A poetic story about the entrance ceremony

1. Idioms, poems and stories describing etiquette are full of enthusiasm, and they know the etiquette and write books, and they salute with the classics, gesture and scripture.

1, throw yourself on the ground

Explanation: Hands, knees and head land together. This is one of the most respected rituals in Buddhism. Metaphor admire to the extreme.

From: Tang Xuanzang's Records of the Three Kingdoms in the Western Regions of the Tang Dynasty: "The form of tribute, its instrument is nine and so on. : 1. Please press 2 to express your condolences. Bow your head to show respect. Raise your hand, 4. Hands flat, 5. Bend your knees, 6. On your knees, 7. Hands and knees on the ground, 8.

During the tribute ceremony, his appearance was divided into nine categories: 1. Express condolences; 2. bow your head to show your respect; 3. Hold your head high; 4. Cross your hands flat; 5. beg; 6. beg; 7. Kneel on the ground with both hands and knees; 8.5 rounds of concessions; 9.5 throw yourself on the ground.

2, know the ceremony and know the book

Description: Understand etiquette and be familiar with poetry books.

Said by: Chapter 58 of Xia Qing's classic "Wild Sour Dew Talk": "This is the family of the guilty minister. The official is silent, and his surname is difficult. He is gentle and virtuous, and he knows the etiquette and books, as well as mathematics."

This is the home of a guilty minister, who is alone, confiscated, has a difficult surname, is gentle and virtuous, knows etiquette and knows a few things.

3. Book publishing ceremony

Interpretation: refers to the knowledge of poetry and etiquette.

From: Meng Long's "Yu Shi Yan Ming" Volume 2: "It turns out that Tian is the daughter of Dongcuntian, but she is radiant and proficient in everything."

It turns out that Tian is the daughter of Dongcuntian, but she is very colorful and has a gift.

4. Step by step.

Description: When walking, the steps are square. Of behavior conforming to etiquette.

From: Qing Lvyuan Li's "Qi Lu Deng" the second time: "So, sir, you can't act in moderation, but you are just a teacher, just talking about names."

That's it, sir. You mustn't act in time, but the host is a teacher. Let's keep our names.

5. Tong Li Wenda

Interpretation: refers to learning and understanding etiquette.

From: Di Qing Mountain Man's "Ping Shan Han Yan" The seventh time: "Although my niece is a small village girl, she can read and write, and she is well versed in etiquette. If she had virtue, she would not have fallen from ancient women. How can she be on the Tsing Yi list? "

What's more, although my granddaughter is a small village girl, she is educated, educated and polite, so she is virtuous. Unlike an ancient woman, how could she descend to the ranks of White Wall Tsing Yi?

2. Stories about manners, manners, ceremonies and appearances. Kong Rong was smart, studious, witty and eloquent when he was a child. Everyone praised him as a child prodigy.

At the age of four, he could recite many poems and poems, and he knew manners. His parents love him very much. One day, my father bought several pears and specially chose the biggest pear for Kong Rong. Kong Rong shook his head, but picked out the smallest pear and said, "I am the youngest, so I should eat a small pear. Give it to my brother. "

Father was very surprised and asked, "Is that brother younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "My brother is younger than me, so I should give it to him." Kong Rong let the story of pear spread quickly in Qufu, and it has been handed down all the time, which has become a good example for many parents to educate their children. It fully embodies the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and shows the noble character of respecting the elderly through a short and pithy story: Cheng Menxue Pear Shi Yang (1053- 1 135) was a genius in the Northern Song Dynasty and a musician in Nanjianfu (now Fujian).

After winning the Jinshi, he gave up being an official and continued his studies. Cheng Hao (1032- 1085) and Cheng Yi (1033-107) were famous university experts, philosophers and educators at that time, both of whom were founders of Neo-Confucianism in the Northern Song Dynasty.

Their theory was inherited by Zhu in the Southern Song Dynasty and was called the School. Shi Yang admired Cheng Cheng's knowledge and went to the school in Hao Cheng to learn from his teacher. Four years later, Cheng Hao died, and he continued to learn from Cheng Yi.

At this time, he is 40 years old, still respecting teachers and studying hard. One day, it snowed heavily and it was freezing. When Shi Yang encountered a problem, he braved the cold wind to ask his classmate You Zuo (1053- 1 123) to go to the teacher's house for advice.

When he came to the teacher's house, he found the teacher asleep in the chair. He couldn't bear to disturb him, for fear of affecting the teacher's rest, so he stood quietly outside and waited. When the teacher woke up, the snow under their feet was one foot deep and covered with snow.

The teacher invited Shi Yang and others into the room to give them a lecture. Later, "Chengmen Sydney" became a widely circulated model of respecting teachers.

Celebrity etiquette story: Sean's apprentice Sean (? -Former 186), a strategist of Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Western Han Dynasty. His ancestors were Koreans. After Qin destroyed Korea, he decided to avenge South Korea.

Once, because of the attempted assassination of Qin Shihuang, he was hunted down and took refuge in Xiapi. Sean has nothing to do next time.

One day, while walking on Xiapi Bridge, he met an old man wearing a coarse cloth and a short coat. He walked beside Sean and deliberately dropped his shoes under the bridge. Then he turned to Sean and said, "Son! Get off the bridge and pick up my shoes! " Sean was shocked and wanted to give him a beating, but when he saw that he was an old man, he held back his anger and picked up the shoes under the bridge.

The old man ordered again: "put on your shoes!" " "Sean thought that since he picked up the shoes, he might as well put them on, so he knelt on the ground and put them on himself. The old man put out his foot and asked Sean to help him put it on. Then he left with a smile.

Sean has been watching his whereabouts with surprised eyes. The old man walked down the corridor, then turned to Sean and said, "You are a child who can be trained to be a successful person.

Meet me here at dawn in five days! "Sean knelt down and said," Yes. " At first light on the fifth day, Sean arrived at Xiapi Bridge.

Unexpectedly, the old man was already waiting there. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why are you late for your date with the old man? Come back the next morning on the fifth day! " Say that finish and left. On the morning of the fifth day, as soon as the chicken crowed, Sean rushed over, but the old man was waiting there again. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why are you behind me again?" Come early in five days! "Then he left again.

On the fifth day, Sean arrived at the bridge before midnight. After a long wait, the old man came. He said happily, "Great." Then he took out a book, pointed to it and said, "If you study this book carefully, you can be the emperor's teacher!" " ! In ten years, the world will change and you will be rich.

In the next 13 years, you will see me at the foot of Gucheng Mountain in Jibei County-there is a yellow stone there that is me. "The old man said and went away.

At dawn in the morning, Sean took out his book and read it. It turned out to be Sun Tzu's Art of War (assisted by Zhou Wuwang)! Sean cherishes it very much, often reads it carefully, and studies and studies it repeatedly. 10 years later, Chen Sheng and others rose up against the state of Qin, and more than 100 people responded.

Pei Gong Liu Bang led thousands of troops and captured some places west of Xiapi. Sean joined him and became his subordinate. From then on, Sean often made suggestions to Pei according to Sun Tzu's Art of War. Pei thought it was very good and often adopted his strategies. Later, he became Liu Bang's strategist who strategized and won thousands of miles.

After Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor, he was named Liu Hou. Sean will never forget the old man who taught him the art of war.

13 years later, when he followed Liu Bang through Jibei, he saw a yellow stone at the foot of the ancient city mountain and took it back, calling it "Huang Shigong", which was a treasure and sacrificed on time. After Sean died, his family buried Yellowstone National Park with him.

Think about it: this is a touching legend. Sean learned from his teacher and met his teacher for the third time. If it were you, would you go for the third time? Why? Etiquette story: The story of sending goose feathers thousands of miles away took place in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, a minority leader in Yunnan sent a special envoy to Mian Bogao to offer a swan to Emperor Taizong.

When passing by Mianyang, kind Mian Bogao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan soared into the sky.

Mian Bogao was busy reaching for it, only pulling out a few goose feathers. Mian Bogao was so anxious that she stamped her feet and began to cry.

His entourage advised him, "It's no use crying because it has already flown away. Let's think of a remedy. " Mian Bogao thought, also can only be so.

In Chang 'an, Mian Bogao met with Emperor Taizong and presented a gift. Emperor Taizong saw that it was a delicate satin bag and opened it. At first glance, it is just a few goose feathers and a poem.

The poem says: "Swan pays tribute to Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. Mianyang River lost its treasure and fell on the ground crying.

After the Emperor of Heaven, Mian Bogao was spared. Gifts are light and affectionate, and goose feathers are sent thousands of miles away. "

Emperor Taizong was puzzled, and Mian Bogao immediately told the story. Emperor Taizong repeatedly said, "What a treat! It's commendable! Send goose feathers a thousand miles away, and the ceremony is light and affectionate! " This story embodies the precious virtue of the giver's honesty.

Today, people use money.

3. Who can give me some short stories about gfd? 1, it snows at the gate.

Cheng Menxue Pear tells the story of Shi Yang and You Zuo, scholars in Song Dynasty, asking Cheng Yi and Cheng Hao for advice.

Cheng, a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, was a famous Neo-Confucianism in the Song Dynasty. Cheng's theory was inherited and developed by Zhu, which is called "Cheng-Zhu School". Shi Yang and Zuo You, who are studying Chengcheng, have great respect. You Yang, two people, originally studied under Cheng Hao. After Cheng Hao's death, both of them were forty years old and had been admitted to Jinshi. However, they had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first visited Cheng Yi in Songyang Academy.

According to legend, one day, Shi Yang and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to visit Cheng Yi, and met an old gentleman who closed his eyes and took a nap. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to keep silent and ignored them. Yang Heyou dared not disturb Mr. Wang's rest, but stood in awe and said nothing until he opened his eyes. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yicai woke up like Luo, met Yang Heyou, and pretended to be surprised and said, "Ah! Ah! Sages have been calling here for a long time! " It means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and I don't know when it began to snow. There is more than a foot of snow outside the door.

This story is called "Cheng Men Sydney". It was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, when people describe respecting teachers and earnestly seeking advice, they often quote this allusion and idiom.

2. Kong Rong lets pears.

When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Every time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, my father saw it and asked, "Why do you always take the small one instead of the big one?" Kong Rong said, "I am the younger brother, and I am the youngest. I should eat the small one and let the big one be eaten by my brother! " At an early age, Kong Rong learned the truth of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family. Since then, Kong Rong has spread the story of pears for thousands of years, becoming a model of unity and friendship.

3. Ceng Zi avoided the seat.

"Ceng Zi is not at his seat" is a very famous story in the Book of Filial Piety. Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. " Here, "avoiding the seat" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.

4. Send goose feathers thousands of miles away

The story of "sending goose feathers a thousand miles away" took place in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, a minority leader in Yunnan sent a special envoy to Mian Bogao to offer a swan to Emperor Taizong.

When passing by Mianyang, kind Mian Bogao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan soared into the sky. Mian Bogao was busy reaching for it, only pulling out a few goose feathers. Mian Bogao was so anxious that she stamped her feet and began to cry. His entourage advised him, "It's no use crying because it has already flown away. Let's think of a remedy. " Mian Bogao thought, also can only be so.

In Chang 'an, Mian Bogao met with Emperor Taizong and presented a gift. Emperor Taizong saw that it was a delicate satin bag and opened it. At first glance, it is just a few goose feathers and a poem. The poem says: "Swan pays tribute to Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far. Mianyang River lost its treasure and fell on the ground crying. After the Emperor of Heaven, Mian Bogao was spared. The ceremony is light and affectionate, and the goose feathers are sent thousands of miles. " Emperor Taizong was puzzled, and Mian Bogao immediately told the story. Emperor Taizong repeatedly said, "What a treat! It's commendable! Send goose feathers a thousand miles away, and the ceremony is light and affectionate! "

This story embodies the precious virtue of the giver's honesty. Today, people use "a thousand miles to send goose feathers" to compare the gift given to others, although thin, but the affection is extremely deep.

4. Stories and famous sayings about etiquette 1. The story about etiquette: Cheng Menxue pear.

Shi Yang (1053- 1 135) was a gifted scholar in the Northern Song Dynasty and a musician in Nanjianfu (now Fujian). After winning the Jinshi, he gave up being an official and continued his studies. Cheng Hao (1032- 1085) and Cheng Yi (1033-107) were famous university experts, philosophers and educators at that time, both of whom were founders of Neo-Confucianism in the Northern Song Dynasty. Their theory was inherited by Zhu in the Southern Song Dynasty and was called the School. Shi Yang admired Cheng Cheng's knowledge and went to the school in Hao Cheng to learn from his teacher. Four years later, Cheng Hao died, and he continued to learn from Cheng Yi. At this time, he is 40 years old, still respecting teachers and studying hard. One day, it snowed heavily and it was freezing. When Shi Yang encountered a problem, he braved the cold wind to ask his classmate You Zuo (1053- 1 123) to go to the teacher's house for advice. When he came to the teacher's house, he found the teacher asleep in the chair. He couldn't bear to disturb him, for fear of affecting the teacher's rest, so he stood quietly outside and waited. When the teacher woke up, the snow under their feet was one foot deep and covered with snow. The teacher invited Shi Yang and others into the room to give them a lecture. Later, "Chengmen Sydney" became a widely circulated model of respecting teachers.

2. Celebrity etiquette story: Sean's apprentice

Sean (? -Former 186), a strategist of Liu Bang, the ancestor of the Western Han Dynasty. His ancestors were Koreans. After Qin destroyed Korea, he decided to avenge South Korea. Once, because of the attempted assassination of Qin Shihuang, he was hunted down and took refuge in Xiapi. Sean has nothing to do next time. One day, while walking on Xiapi Bridge, he met an old man wearing a coarse cloth and a short coat. He walked beside Sean and deliberately dropped his shoes under the bridge. Then he turned to Sean and said, "Son! Get off the bridge and pick up my shoes! " Sean was shocked and wanted to give him a beating, but when he saw that he was an old man, he held back his anger and picked up the shoes under the bridge. The old man ordered again: "put on your shoes!" " "Sean thought that since he picked up the shoes, he might as well put them on, so he knelt on the ground and put them on himself. The old man put out his foot and asked Sean to help him put it on. Then he left with a smile. Sean has been watching his whereabouts with surprised eyes. The old man walked down the corridor, then turned to Sean and said, "You are a child who can be trained to be a successful person. Meet me here at dawn in the morning five days later! " Sean knelt down and said, "Yes." At first light on the fifth day, Sean arrived at Xiapi Bridge. Unexpectedly, the old man was already waiting there. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why are you late for your date with the old man? Come back the next morning on the fifth day! " Say that finish and left. On the morning of the fifth day, as soon as the chicken crowed, Sean rushed over, but the old man was waiting there again. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why did you fall behind me again? "Come early in five days!" Then he left again. On the fifth day, Sean arrived at the bridge before midnight. After a long wait, the old man came. He said happily, "Great." Then he took out a book, pointed to it and said, "If you study this book carefully, you can be the emperor's teacher!" " ! In ten years, the world will change and you will be rich. In the next 13 years, you will see me at the foot of Gucheng Mountain in Jibei County-there is a yellow stone there that is me. "The old man said and went away. At dawn in the morning, Sean took out his book and read it. It turned out to be Sun Tzu's Art of War (assisted by Zhou Wuwang)! Sean cherishes it very much, often reads it carefully, and studies and studies it repeatedly. 10 years later, Chen Sheng and others rose up against the state of Qin, and more than 100 people responded. Pei Gong Liu Bang led thousands of troops and captured some places west of Xiapi. Sean joined him and became his subordinate. From then on, Sean often made suggestions to Pei according to Sun Tzu's Art of War. Pei thought it was very good and often adopted his strategies. Later, he became Liu Bang's strategist who strategized and won thousands of miles. After Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor, he was named Liu Hou.

Sean will never forget the old man who taught him the art of war. 13 years later, when he followed Liu Bang through Jibei, he saw a yellow stone at the foot of the ancient city mountain and took it back, calling it "Huang Shigong", which was a treasure and sacrificed on time. After Sean died, his family buried Yellowstone National Park with him.

5. The story of ancient people's appearance China has a history of 5,000 years of civilization and is known as "the state of etiquette". China people are also famous for their polite style.

Etiquette civilization, as an important part of China traditional culture, has a wide and far-reaching impact on the social and historical development of China, and its content is very rich. Etiquette covers a wide range and permeates almost every aspect of ancient society.

"Li" and "Li" in ancient China are actually two different concepts. "Rite" is a system, a rule and a social consciousness. "One" is the concrete expression of "Li" and a set of systematic and complete procedures based on the provisions and contents of "Li".

In ancient China, etiquette was derived from the clan system and the hierarchical relationship between nobles and the lower classes in order to meet the needs of the society at that time, so it had the characteristics and limitations of that era. Today, modern etiquette is very different from ancient etiquette. We must abandon the etiquette norms that serve the exploiting classes and focus on the traditional civilized etiquette that still has positive and universal significance today, such as respecting the elderly, respecting the virtuous, being polite to others, and being neat and tidy. , and to transform and inherit.

This is of modern value for cultivating good personal qualities, coordinating harmonious interpersonal relationships, shaping civilized social atmosphere and building socialist spiritual civilization. Respecting the elderly and respecting the virtuous is as follows: 1. From primitive society to feudal society, the political and ethical relationship between people is linked by the blood relationship between clan and family, so we respect our ancestors in the family and our elders in the society.

Because the ancient society of China respected the rule of courtesy and benevolent governance, respecting the virtuous became a historical requirement. Mencius said, "When you care for the aged and respect the virtuous, when Jie Jun is in power, you celebrate" (Note: Mencius told his son to leave).

Celebration is a kind of reward. This ancient traditional etiquette has played an important role in the formation of warm interpersonal relations and orderly and harmonious ethical relations, both in the past and now.

When it comes to respecting the elderly, this is a major feature of China's traditional culture. Respecting the elderly in ancient times did not stop at thinking and preaching, nor did it stop at the lives of ordinary people.

From the monarch, the gentry to the whole official and gentry class, a set of rules for respecting the elderly and a ritual system for supporting the elderly are being practiced and formed. "Book of Rites" records: "The ancient way, 50 non-Yunnan disciples, awarded to the elderly" (note: "Book of Rites").

In other words, people over the age of 50 can not go hunting, but they should get a rich share in the distribution of prey. Some ancient books also made clear requirements for the volume when talking to the elderly.

For example, "Reading while Raising" said: "Serving parents, the voice is easily silenced. Don't yell at them because of trivial things "(note:" read while raising. " Words "). Disciples' Rules also said: "Ignorance is not appropriate, but not appropriate".

In a word, from kings and nobles to Shu Ren people, they should follow certain rules and express their filial piety to their elders in various ways, which is an important symbol to measure whether a person has self-cultivation. Any form of society needs to respect the elderly.

Not only because the elderly have deep experience, wide knowledge and experience, long working hours and great contribution to society, they deserve respect; At the same time, they are physically and mentally poor and need the thoughtfulness, care and help of young people. As a polite modern youth, for the sake of the elderly and the elderly, Lu Yu should humbly give up his seat by bus. In shops, theaters and other public places, we should try our best to create convenient conditions for the elderly.

During the Three Kingdoms period, there was an allusion about respecting the virtuous, which was called "three visits to the thatched cottage". It is said that Liu Bei appreciated Zhuge Liang's talent and asked him to help him conquer the world, so he took the trouble to personally invite him out of the mountain and live in Zhuge Liang's thatched cottage.

Zhuge Liang agreed repeatedly. Since then, Zhuge Liang's great wisdom and courage have been fully exerted and he devoted himself to Liu Bei's career.

Throughout the ancient history of China, most monarchs who made achievements attached great importance to respecting and using the virtuous, and regarded it as a decisive factor of national security. If you don't respect the sages at ordinary times, they won't share their worries for the country in an emergency.

It's not that talented people don't think about the country, but that the country can't forget the scholars for a long time, so "people who can survive in their own country never exist" (note: Mozi's pro-scholars). Today, we advocate carrying forward the ancient "ceremony of respecting the sages", and we must give the modern new concept of talents the content of respecting knowledge and talents.

In today's society, all kinds of competition are becoming more and more fierce. All kinds of competition, in the final analysis, is the competition of talents.

To maintain an advantageous position in the fierce competition, we must have a strong talent team. Only by respecting and caring for talents from thoughts to concrete actions can the whole society form a good environment for respecting knowledge and talents, and form a strong enough talent team to be invincible.

Second, musical instruments are still suitable for the Chinese nation, which has always paid attention to expressing people's rich inner feelings through appropriate forms. There are many established ceremonies for major festivals and events.

If you get a bumper harvest, you should celebrate it with songs; When you are in trouble, pray for the blessing of the gods. Over time, many festivals and etiquette forms have been formed, such as Spring Festival, Lantern Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival and Double Ninth Festival. Almost every festival has its own specific customs.

In ancient times, weddings, funerals, celebrations and other activities were regarded as major events in social life, and their etiquette was particularly meticulous, with specific provisions from clothing and utensils to specifications, procedures and etiquette. Today, the most important thing for us to maintain and carry forward the excellent etiquette civilization of the Chinese nation is propriety.

That is to say, as Cheng Cheng advocated, "luxury is born in literature, and excessive literature is luxury, but not enough for frugality" (Volume 6 of Cheng Cheng Cheng Ji Shi Cheng Wai Shu). It can be seen that the scale of etiquette is appropriate and proper decoration is necessary, but excessive decoration will cause extravagance and waste, which deviates from the requirements of etiquette; It is also inappropriate to be too stingy and hinder the implementation of the ceremony.

This view of the ancients is very incisive and has a guiding role for us to hold various ceremonies today. In today's social activities, it is still indispensable to hold various ceremonies.

Companies open, children get married, and various festivals have different ceremonies. If we want to grasp the scale of various ceremonies, we must grasp the principle of moderation and combine the necessary ceremonies with modern civilization. Related activities are both grand and flashy.

We should especially object to this.