Through review, get to know yourself again

I participated in the Sir positioning training camp when I was very confused about my position.

I often change industries and positions, so I don’t have any skills, and I don’t know what I like. In the past few years, I have been going around in circles, watching friends around me who have clear goals, have achieved some success, or have stable families, but due to my own willfulness, I have wasted a lot of youth. I didn’t want to continue in this state, so I joined the positioning training camp, hoping that my career in 2019 would be a breakthrough!

In the past month, these cognitive changes have made me feel very profound.

01. Positioning needs to be short-range and accurate

Short enough to be clearly reachable and precise enough is what we must achieve, and it must be unique.

02. Valuable choices

In the past, the most valuable things that I could think of were meaningful and profitable, and the ideas were relatively superficial! I never thought that being valuable to others is my own resource. I deeply realized that the real value is altruism.

03. Value exchange

When doing value exchange, the needs of both parties need to be considered, and the needs of the other party cannot be subjectively assumed.

04. Write stories of feelings and stories of change

Without records, nothing happened. Writing these stories is to record what has happened, and to organize yourself.

05. Value verification

Only by doing value verification can the value be affirmed. If you ignore value verification, it is easy to aim too high and lead to no expertise and no affirmation at all.

06. Dynamic positioning method

Positioning is a dynamic cycle process that matches the present and opens up the future. It is by no means a static result.

Our positioning is not always the same. We can constantly adjust, optimize and start again.

07. The three-dimensional path of goals

When setting goals, they must be challenging, break through the comfort zone, have resources, and be valuable!

08. Benchmark learning

There must be a teacher among us. Finding such a benchmark is equivalent to finding a mentor. You can start looking for yourself from your own side!

09. Increase continuous self-awareness of resources

Cognition needs to be continuously upgraded, and you need to fully understand yourself and be constantly aware.

10. Review

Conduct a review based on possibilities. What if it can be done better? Do it differently? What else can be done?

If I feel ashamed now that I have less interaction with group members, then I can be more proactive in linking up with friends in my own group and other groups. I can do better than before. Be timid to get to know them, see them, and increase exchanges and communication.

11. Links

It is no longer just adding friends, but seeing the demands of both parties, looking for link points, satisfying both parties, and creating a win-win situation, in order to get more Much support.

12. Different resources have different methods of obtaining.

Knowledge relies on learning, ability relies on practice, connections rely on links, and money relies on accumulation, but don’t endow a method with too many assumptions and expectations. Practice is the most important way to obtain resources. When we participate in the training camp, don’t have high hopes. I will definitely find my position after joining this community. In the process, if you don’t work hard to practice, explore, link and communicate, The result may not be what you want. After all, you only rely on yourself for growth.

13. Not forgetting the original intention is not forgetting to constantly update self-awareness

Not forgetting the original intention means not forgetting the self-iteration we carry out.

14. All cognition is a belief and a kind of thinking. If we want thinking to truly change, we must turn it into a habit.

These cognitive changes have brought many changes to me.

01. Learn to be altruistic

In the training camp, I served as the leader of 4 groups, reminding and supervising my partners to do their homework, giving myself motivation through responsibility, allowing me to persevere, and at the same time helping my partners. They insist.

0 2. Deliberately practice patience

The random thoughts I have in the group every day are actually random actions. I feel that writing down what I think and see is the same. This kind of training makes me more patient!

03. Take the initiative to understand

As a team leader, the potential motivation is to let me see the homework of each team member, so that I can understand them better and point me to their excellence. Study, you are as confused as me, I hope you can find the answer here together!

04.? Obtain unexpected gains

Combined with the first question of the 5 review questions, review: Why did I come here? Only you really know the answer.

The less you expect, the less you will gain! If you don’t think about it, it won’t happen. You need to take the initiative and dare to think. For example, I didn’t know I would receive so many likes from the team members!

When we expect more from others, we get less. Growth is something that only you can do, and others are just auxiliary resources. Even with the supervision of many management team partners and CP, the energy in the group flows, if you don’t take the initiative to practice it, others cannot help you "absorb" it. , you have to strive for what you want, and what you get by relying on it is an illusion. You will know if you have deep links with everyone!

The vaguer our expectations, the less we will gain. You don’t know what you want, and others don’t know what to give you!

05. Start to lead growth through awareness

Point to inner awareness, dig deep into your inner needs through emotions, sort them out, and constantly adjust your goals, so as to gain emotional stability and growth It happens in getting to know yourself again and again, now learn to discover the true self behind your emotions!

06. Confidence in cultivating good habits

You need to have methods, be valuable, be willing to spend time, accept and practice, and cultivate good habits. I can do it too.

In short, I am no longer afraid of not finding my niche at this moment, I am no longer so ambitious, I am no longer confused about resources, and I have a clearer view of my goals. I try to record everything about myself and deliberately improve my knowledge!

I also have new thoughts on my positioning, goals, and implementation plans.

01. Why do I want to find my position quickly?

I just want to have a firm direction for my efforts. After sorting it out, I have given myself a preliminary positioning: a senior copywriting planner in the education industry who understands community operations. Teacher Tao Xinwei gave me suggestions. I think it can be not limited to education. Industry, expand the scope of selection.

02. What should I base my positioning on? (Opportunities, resources, enthusiasm, familiarity?)

In the past few years, I have been changing jobs and changing careers. Since I have not completed the accumulation, professional skills, and resources, it is not easy to find a job that suits me. , my inner resources are too scarce. To be honest, if you ask me now "What do you like?" I still can't answer it. Instead of struggling, it is better to choose a compromise position, improve professional capabilities, adapt to the workplace, and then dynamically adjust it.

Opportunities - negative risks. Currently, I have no choice in terms of opportunities. I have no funds, no skills, etc. The resources are insufficient, or even non-resources, perhaps because I haven’t discovered them yet. The enthusiasm for becoming a professional in a certain field may be there, but the familiarity may not be enough, but this aspect can be acquired through learning and practice. So I position myself based on passion and familiarity.

03. My goal: Find a job that suits me. My current position selection direction is: (1) copywriting planning, (2) community operation.

Now we will focus on goal (1) copywriting planning. After all, work solves problems such as survival and accumulation of skills.

04. My goal value: It gives me the direction to move forward and the subject of study. I know what skills I can add and where to go to find a job? Gain opportunities to create value for the company. (Altruistic thought of this, the current situation is really relatively small.)

Things I need to pay attention to when implementing the plan:

01. What are the key actions - thematic learning, Find a company, find a benchmark.

02. Professionalism - seek consultation from practical experts and partners in the group.

03. Cost factors - I need to spend time, energy, money and other costs.

04. Risk factors - allow the risk of failure to exist.

05. Adjust the dynamic system-it needs to be considered and paid attention to during the execution of the plan. Incorrect methods will lead to ineffective and timely adjustments. Response: Analyze the situation, ask for advice, explore new solutions, and establish new adjustment points.

06. Review-Review dynamically and regularly to take stock of your gains. Review your goals. Calibrate the path so it doesn't go astray.

My plan execution arrangements:

1. Goal 1 copywriting planning

01. Resignation, completed in March.

02. Study and find positioning, study the positioning training camp course, and the camp has ended in March.

03. Industry and job research, not completed.

(1) Industry research, interviewing people, and online inquiries, completed on March 31.

(2) Job research - copywriting planning, community operations, professional interviews, in progress, time: completed on April 1.

04. The interview strategy has been learned and will be reviewed on March 29th.

05. Due to delays, resume optimization will be completed on March 29-30.

06. Screen companies to submit resumes (submit at least 2 resumes on April 5).

Try to find resources to connect with, recruitment websites, acquaintance introductions, job fairs, headhunters, circles (professional QQ groups, WeChat groups and other communities), in recruiting APP, regional WeChat operators (regional WeChat sisters, WeChat Recruitment, etc.) to publish job search information.

2. I hope to find a copywriting and planning job in my favorite industry in mid-April. The specific industry has not been fully determined, and I have initially decided on the education industry.

3. In terms of professional ability by the end of May, I will master the framework of copywriting planning and be able to independently write the entire simplified plan, so I adopt thematic learning:

4. Copywriting planning

01. Participate in 1 relevant professional online training camp (under selection).

02. Accurate expression practice - 10-minute punch-in every day to learn writing (already enrolled). p> 03. Read 4 professional books (under purchase) and read for 1 hour every day.

04. Read more case sharing on professional public accounts (already following). 05. 1 PPT skill every day (already included)

06. Find benchmarking colleagues (after joining the company)

5. Goal 2

Start learning community operations in April;

01. This is currently being learned in practice, and practical experience will be output.

02. Benchmark learning figures have been determined.

03. Read professional books, share your reading experience, and share in relevant communities once a month.

6. Start date: March 20

7. Completion date: May 30

Finally, I want to talk about the shining points of those friends who attracted me in the positioning training camp, and the impact they had on me is worth talking about. :

The first Teacher Xin

She is very active and has the courage to take challenges. She is the first miracle worker in the group, proactive and active in thinking.

Influence on me: As a person, you should have the ability to practice like her. The power of example can overcome the habit of procrastination and try to complete every task in hand early.

The second star.

The words are very recognizable, the person is warm, attentive, and he positively praises and comments on everyone.

Influence on me: People should have a perseverance and hide in small things. There will be surprises, be patient and persevere, and you will eventually gain something.

The third Cai Gao Xiaobi

has a strong sense of action, a clear sense of purpose, energy and ability, and self-confidence. Goddess halo, a lever for shorthand ability.

Influence on me: You must be confident as a person. A confident woman is the most beautiful. Do one small thing every day to increase your confidence.

Advanced Snail is sincere, good at encouraging others, and especially good at asking questions!

Pinellia shorthand stick, strong logical thinking ability!

Thanks for meeting each other. Camping is a new beginning and a new journey for everyone. See you in the world!