My sister-in-law is 35 years old and is not in a hurry to get married. Should sister-in-law intervene?

If it were me, I would definitely not interfere. As a sister-in-law, this is a bit embarrassing. I mean well, but my careless sister-in-law will be angry with you, my husband will not understand you, and my in-laws will have opinions on you. It's really unnecessary to do such a thankless thing.

Sister-in-law has parents or brothers and sisters, which really doesn't matter. If you have a good partner, you can talk to your husband and ask what his sister-in-law means, so as to avoid hitting a nail.

If sister-in-law and sister-in-law get along well, like best friends and sisters, they can talk about everything, and sister-in-law is not afraid of misunderstanding, so they can intervene. But it is hard to say whether there will be a gap between the two because of this intervention.

A good friend of mine suffered such a loss. My best friend is a very enthusiastic person. She works in the system and has many good resources around her. I met a boy by chance. She felt very good and wanted to introduce him to her sister-in-law when she went home. Her sister-in-law is 28 years old. She is good-looking and can dress up. She is a teacher and has a decent job.

As a result, my sister-in-law got angry when she mentioned it twice more. That was the first time she saw her angry. My sister-in-law thought she was just trying to kick her out of the house. Sister-in-law said that she has a job, she can support herself in the future, and she has a pension after retirement, so she won't get you into trouble.

Of course I know my best friend. She doesn't have that kind of mind, but because she really met a young man with good conditions, I hope my sister-in-law can give it a try. In my best friend's heart, I think girls still have to get married. What's wrong with getting to know more people and having more opportunities?

But everyone thinks from their own point of view, especially if they are forced to do things they don't like, they will think of each other from the most evil point of view and think they have ulterior motives. It's really hard to make it clear with your mouth full at this time.