man who was going to be a father. She gave up on this man and his family completely. She couldn't figure out why it was so important for them to have boys and girls. Important enough to ignore your daughter's life?

It was impossible for Cheng Yu to abort the child. At her insistence, she finally gave birth to her daughter.

since her daughter was born, her mother-in-law hasn't hugged her once. After a few hugs, the man became the shopkeeper of cutting and didn't take care of the children at all. He felt sorry for Cheng Yu, who had just given birth and had to take care of the children alone.

So, Cheng Yu went back to her parents' home with her children.

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Since Cheng Yu came out with her daughter, she didn't intend to go back. When she was in the hospital, she made up her mind to divorce the man, because when she gave birth to the child, the man and her mother-in-law did something even more outrageous.

At that time, Cheng Yu gave birth to a child and had not yet entered the operating room. Her mother-in-law and husband begged the doctor not to have a caesarean section because it would affect the birth of a second child.

But Cheng Yu never gave birth when she gave birth. Later, the doctor said to prepare for caesarean section, otherwise it would be bad for her and the children.

The doctor said to be prepared, but when the mother-in-law and the man heard it, it was like going to have a caesarean section, and they all disagreed.

especially the mother-in-law, sat down directly on the floor. Cheng Yu's parents couldn't stand it anymore. They told the doctor directly to ignore them and listen to the doctor.

Cheng Yu also heard her parents tell her after giving birth. After knowing this, Cheng Yu's heart completely cooled down. I have decided to divorce a man.

I stayed with her parents for two months. During this period, the man and her mother-in-law kept asking Cheng Yu to go home and have a second child, but Cheng Yu refused them directly.

The man came to the door directly. When he saw Cheng Yu, he said, "You can have a second child or get a divorce! My family spent 3 thousand bride price to marry you. If you don't have a second child, the money is not wasted. Thanks! "

Cheng Yu was in a hurry: "Not only do you want to go back to the bride price, but you also have to pay child support. Let's get a divorce. It would be foolish for me to be willing to have a second child with people like you and your mother."

In this way, Cheng Yu divorced the man resolutely.