The second-born mother "suddenly died" in the second month, and the memorandum before her death was exposed. Why is it so easy to destroy a mother?

A treasure mother who died suddenly after giving birth to a second child attracted people's attention. Her name was Shao Qing, and she was only 32 when she died.

Shao Qing was still in labor when she died suddenly. She died half an hour after cardiac arrest and respiratory arrest. Later, when relatives checked the memo in Shao Qing's mobile phone, they found that Shao Qing was very lonely and uncomfortable during confinement. She obviously has a husband, but she lives like a single mother.

According to the information in the mobile phone memo, Shao Qing sent messages to her husband almost every day for more than ten days before his death, but he didn't respond. After Shao Qing's sudden death, many mothers who were Bao Ma had a question: Is it because Shao Qing didn't tell her husband about her illness, so no one knew about her death?

As a matter of fact, Shao Qing's husband knew this situation. On the night of Shao Qing's death, her husband was still out at the party. Shao Qing did ask her husband some questions when she was in confinement, but those were very small things that seemed irrelevant to ordinary people. But Shao Qing's husband chose to ignore all these small demands and said that Shao Qing was "sick"!

At that time, Shao Qing was really ill. She suffers from postpartum depression, so she is depressed and sensitive, and it is easy to magnify some things, thus becoming more pessimistic. Shao Qing, who has just given birth to a baby, really relies on her husband, but this is the attention and concern that a postpartum mother should get, but her husband chooses to ignore it, and even thinks that Shao Qing is unreasonable.

Men really can't understand the pain of giving birth. Some men even think that other women are giving birth, and have never seen any woman become so melodramatic after giving birth. In fact, this is by no means true, because only the closest people will see what they really look like after giving birth. They didn't become melodramatic or suffer from postpartum depression after giving birth, not because they were different from Shao Qing, but because their husbands knew how to be considerate and caring, so postpartum depression was stifled.

Only Shao Qing is not so lucky. Before she died, she sent a voice message to her husband and kept begging him to go home, because Shao Qing felt that his heart was too painful for him to breathe. But Shao Qing's husband simply replied, "I have something to do outside." . Early that morning, Shao Qing sent a short message to her husband to let him go home. Obviously, Shao Qing's mood was quite unstable at that time. According to her conversation with her husband, he should attend the party outside.

In this way, Shao Qing died of a heart attack. Perhaps Shao Qing's husband didn't realize the seriousness of Shao Qing's illness from beginning to end, which shows that this neglect has been going on for a long time. If he had been more considerate and concerned about Shao Qing, maybe things wouldn't have come to this. Through this incident, many women have realized an important problem, that is, it is too important to find a man who knows both hot and cold, and maturity is the cornerstone of marriage stability.

Zhang Ziyi, who gave birth to a child, once said frankly in the program: "The pain of shooting so many injuries in the past is even worse than the pain of not raising milk." It can be seen that no matter how strong and successful a woman is, she suffers the same pain when she gives birth to a child. In fact, it is not easy for both men and women. What women want is a simple "I understand".