How to get along with introverted boys

Lead: In fact, introverted boys are more common at present. Because they are shy and like to be quiet, it is more difficult for introverted boys to chase girls. So, how do introverted boys chase girls? Here are the skills or requirements for introverted boys to chase girls.

How to get along with introverted boys 1 1 and understand what girls want to pursue.

Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle. Only when you know everything about the girl you like, her lifestyle and so on, can you take targeted actions. Because you don't have a good eloquence, you can't improvise, so you'd better know before you act.

2, occasionally learn some romance properly.

Every girl is a princess, and she wants a prince to marry her in a colorful cloud. Both beautiful women and ugly women have this dream. Although you are not a prince and she is not a princess, it is necessary to dream with her and create romance at the right time.

3. Strive to enhance the external image.

No matter what kind of girls are, they will generally have a better impression of handsome boys who are advancing and retreating, which has nothing to do with externalism. So, if you are really introverted, try to improve your appearance, so that in the eyes of others, you may be a typical "cold" spokesperson.

It is suggested that boys can read more fashion magazines and gradually change their dressing styles from details. Of course, this does not mean that people must dress like women's guns, but it is a good choice to cultivate their own taste and style and be a sunny boy or an English gentleman.

4, correct mentality, put aside inferiority.

If you are an introverted boy with a strong sense of inferiority, you should first get rid of it. If you want to fall in love, the most important first step is to abandon your inferiority complex and say that you can. When you see a girl walking past you, your inferiority will tell you that she won't like a boy like you. Picking up girls found that this is the psychological performance that most introverted boys will have. The first thing you have to do is to get rid of it and you will be happy.

5. Don't rush to confess.

Generally speaking, introverted boys will choose to confess after getting familiar with girls, but often girls will refuse boys because of various considerations. Therefore, introverted boys should not be too eager to confess and confirm their relationship. In fact, they should just hold their horses, learn more about girls and chat more.

If you can change your personality, that's great, but if you can't, send her a warm word like "good night" at regular intervals every day. Remember that you must not talk too much, but you must be just right. Such a warm man is still very attractive to most women, and it is easy to catch up with the girls you like.

Introverted boys are not good at expressing themselves in words, but they can often show their kindness to girls and their own advantages in other ways. Girls are emotional. As long as we can make this clear, there will basically be no girls who can't catch up.

6. Create more opportunities to get in touch with her.

If you already have a girl you like, but don't know how to chase her, you might as well start by creating opportunities. Get close to girls' friends or classmates first, develop into their own friends and classmates, and then show your face in front of girls when they go out to play together, so that girls can remember themselves deeply.

Perhaps at this stage, many men have difficulties in shouting. For introverts, it really takes a lot of courage to take the initiative to talk to girls. But if you can't find a topic to chat with, it's always a trivial matter to find a place next to a girl and carefully twist mineral water for her. When the girl just finished singing K, stare into the other person's eyes for five seconds, then hook her mouth and say that you just sang really well. Note that this smile can be practiced in front of the mirror, and strive to be handsome and fascinating. Not much to say, as long as it causes such ambiguity, it is guaranteed that this girl will still miss you when she sleeps at night.

How to get along with introverted boys 2 The importance of boyfriend's personality!

Maybe they like each other, that is, love at first sight! However, if two people want to last for a long time, they must tolerate and respect each other. Facing an introverted boyfriend, how should they get along normally?

Respect each other's privacy.

But in my opinion, the most important thing about talking about friends is to respect each other's privacy. The other party has their own friends and family. If the other person doesn't want to be honest with himself, he must respect the other person's choice! Don't try to pry, or you will touch each other's bottom line and lead to emotional breakdown!

For an introverted boyfriend, he wants to be respected by others, including his girlfriend! If a girlfriend tries to invade or has invaded her privacy, then their relationship will be in crisis!

Reduce anger and anger!

Many girls are gentle at first when talking about their friends, but later they become more and more irritable! In the face of an introverted boyfriend, many girls show the appearance of "not fighting", which will insult the boys and be very angry with them!

This will only make boys more introverted. You should try to open his heart and say more gentle words to him instead of acting grumpy in your own way!

Respect your boyfriend's choice, they can discuss it together!

An introverted person often makes erratic decisions, and he will choose the other person's decision! At this time, you should try to let him choose, discuss and discuss with him, instead of just making a decision and finally informing him. Talking about friends is a matter for both sides, not one's efforts. You should let your boyfriend feel that he has made a lot of efforts for this relationship, and the last two people will cherish this relationship more! Instead of one person's so-called pay, another person's so-called enjoyment!

Introversion is not a disadvantage, but you should try to have a topic exchange with your boyfriend, and they will find similarities with each other!

How to get along with introverted boys 3 First of all, many people misunderstand introversion, thinking that introverted men are boring, boring and have low emotional intelligence, but they are not at all. Introversion does not mean that he is addicted to a bad hobby or is straight. On the contrary, introverts are rich in spiritual world, know how to reflect on themselves, and are also creative and enterprising, but they don't like socializing, so you can't tap their treasure attributes.

For girls, there is nothing wrong with finding introverted boys. On the contrary, compared with extroverted and active boys, their chances of becoming love rat are much lower. It's actually quite understandable. Mobile phone notes are full names. Where do people who delete chat dialogs every day spend their time?

If you want to seduce introverted boys, then you must first understand the nature of introversion. What is introversion?

Introversion is not boring, but boys get energy in different ways. Extroverts tend to get energy when they get along with others and consume energy when they are alone, so they prefer group scenes. I don't want to go to work or go to school, but if I really let him stay at home for a week, you will understand why our dog walks downstairs every day.

Introverts are the opposite. They prefer to get energy in solitude. If you really want to seduce your introverted little brother and establish a long-term relationship, you must seriously learn the following skills!

First, enter their spiritual world.

To enter the spiritual world of introverted boys, we must first understand their behaviors, hobbies and details, but we should not imitate and cater to them deliberately, but should identify with them.

What is identification? For example, if he likes an anime, you don't have to stay up late to catch up with the complete works online. You just need to let him know that his behavior is not unprofessional or naive. You understand him and agree with a character in an animation, which can really give people spiritual strength at some time.

For example, boys like e-sports. You don't need to practice your skills to play with him all night. You just need to say to him the day before the game: you'd better go to the game tomorrow, we don't make an appointment. Besides his surprise, you added: Remember to tell me the result of the game tomorrow.

See, you didn't cater to his preferences, but when he does what he likes, he will unconsciously think of you, so that the beauty in his spiritual world will have a certain connection with you. Until one day, he found that you have become a part of his world.

What should boys do if they are introverted and bored?

You know, human's desire for expression is conservative, so are introverted boys. They just don't know how to talk, and learning to communicate is the key to talking.

Introverted boys have a strong desire to express themselves, but they have a long backlog. Maybe he knows something about astronomy and geography, elephants and ants, the Four Books and Five Classics, and crayon Shinchan, but you haven't found their stories yet.

At this time, you try to listen to his stories from various fields and around the world, and you will find that the seemingly silent boy is also very eager to find someone to chat with. When you are willing to listen to an introverted boy, your good feeling for him has reached 90%.

Find the right topic igniter, even autistic people will open their hearts to you, so it is very important to learn to read boys' hearts.

Second, respect personal space in getting along.

Introverted boys tend to care about personal time and space arrangement. Don't squeeze their personal space too much, or you will be rejected by them.

For example, because introverted boys and girls have little experience in dating and know nothing about romance, when dating, he takes you to his favorite auto show or anime shop. It seems that you are completely uninterested and bored, but don't deny his preference easily.

His arrangement may be really boring, but you must be very careful, because in the eyes of introverts, he must take you to places that he is very interested in and finds interesting. He is opening the door of the world to you. He extends a hand and invites you to visit his world. Why did you refuse?

In the face of this type of boys, girls should never "work", don't create a dilemma for them, and they don't understand your concern. For example, don't ask him, "I think I'm different today than yesterday." They can't answer the answer you want. If you have to ask, be prepared for disappointment and boredom.

If you are already in contact with an introverted boy, then use less "I ask" and express more "I hope" in communication, take care of his emotions, respect and recognize him, so that your feelings will be stronger.

The above methods are aimed at truly introverted boys. If an introverted boy is actually irresponsible emotionally, then you must distinguish whether he is really introverted or cowardly. If he encounters an emergency, he can let go of his introversion and become a brave man, which is also an important consideration.

Introverted boys are like seashells by the sea. You need to dig carefully, taste a little, and "think about it" to understand his interest. It is also a kind of fate to meet the person you like in the vast sea of people. As long as you keep the same frequency with him, you will be his exception, climb over the fence and see him who is not introverted.

How to get along with introverted boys 4 Haruki Murakami said, "People who don't like to talk, please live well, and I will support you behind."

A few days ago, a female reader asked me, "Teacher, I like a boy for a long time, but I haven't confessed for a long time." Maybe I am introverted and have been afraid to tell him my true psychology. Recently, I heard that someone was pursuing him, and I was particularly anxious. "

Introverted women tend to be at a disadvantage in sexual relations. They don't know how to express themselves, and they dare not take the initiative to enter social group relations.

Although their hearts are on fire, they dare not speak their minds easily.

What is an introverted personality?

Psychology refers to a person whose temperament is directional. This kind of person is introverted in speech, thinking and emotion. Psychologist Eysenck described this typical personality as quiet, extroverted, introspective and fond of being alone.

The relationship between men and women is intimate and cooperative, which needs to be established in a series of complicated social relations. To some extent, extroverts may have an advantage in social relations.

Robert Robert Jeffrey Sternberg of Yale University has studied the topic of love relationship for more than 30 years. He believes that the three core components of love are intimacy, passion and commitment.

Introverted women do not actively express their emotions, nor do they easily expose their emotions, so men are more likely to lack passion when they get along with such women. If the relationship is not well managed, it is easy to enter the emotional recession period.

If you are an introvert, I suggest you get along with men in these three ways.

First, be a quiet listener.

A study shows that introverts prefer to be alone, and they are better at discovering the beauty in life and capturing the details in life.

Men don't like to express themselves and hide their emotions, so at this time, women need a keen grasp.

Once a man suddenly becomes talkative, nine times out of ten there are happy or unhappy things in his heart. They want someone to listen to them. An introverted woman seems to be more likely to be a quiet listener.

There is a child in every man's heart. They are eager to be cared for and loved, which comes from the psychological Oedipus complex.

It is a satisfaction for many men for women to listen to him carefully, not to accuse him of right or wrong, and not to comment on right or wrong. In the eyes of many men, such women are more popular.

Not any woman can do this. Most women are used to interrupting when men are talking, and prefer to put their ideas on each other. This way of getting along will make men psychologically stressed.

Second, caring behavior is far more deeply rooted in people's hearts than words.

Although language is beautiful and more touching, caring behavior is often more deeply rooted in people's hearts than language.

Love should be from the heart, not just talk. Both men and women should weigh the cost performance in their relationship when they get along.

Any good relationship is not single, but the sum of complex factors. The actual behavior and personal ability of women are the key points that determine the whole relationship.

Women should know how to remain independent, not be blinded by temporary comfort, and integrate into the collective relationship, so as to see the problem from a broader perspective.

Secondly, you should know how to be a man's helper and help him solve problems in time when he needs you.

This kind of caring behavior is not only a concern in life, as simple as a breakfast, but also a cooperative ability for both sides to go hand in hand.

Third, be each other's soul mates.

Psychologist Maslow put forward the hierarchy theory of human needs. He believes that the relationship between people can be based on mutual satisfaction.

In the relationship between men and women, there is also a hierarchy theory that needs to be satisfied and satisfied. This demand is also a gradual process, from simple physical needs to high-level spiritual needs.

Any long-term good relationship should be a tortuous and positive growth relationship. Only in this way can the relationship be sublimated and the two sides can rely on each other enough.

"True love needs not only love, but also insight.

In the other person's inner world, he hopes that the person he loves can cherish his thoughts. "

Introverted women tend to have delicate minds. They know how to think more quietly, so they can capture the subtle changes of a man's facial expression and gain insight into his inner world.

To understand what he really needs, to understand his expression, to understand his hints, to encourage him and to love him.

Everyone is eager to be appreciated and recognized. Women can be lovers or friends when they get along with men. You appreciate each other and grow up with each other, so that this relationship can be sublimated.

Become each other's soul mate and really put yourself in each other's shoes. At this time, we will find that introverted women may be more attractive to men.

How to get along with introverted boys 5 1, and take the time to get to know him.

For introverted boys, it is very difficult to invite you to dinner and a movie. If you don't want to miss this relationship, take the initiative. Spend more time getting to know him, his hobbies, and spend more time with him, starting with friends! This will not only let you know him, but also release his heart.

2. Communicate with him as much as possible.

Communication is the best way for two people to communicate with each other. Only through communication can we get to know him better. We might as well find more topics, such as: interesting things, favorite food, favorite sports, favorite pets ... create a comfortable communication atmosphere and let him open his heart to you!

3. Learn to read his language.

Boys are not good at expressing, and introverted boys are even less good at expressing. At this time, you need your high emotional intelligence to understand his language, observe his usual behavior, and guess his thoughts through details. This is very important for introverted boys. If there is a girl who is considerate and understands him, it is only a matter of time before she is tempted.

4. Tell him more about your story.

To get along with an introverted boy, you don't need to get to know him all the time, but get to know each other. Knowing him can give him a sense of security and let him know that you can trust him. Let him find that there is a person who is willing to trust him and tell him his own energy, so that he feels so trusted by you and can know some of your "little secrets". This will make him more comfortable with you.

5. Encourage him occasionally

Boys sometimes need encouragement. Only when they are encouraged can they be more motivated. Introverted boys will trust you more and be more willing to tell you trivial things after getting your affirmation.

Introverted boys are slow-moving animals. If you want to touch them, you need to take time to get along slowly, build mutual trust and make stable and long-term love.

How to get along with introverted boys 6 Most love failures are due to the lack of understanding between the two sides. So, what are the important things to remember when getting along with introverts?

1. Introverts will open their hearts at their own pace.

It is difficult for introverts to express their feelings and thoughts frankly. But please note that this does not make him a considerate, kind and emotional person. On the contrary, their feelings are deeper than you think. You need to provide them with proper space, maximum understanding and open time. Trying their ideas and opening their hearts will never help. On the contrary, it will only make him shrink back into his shell. Give him opening hours. Once he can understand you, he will share small details with you.

2. Introverts are deeper than they look.

If you date an introverted boy, you need to be observant enough to pay attention to the subtle changes in his facial expression, body language and tone. This will not only help you understand him, let you know what he is thinking, but also strengthen the connection between you.

Introverts long for a relaxed and open atmosphere.

Most of us hope to have a happy, happy and warm environment to bloom love, which is also very necessary for introverts. When providing them with a warm and inclusive environment, they can play their potential. Seriously disturbing their psychological peace will hinder their all-round development. They like people around them to be friendly and easy-going. Give them time to let them know whether you associate with him or not.

4. Introverts are honest.

Introverts are the most loyal people. Unlike other extroverted men, they don't like being surrounded by women, flirting everywhere, making their partners jealous and turning blue. Besides, you seldom play the games you want to capture. These introverted boys like to make intimate friends, and they will choose carefully. Even with his family, he likes to touch you and feel your presence. You can't get the feeling of betrayer from introverts.

Introverts are full of innovative ideas.

Introverts' minds are full of amazing innovative ideas. They will come up with a lot of crazy and bold ideas. The man never got rid of his ideas. Once they find themselves walking in a fantastic fairyland, their thoughts will realize that their thoughts are interesting enough to encourage you and their charm. Introverted boys open their hearts for you, and you begin a sweet love journey.

How to get along with introverted boys 7 1 Girls and introverted boys should have a sincere and natural attitude.

If you want to keep good friends with him or go further, don't pretend to be a noble Leng Yan, which will easily make him afraid to get along with you. Face him with a sincere and natural attitude and convey your sincere and true side. Introverts are easily moved by these elements.

Second, girls and introverted boys should pay more attention to the change of atmosphere.

Never get along with negative emotions such as complaints, anger and abuse, which will easily affect the mood of introverted boys and bring him negative energy. In fact, no one will like a person with a gloomy face. Infect him with your sunny side.

Third, girls and introverted boys should take the initiative to talk about some topics.

This may be what girls have to do. Introverted boys are generally very nervous, and girls will come forward if they don't know what to say. This is the best way to get to know each other. To communicate with introverted boys, we should strengthen the interaction between two people, ask questions from time to time/listen carefully to each other's words, make eye contact and so on.

Fourth, girls and introverted boys get along in a comfortable environment.

Dating in a strange environment can easily make introverts stiff and uncomfortable. Therefore, it is necessary to reduce the risk and choose a place with comfortable and relaxed environment, which will not only help the other party to unload their defenses, but also help improve the quality of dating. If conditions permit, you can also bring one or two other friends and even pets. In this way, when necessary, we can rely on each other, which can greatly improve the success rate of dating!

Five, girls and introverted boys should know how to leave time for him.

Introverts' inner world is not easy to open, so you need to give them some time. Similarly, when there is a conflict, the principle of quick decision does not apply to easing your relationship, but it is a good opportunity to exercise patience. You need to give each other some time and space, and perhaps make your heart more calm, so as to understand some problems that you have never discovered before and see who you really are.