What is the psychology that men want to drive you crazy after quarreling? Why do men usually ignore babies?

Yesterday, a netizen's message was heartbreaking to read. She has been married to her husband for more than seven years and has a daughter. The relationship between husband and wife is not good, and the husband usually ignores his daughter. Because the husband-in-law prefers boys to girls, and she can't have a second child because of problems when she gives birth to her daughter. After years of strong support and quarreling, her previous feelings were exhausted, and she filed for divorce. Originally, I thought that my husband's family preferred boys to girls, and I usually ignored my daughter. Of course, I wouldn't rob her of custody. What she didn't expect was that her husband robbed her of custody during the divorce.

Hearing the news, she was heartbroken. Because she hasn't had a job in recent years, if her husband wants to rob her, she can't compete with him. My husband is a divorce lawyer, which is not uncommon. Usually I don't care much about my children, but I fight for the custody of my children when I get divorced.

Why do men generally ignore their babies and fight for custody after divorce? Selfishness is these points. It's not that they are kind-hearted, but the reason is from the heart.

In order to make women sad

I believe that under any circumstances, mothers always have more feelings for their children than fathers. This is the greatness of maternal love, which can give up everything for children. Therefore, many men have grasped this point and made women feel distressed. Many couples gnash their teeth at each other when they divorce. They can be together but not apart. A man knows that a child is a woman's life, and he knows where a woman's weakness lies.

So, in order to make yourself feel better, don't make the woman feel better. Because the woman cares about the child, she also wants to grab the custody of the child. Is to see her sad, is to see her begging. Men usually ignore their babies, but after divorce, they scramble for custody of the children, just to make the woman feel better.

In order to make women compromise

Divorce involves many aspects. Not to mention feelings, but also the common property and deposits of both parties, especially rich families, which will be more troublesome to share. What should men do if they want more property? Grab a child with a woman and make her compromise.

Yes, he knows that women are soft-hearted and can give up these properties for their children. But if you give her the child in the first place, she will rob the property. So we use circuitous tactics to win custody of the children. The purpose is to make the woman compromise and voluntarily give up her marital property. I have to say that women are powerless to rational men.

Let the woman pay alimony and throw it to the old man.

Generally speaking, most children from divorced families are over 2 years old and have passed the most difficult stage. If the divorce is awarded to the woman, the man has to pay alimony and the child is not with him. Men are egoists and will find it uneconomical. So, I rushed to fight for the custody of the child, let the woman pay the alimony, and then left the child to the elderly at home. By the way, tell the children again, and everything will be fine. In the final analysis, it is the concept of ownership at work. Whether you care about children or not, children are your own, and you can only follow them.

Why do men generally ignore their children, but rush to get them after divorce? Selfishness is nothing more than the above points, and it is also very heartfelt.

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