The diary of a failed man talks about his mood

A man never sheds tears easily. What hurts the most for a man is not the loss in life, but carrying the name of Luther. Below I have carefully compiled the mood diaries of failed men for your reference. I hope you like it!

The mood diaries of failed men: You will never understand the sadness and pain of men

Happy men have their own reasons for being happy, while sad men only feel sad for one reason: to be looked down upon by others, especially those closest to them.

People often say that crazy men hate women. The ancients have explained clearly that crazy men, men’s infatuation for love and their dedication to feelings are only known to men themselves.

A woman can fall in love with many men in her life, but a man can fall in love with multiple women at the same time, but women don’t know that a man only loves one in his life! A man’s true pure love can only happen once, when that When the first love comes, he will do whatever it takes. When that love dies, there will be no more love. The love was too deep, but the pain was also too deep. So after that time, men's love became numb. A man may fall in love with another woman in the future, but that love is no longer pure and contains desire, sympathy, and pity?

Women's hearts are made of water, but in the end Poison also affects women's hearts, so it is women who are hurt the most, and women are the ones who hurt others the most. A woman can love many times, but a man can only love once. After a man meets the woman he loves most, he gives her all his love, but how many women know how to cherish it.

So the man cried, the man shed tears, tears of extreme sadness and despair. Slowly, the man began to bury his only love with his own hands, sealing it in the deepest abyss of his heart.

But in the dead of night, he would jump into the abyss crazily, trying to find any trace of that love, even if it was just a little bit, but the result was the same as before, and he found nothing, leaving only I huddled alone in a dark corner, smoking lonely cigarettes, crying lonely tears.

Of course, when women complain about men’s philandering, have they ever thought that the most precious thing in men is also being ruthlessly destroyed by you? Do you cherish it when a man shyly says I love you? ? When a man sheds tears for you, do you wipe it for him? When a man begs you not to leave, do you look back? It is said that men are flirtatious, but women never know that a man’s flirtatiousness is due to infatuation and extreme love. Extreme pain and pain, extreme pain and death. After the love was wiped out this time, the man's heart for love died. He will never give a sincere heart to a woman again. He has no energy, no affection, no longer believes in true love, and always has a feeling for love. A little cynicism, some things only happen once in a lifetime. When a man loves someone with all his heart, he has to pay his dues, work hard to grasp it, try to give her everything she wants, and try to die for her, but he is indifferent in return, so he is lonely again and again. During the waiting, the hard work dried up bit by bit, and in the end, all the hard work was gone, and the heart was disheartened. When love lost its faith, when the relationship lost the harbor of loyalty, for men, what love is, all this became apparent. It doesn't matter anymore! Once a man's heart is cold, it will never be warm again, because after loving once, he has lost the ability to love.

In a male-centered world, everyone thinks that women are weak. However, in a male society, it is actually men who suffer the most mental torture. When a woman is in pain, she can cry without restraint, and no one will blame her; but for a man, who doesn't shed tears easily, it is a great shame to cry, and he can only keep sulking in his heart. Therefore, men have more diseases and their life span seems to be shorter than that of women. If a woman cannot achieve anything in society, she can retreat to the kitchen and become a good wife and mother, and she will still be respected by people and society. As the head of a family, if a man cannot succeed in his career, even if he becomes a good husband, he will be nothing more than a man in a skirt in people's eyes. What is the status and reputation? .

Similarly, the support rate of other family members for a failed man is also an important factor in the man's ultimate success. This kind of support is to mentally affirm that the man has tried his best, explain that failure is not his responsibility, and encourage him to keep trying. A woman's support for her man is to appreciate everything about him.

If a man really loves a woman, there are many things about him that women don’t understand, and a man’s respect and love for a woman will not be less than what a woman gives, because men have to bear a lot. , a man’s heart is not stronger than a woman’s, because women can vent, but men can only suppress it in their hearts?

That hurt hurts? The mood diary of a failed man: the two most failed things in a man’s life

No one can avoid experiencing several failures in life. Without such failures superimposed into steps leading to success, we may not be able to taste the fruits of victory. But if the failure is too heavy and heavy, we may not be able to taste the fruits of victory. No more strength to climb the stairs. In the face of failure, men and women suffer the same blow, but in different forms. For women, we see more complaints and tears, while for men, we see more silence and coldness. However, if a woman doesn't wither in complaints, her tears will be just yesterday's sadness; if a man doesn't die in silence, his coldness will just be the determination to turn around.

Women often regard emotional gains and losses as the most important thing in life, so they place excessive expectations on men. When a woman is confused in love, dissatisfied in marriage, and unhappy in life, the man next to her may be in pain so much that she cannot speak. In fact, emotional gains and losses are equally important to men, but women value it at the beginning, so they are afraid of losing it. At first, she thought that she would never meet a better one, but in the end, happiness is always around the corner. Men, on the other hand, often take things seriously after the fact, because they have already lost them. At first, he thought that there are grasses everywhere in the world, but in the end, all the famous flowers have their owners. Therefore, women always find something to torment themselves with when they have something, and possession becomes meaningless; men always find something to fill themselves with guilt when they lose something, and guilt becomes useless.

For a man who has the spirit of brotherhood in his heart, the influence of his circle of friends is undoubtedly huge. Good friends can build up a mountain range, but bad friends will only rot into a pile of garbage. And when a man treats someone who is not a friend as a friend, the first person who can notice the strangeness and change is the woman next to him. But at this time, the man is enjoying himself happily, so he doesn't care about the woman's reminder. It would be nice if he doesn't describe you as someone with long hair and short knowledge. If a man doesn't reflect, it will be difficult for a woman to get her back. You say he has a "foolish friend", but he thinks he has a "cowardly friend". If you argue fiercely here, he will stick close to you there. No matter how well the woman's "home school" is run, your man has hired a "foreign teacher". When all your recovery measures fail, the man has already given out a bad smell under the influence of the "foreign teacher". When the time comes, you have no other choice but to change students. How can a "student" who has been expelled have a good life? So, when the wine and meat are gone, those "foreign teachers" will become like birds and beasts. They are not good birds in the first place. Why should they show their sincerity to you? ?These days, maybe only the person who truly loves you can be with you life and death. Unfortunately, men are always lost in love and cannot distinguish right from wrong. Therefore, some people will eventually walk away sadly, and you will end up looking at the autumn wind alone.

Men are often more cautious when it comes to marriage. If he doesn’t want to marry, a woman’s forced marriage will often end in failure. Not all women are easily married by men. In this regard, men have their own persistence and principles, which wastes the efforts of some women with impure purposes. Since women can't grasp the mystery of it, it's better to just wait for it to happen, smile and watch the clouds rise and fall, and enjoy the sweetness of love. I have always thought that if you have ever received a promise expressed by a man in the form of marriage, no matter whether the promise lasts forever or not, a woman should not deny that the man has loved you with all his heart, especially if it has lasted for many years. marriage.

Because of this, once a marriage fails, the blow to a man may be that he is forced to start all over again. And under the pressure of survival with such fierce competition, such a restructuring is not easy for men of any age. Of course, men sometimes make mistakes, not to mention that there are women in life who are vain and arrogant, ignorant and shallow but unwilling to be lonely, obsessed with themselves and never satisfied. If a man marries her, he will probably be miserable. There is a lawsuit every day. Of course you can't keep her if you don't have money, but she thinks you don't have time to spend with her when you're busy making money. When you have money, she has even more reason to complain endlessly. Such a woman is also a disaster in a man's life. , If you can't escape, your life is over, and if you can escape, you have already lost a layer of skin. Maybe there will be another "desperate pursuit". If you don't get it, you will be destroyed. No one can even think about having a good life. . This kind of entanglement may mean that after many years, a man is no longer young day by day, and perhaps he has missed a good opportunity to start a business. Who can a man turn to for his youth? Who can a man turn to for his depression?

? The two biggest failures in a man's life are making bad friends and marrying a woman who is not suitable for him. ?When such words are spoken by a man, they seem heavy and rare, because I know that a man without experience and growth will not be willing to admit that he has failed so miserably. Maybe many women say that there are not many good men nowadays, but I still think that there are some men in this world whose tears certainly don’t need to be seen, while some men’s tears are invisible. Men who are willing to admit their failures and have figured out why are undoubtedly worthy of praise. No matter what stage they are in, I believe they can come out and try their best to achieve another goal.

Who can truly be in love with you? Who is the red thread in your life? What is right and wrong, what is important and what is serious, also affects the success or failure and happiness of a man's life. When you have believed in the hypocritical theory that "people can't help themselves in the world" for personal gain, you will inevitably have a day when the "hero's end" will happen. You know, after some failures, you have time to seize the day again, while some failures will become an unbearable weight in your life, hidden in a corner of your heart, and will only appear cruel and cold when the prosperity ends and you grow old. The mood diary of a failed man: A failed man? Ling

If the cherry blossoms are crying, then the snow in the wind must be crying?

Still remember a girl said: Today When I get up, I will call you the snow in the wind, because you are the wind and I am the snow. Since I am in the wind, I am in your heart. You will not make me sad or sad. If you like cherry blossoms, you don’t want to see her cry. Right? But the snow in the wind is cold and merciless. That girl is Xiaoxue, Ling's girlfriend from the Internet to reality.

? Do you know that I express my heart and soul to express how much I love you? Don’t let me use words to deceive you in order to make you happy?

From that day the wind started to rise. The messenger became Snow's messenger. It was not an order given by anyone, it was Ling's own decision. In the days to come, Ling’s letters to Xue contained a snowflake cut by Ling himself. There was one mistake: Ling sealed the envelope but forgot to put the snowflakes in it. Xue asked him, "Are you no longer willing to cut snowflakes for me?" Ling became nervous because of Xue's anger for the first time.

It was Ling’s birthday and it was raining heavily. In order to celebrate Ling's birthday, Xue got soaked all over and dared to come in the heavy rain. Ling was so moved that she shed the first tear since she started reading. It was the first time that a girl cared about her like this. Seeing that Xue was all wet, Ling was worried. However, Xue still caught a cold the next day. Ling was extremely nervous and wished he could take care of her right next to Xue.

Ling was very stupid and could not speak, which often made Xue angry. Finally, he said the wrong thing once and they broke up. This was their longest breakup.

It’s been almost a year

? It must be that I’m not good enough, that’s why you want to escape, to the ends of the earth and to the ends of the earth, hiding in the arms of others, can you not care whether your life is good or not, don’t do it deliberately Avoid letting me know?

In fact, Xue always knew in her heart that Ling would never let go of her, but no matter what, they could not reconcile.

Na walked into Ling The world of

One day, it was raining lightly, and Na went to make up classes in the evening. Ling and his friends were going to the Internet cafe to play, but they saw Na walking over in a bad mood on the way. Ling grabbed Na. What's wrong? He made a sad face. Why don't you go to class? Na said, "Come home with me." Ling left his friends and went home with Na. Na was silent along the way. Ling finally couldn't help it anymore. , Hug Na? Don’t hold it in when you’re in a bad mood. If you want to cry, cry loudly. Don’t hold it in until you get sick. I don’t want you to be in a bad mood. Na cried, crying so sadly in Ling’s arms. God didn't show mercy, and the rain began to get heavier. They were soaked by the rain, and they found a roof to hide from the rain. Na said she was so cold, and Ling hugged Na tightly. In fact, at that moment, Ling's heart Occupied

Na knew that Ling could never let go of Xue, so she decided to let Ling go to Xue to explain it to her. She didn’t know that her decision made her lose Ling forever, but at least she knew Ling’s There is still snow in her heart, and she doesn't want her boyfriend to think about other girls. She reluctantly made this decision.

On the day of the college entrance examination, Ling came to Xue's house and saw Xue. They were so familiar yet strange to each other. Ling did not dare to say a word except looking at Xue for fear of... Say the wrong thing again and make her angry. Xue knew that Ling was coming, so she took an hour off from her boss to see him, but it took more than 10 hours. When she went back, she was scolded by her boss. Ling said to Xue, "How about we make peace?" Xue didn't say anything, Xue's Several friends asked Ling to come on, Bingbing and Xiuxiu said to Ling? In fact, Xue has always wanted to reconcile with you, and was just waiting for you to come over and apologize, but you made her wait until her heart broke. You are here today to make everyone happy. Surprised? Ling told Xue that he could only stay for 2 days before leaving. Xue said she would come over after get off work in the evening, but she never expected that she would be scolded by her boss when she went back. The next day, Ling found the ice bar where Xue worked. He asked for a glass of lemon juice with thickening and no sugar added. He was drinking a bottle of wine by himself. Xue was at work and could not talk to Ling. He threw a note and told Mr. Ling to drink some wine. Ling called Xue's friends to play in the ice bar and waited until Xue got off work. After Ling's last night, Ling held Xue tightly in his arms, kissed her cheek, and let her sleep well. Ling looked at Xue like this all night. In the morning, Ling thought Xue would reconcile, but Xue still said no, Ling After leaving, Xue went to send the car, and Ling left without looking back. Xue never knew how deeply her words of "no" hurt Ling.

Ling's heart was broken and she didn't dare Touch any emotional experience.

Ling actually had the urge to die, but luckily his friends stopped him. Ling is a failure, right?