After the fire of the anti-crime storm, Sun Honglei’s black material was dug out again...

Recently, "Anti-Gangster" has become popular all over the Internet, with views exceeding 3 billion.

This is a TV series with the main line of cracking down on gangs and evil. What makes people shiver is that the main plot is adapted from real cases - the Sun Xiaoguo case, the playground burial case, etc.

Sun Honglei, who is good at playing gangsters, plays Li Chengyang, a detective who walks between black and white.

He has a short cut, a straight suit, black round eyes, and a smile that always hangs on his lips.

But I was holding back a lot of energy in my heart. When I went out, I transformed into a face-changing master, which made people feel cold.

Detective Li Chengyang is a very complex character. While dealing with the forces of black and white, he must also uphold justice and pursue the truth.

Ruthlessness and strategy are indispensable.

This kind of energy reminds people of Huaqiang who was buying melons at the melon stall that year.

In the 22 years since his debut, Sun Honglei has created too many flesh-and-blood classic characters on the screen.

In "Conquest" he is the ruthless gangster Liu Huaqiang, in "Insidious" he is the bloody and unyielding intelligence agent Yu Zecheng, and in "The Heroes" he is iron-clad and arrogant. He Futang...

He conquered countless audiences with his acting skills and became synonymous with tough guys on the screen.

With the popularity of "Storm", the public's attention has returned to this powerful actor.

Before he became famous, his relationship history with Ding Jiali was also dug up again.

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In 1999, 29-year-old Sun Honglei met 40-year-old actress Ding Jiali.

At that time, Sun Honglei was still an unknown little actor, while Ding Jiali had already established a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.

Ding Jiali has won various awards such as Plum Blossom Award, Golden Rooster Award, Golden Lion Award, Huabiao Award, etc. for her superb acting skills. She was a veritable double movie queen in the early 1990s.

Even the best actor Ge You sometimes has to act as a co-star for her.

The two fell in love while filming the drama "Madame Curie".

Sun Honglei launched a crazy pursuit of Ding Jiali, not even caring that Ding Jiali had been divorced twice and had two children.

Once, when Ding Jiali was ill and hospitalized, Sun Honglei braved the heavy snow to deliver soup made by himself.

Sun Honglei learned that Ding Jiali liked to drink Lulu, so he bought 2 boxes every week and personally moved them to Ding Jiali's house.

Sun Honglei learned that Ding Jiali liked red BMWs. For a long time, he had regarded buying a red BMW as his goal.

Faced with Sun Honglei's love offensive, Ding Jiali was gradually moved, and the two fell in love.

At that time, this relationship was well known in the circle, but not many people were optimistic about it.

In addition to Sun Honglei being unknown, the two are also 11 years apart. Such a big gap is why people in the industry are not optimistic about it.

In 2001, with the hit "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind", Sun Honglei became famous in one battle and began to stand out.

Later, there were rumors in the entertainment industry that Sun Honglei was able to play an important role in "Like Fog, Like Rain and Like Wind" because Ding Jiali knelt down and begged director Zhao Baogang, and she asked for it.

Of course, this is just a rumor, and its authenticity is unknown.

Just one year later, Sun Honglei and Gong Li starred in the movie "Zhou Yu's Train". This drama completely made Sun Honglei famous and officially entered the film industry.

But as the drama aired, the scandal between Sun Honglei and Gong Li spread all over the world, and the two were even photographed shopping and driving together on Xiushui Street in Beijing.

Since then, Sun Honglei, who has become increasingly famous, has had less and less contact with Ding Jiali.

Later, the relationship was completely severed.

The Internet was not developed at that time, and the channels for netizens to learn about entertainment and gossip were also very limited. Until one day, Jin Xing broke the news on the show:

"There is such an actor in the industry. He was considered a piece of meat when he was young. In order to get a chance to perform, he set his sights on the industry. A big sister.

Although the age difference is more than ten years, this little girl can still live up to her expectations. After a few years, she really became popular. ”

Jin Xing said that after Xiaoxianrou became famous, she turned against her on the spot and ignored her eldest sister when he saw her in public.

What's even more outrageous is that Xiao Xianrou said this to the former "eldest sister":

"Do you think we are a good match?"

Although Jin Xing concealed his name, it was not difficult to guess, and netizens quickly picked up the number.

Big sister, little fresh meat, teenagers are all put together. Aren’t these Sun Honglei and Ding Jiali?

Especially after Sun Honglei became popular, the eldest sister’s career began to decline. Netizens’ guns were aimed at Sun Honglei without exception:

“Emotionless” You're a scumbag!"

"Ding Jiali gave everything for you, but you turned against me when you got angry?"

"Ding Jiali is so miserable, so why do you say women? You must not be too emotional..."

Until now, when netizens mention this incident, they always accuse Sun Honglei of sympathizing with Ding Jiali. This incident has become a stain that is difficult to wash away in Sun Honglei's life.

At this point, let’s not comment on who is right or wrong. I want to share with you a story that happened around me.

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The uncle lives in a fifth-tier small city. Although it is not developed, the lives of his neighbors are quite comfortable.

The unique characteristics of small cities: there is a small floating population and people’s pace of life is very slow.

Of course, there is another unique thing about small cities: what happens to someone’s family will spread throughout the city in a short period of time.

People live a very comfortable life and are very curious about things that are not peaceful.

Just like your hometown in your memory.

In our alley, there is a young man named: Zhang San (pseudonym), born in the 1990s.

His wife Xiaolan (pseudonym) works in a public office and is very good in the eyes of her neighbors.

They also have two lovely children, their eldest son is 7 years old and their youngest daughter is 4 years old.

Zhang San is among those who got married relatively early.

My parents are businessmen and their family background is pretty good.

In the eyes of outsiders, Zhang San is also quite lucky. His parents are young and strong, his wife is smart and capable, and he has a pair of lovely children.

Perhaps the family conditions are relatively good, and he has been pampered since childhood, so that Zhang San, who is already 30 years old, has been idle and idle all day long, and is proficient in eating, drinking, whoring and gambling.

Days like this happen day after day.

One day, his parents couldn't stand it anymore and kicked Zhang San out of the house, cutting off his source of income and forcing him to grow up.

Just like that, Zhang San disappeared.

In mid-2019, Zhang San, who had disappeared for half a year, suddenly returned home.

The first thing I do when I get home is to divorce my wife.

That night, there was a lot of noise, very loud.

Our whole alley heard clearly: Zhang San, who had disappeared for half a year, not only failed to change himself, but also met a rich woman outside.

A 45-year-old rich woman.

At that time, Zhang San was only 29 years old.

Daughter-in-law Xiaolan finally couldn't bear it anymore and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau with Zhang San in anger.

Zhang San’s parents were firmly opposed. They liked this well-educated daughter-in-law very much and would not let her leave no matter what.

And said to Zhang San: If you don’t remarry Xiaolan, don’t go home!

After hearing this three times, he really didn’t come back. What he wanted was the divorce certificate.

A week after the divorce, Zhang San and the rich woman spent a "huge sum" of money to hold their wedding in a hotel, and they moved into the rich woman's mansion openly that night.

At the wedding scene, no one from the groom’s family showed up.

It is said that this rich woman owns more than a dozen properties and a Porsche.

These are the things that attract Zhang San.

Because the rich woman is rich, the two of them enjoyed a good time after getting married, traveling around and spending all kinds of money.

Soon, two years passed.

Last week, when my uncle came home from get off work, the entrance to his house was extremely busy.

Looking closer, the rich woman was holding a loudspeaker, yelling curses at the door of Zhang San's house, and playing it on a loop.

She said that Zhang San had spent millions on her in the past two years.

While spending her money, he kept hooking up with young girls outside.

In March this year, Zhang San was involved in a car accident while driving his Porsche at night, and the car was totaled.

In the eyes of the rich woman, Zhang San is a waste who knows nothing except being young.

She chose to divorce Zhang San, but Zhang San said: Divorce is okay, and each person will have half of the property.

How can a rich woman agree? She is the one who relies on her for food, drink, and fun. If someone cheats on her and dares to take away her property, there is no way!

This was the scene where the loudspeaker shouted.

Soon, this incident spread in our county.

Everyone is talking about it everywhere:

"When you hooked up with Zhang San, didn't you think about this result?"

"Old grass eats young cattle, Don’t you think it’s embarrassing?”

“This old woman is so shameless. She is so young and is with you. Think about what she wants from you!”

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Do you think this incident that happened to the uncle is very similar to the incident with Sun Honglei?

They are all young people looking for women who are more successful than themselves, and they always end up separated.

But for the same incident, Ding Jiali was sympathized by tens of thousands of netizens.

But after the rich woman and Zhang San broke up, it was the rich woman who was scolded.

What is the reason for this?

The reason is: Ding Jiali's career is going downhill, while the rich woman's career is going uphill.

As Sun Honglei became popular, Ding Jiali gradually disappeared from the circle, and her life became worse every day.

The public will think she is so pitiful, and Sun Honglei is really nothing.

As for the rich woman, even if she breaks up with Zhang San, she is still very rich.

Rich? Can't sympathize.

Therefore, what they sympathize with is not Ding Jiali, but the weak, right or wrong.

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I believe everyone must have heard the story of China’s richest woman, Chen Lihua, and “Tang Monk” Chi Chongrui.

What a coincidence, the woman is also 11 years older than the man.

After the two got married, Chi Zhongrui almost quit his acting career and devoted himself to assisting Chen Lihua.

When 38-year-old Chi Chongrui married 49-year-old Chen Lihua, Chen Lihua put forward three conditions:

First, when she was talking, no one else could interrupt, including Chi Chongrui. ;

Second, the meal can only be served when everyone in the family is present;

Third, Chi Zhongrui cannot lie on his back when sleeping. He must bend his body to his side, put one hand on his body, and Put one hand on the bed.

Although the third article made Chi Zhongrui unable to sleep well for a long time, he also loved his wife deeply.

Some people joked: Tang Seng escaped the king of his daughter’s country, but he did not escape the richest woman in China.

Let’s make a hypothesis.

Assume that Chen Lihua and Chi Zhongrui are divorced now, will you sympathize with Chen Lihua?

I don’t think so.

Because she is the richest woman, has a lot of money, and her life is 10,000 times better than yours. What is there to sympathize with?

I think what everyone is saying must be:

"Chen Lihua is 11 years older than Chi Chongrui, and she has been with you for so many years. What else is it if she doesn't just eat old grass and eat young cattle?" ?"

"It's not a good match at all. Chen Lihua is too strong."

Let's assume that Ding Jiali is still a well-known female boss in the industry, and Sun Honglei is. It has not become popular and is still unknown. Will the roles that everyone sympathizes with be reversed?

Everyone has their own understanding of whether it will happen or not.

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Whether it is Ding Jiali, the rich woman in our county, or Chen Lihua, they all thought carefully when they decided to be with them.

Compared to us, they are all superior to others, and naturally they are smarter than us.

They know very well what this combination means.

They know very well what they can gain and what they may lose from such a combination.

Regardless of happiness or separation, it is destined.

Let’s talk about the weak.

Uncle wants to say to you: Many people’s sympathy is just a simple word of mouth and has no practical meaning. Don’t have any hope.

When you are in a weak position, the only one who can save yourself is yourself.

Our bodies can be destroyed, but our spirits will not be easily defeated.

The only one who can corrode and break the spirit is yourself.

When you define yourself as a weak person, it is undoubtedly a very dangerous thing.

Nietzsche once said: Sympathy is the deepest abyss.

If you are at a trough, don’t be discouraged, stand up and create your own future.

After all, life is your own, and you can only rely on yourself in the future.

***Mian.