Do you know what parents should do if their children are tired of school and don't want to go to school?

1. Change children's mentality When children are bored, parents usually find it hard to accept and even educate them in the form of scolding. Parents should understand that children who are tired of learning must have encountered problems, and it is unlikely that children will not study for no reason. At this time, if parents reprimand or blame him again, it will only lead to the aggravation of children's weariness of learning. Therefore, parents must be patient with their children's temper, communicate calmly with their children, let them speak their minds, and grasp the real reason why their children are tired of learning.

2. Parents, as the closest people to their children, should know their children better than others, master their personal hobbies and advantages, and understand that they are probably not good at learning and training, but they are likely to draw well or like playing the violin. It is not practical for parents to spend a lot of time with their children to master them. You can create a parent-child interaction time that belongs to you. Why not give birth to a baby before going to bed, ask him what he is doing now and what he has learned, and carefully observe the children's joys and sorrows. The child will feel completely concerned, and of course he will want to enjoy his secret world. This way, children will not be more and more alienated from you. Children can also participate in housework, such as helping their mothers wash dishes, which not only shapes their operational ability, but also won't make them feel lonely. During this special time, I learned to put aside my work and mobile phone and devote myself to playing games, reading picture books and exercising with my children. ...

3. Deal with the advantages of children in time and encourage them to be unique. They have not only advantages but also disadvantages. If you only see the child's defects and stare at them all the time, and they are getting bigger and bigger, the child is undoubtedly very light-handed and dares to do nothing. Therefore, parents should be good at tapping the advantages of their children and always praise them. Encourage children to explore, try the latest things and make their own decisions. This is the way to shape their self-confidence. Therefore, don't compare other children with children, especially when children are young. Many parents think that their children are disobedient and say nothing. In fact, the smaller the harm, the greater the harm. Children, in the case of not easy to express, have already understood. Good children are encouraged to go out; Poor children are suppressed.

4. To help children build perseverance and overcome themselves, there is no need to set too high an overall goal for children. Before children do things, parents should consider whether their children's work experience and future development level can be applied to their children to achieve their goals. The overall goal is to let them jump a little, and then gradually increase the difficulty coefficient from shallow to deep. In that way, the child will think that he has overcome the difficulties through hard work, so that the child will feel successful, keep his passion for doing things, and drive him to continue to do things well. Ordinary parents should also let their children participate in sports that suit them, which can not only improve their physical fitness, but also enhance their psychological endurance and help shape their perseverance.

5. Find a third party to assist in the study and training. Seeking outside help in the face of difficulties does not mean that your child will "lose" or that TA will be labeled as a "loser" in the future. If weariness of learning has seriously affected children's mentality and become an obstacle to their success, then it is best to seek the help of a third party.