In the face of parents urging marriage, will you get married passively in order to fulfill your parents?

Marriage is one of the most important events in life. Although I will obey my parents' arrangement for no reason in many things, I think I will choose to refuse when my parents urge me to get married, and I will never perfunctory my marriage easily. Because I don't want my marriage to become a gamble and a victim, I don't want to regret it all my life.

I can understand why my parents urged me to get married. After all, after all these years of hard work, what I want most in my heart is to see me get married and have children as soon as possible. However, I want to say that marriage is not a child's play. Many times, feelings are reluctant to come. If I am forced to really compromise my parents' urging marriage, I may not only bring myself bad, but also bring endless troubles to my parents in my later life.

Although parents give us life, I don't think filial piety is filial piety. As children, we should also have our own lives, especially the once-in-a-lifetime marriage event. You should know that it is not your parents who accompany you through this life, but the other half you choose, that is, your spouse. Therefore, the choice of your future partner is particularly important.

As the saying goes: tiger poison doesn't eat children, not to mention us human beings with higher wisdom. As parents, they may lack ideas about our marriage, but their starting point is undoubtedly good. Therefore, as children, we should also pay attention to how to communicate with our parents effectively, and try our best to make everyone happy while maintaining our true intentions.