What are the most basic requirements for a woman to take care of her family?

First, be gentle and don’t show off at home. Gentleness is a woman's unique specialty and the most effective ecstasy for women to deal with men. If a woman does not know the role of gentleness, she is really a woman. Women can be strong, but they must not be strong at home. A woman who can control the wind and rain outside, but be a little bird at home. A strong woman at home, it can be said that she needs a husband who can swallow his anger, or there are constant family wars. Such a wife is obviously not liked by men.

The second is to be patient and forgive your husband’s shortcomings. From the perspective of social roles, men and women are very different. Men who pay attention to communication will inevitably drink, smoke, and play cards. These are the shortcomings of men in the family and are often seen in real life and literary works. There are examples of women who are intolerant of men's shortcomings, but this is not necessary. If you want to accept a man, you have to accept his shortcomings at the same time. No one is perfect, let alone people who live together all day long, there is nothing they can’t discover. However, it is important to tolerate it if you can, or to ignore his shortcomings, otherwise, the happiness of the family will often encounter dangers.

The third is to be diligent and do something for him within your ability. Of course, this does not mean that men do nothing at home and women need to do everything. The problem is, as a wife, if you don’t know how to cook, don’t like doing laundry, and even if you don’t want to mend a button on his clothes, then you are unqualified as a wife and no one likes you. My eldest wife, there is no doubt about it.

The fourth is to be tolerant and treat your husband’s family well. People often say that women don’t get along well with their husband’s family and are friendly to their mother-in-law’s family. In fact, women really spend most of their time with their husband’s family. Treating her husband’s family well is one of the things that men like most. This is something that many women don’t understand. Yes, although the reason is very simple!

The fifth is to run the house, don’t be outside all the time. Judging from historical habits, deep down in the hearts of Chinese people, the concept of men being the master of the outside world and women being the master of the house is still very strong. As a wife, it is best to take care of your family more. It is difficult for a woman who does not care about her family to have a happy family.

Sixth, teach your children and pay attention to guiding them. The unique maternal nature of women makes women more conducive to educating and persuading children. In the family, try to make the children have the desire to go home, and let the children realize that maternal love is a major contribution to a good wife.

Seventh, trust, don’t have unreasonable suspicion. If a man has a problem, it is useless for a woman to be suspicious. If there is no problem, suspicion may cause problems. Trusting a man is the foundation of a good wife. Trust is even a spur. In reality, there are examples of men who have problems and are so ashamed that they turn back because of their wives' trust. Don't always check his cell phone signal or something. In that way, women will be tired, and men will be even more tired. They will be on tenterhooks every day. What's the point of living?

The eighth is tolerance, giving him space for life and communication. Whether it's financially or in relationships, women had better be tolerant. Don't take all the money out of his wallet. Being afraid of his wife is not a shortcoming of a man, but being too tight-lipped in front of friends can be embarrassing. It is also an embarrassing thing that men often encounter when their wives ask them to go back anyway while they are drinking.

Ninth, talk less and don’t always blame others. Wordiness is determined by women's physiological factors, and it is not a bad thing. However, always talking about other people's faults will not only make men annoyed, but also turn their own men into small-minded people. Let's look at the glorious image in "Gobi Mother". The greatest thing about her is that she is tolerant to everyone and never speaks behind anyone's back.

Ten is the hobby of taking care of men. Men and women are just different. In terms of their favorite sports, men like football, boxing, etc. In the family, it is best for women to take care of men's hobbies as much as possible, and not always use his hobbies as an excuse. When friends are chatting together, some people often complain that their wives don’t allow them to watch European football leagues in the middle of the night, which makes men very unhappy. Of course, I try my best, but I don’t mean to let it go. Just grasp the scale. For example, if you watch all the major leagues in Western Europe, how can you live a normal life at home? You can let him watch a few key games, and if you combine fighting and pulling, the man will not be unconvinced and will be obedient to you