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My family is addicted to stock trading. How can I quit? Please help me find a way. Thank you.
The topic owner must admit that the starting point of the stock speculators is good, in order to make profits, including the stock speculators themselves, the topic owner and all family members. For this reason, gambling addiction and internet addiction, which have a bad influence on family life and even future career, are of course excessive and cannot be allowed to develop. However, we should also make use of the situation, give priority to sparse, and block it as a supplement. You can't force people to quit, lest the stock speculators complain, or even blame the family for the failure of stock trading, which will affect family harmony.
Knife elder brother gave the subject an idea, which can perfectly solve the so-called stock addiction problem at home.
No one can deny that stock trading is for profit. The subject can make a contract with the stock speculators in three chapters: stock trading can be done, and it is necessary to make stable profits, otherwise why go!
Stock speculators can be given a one-year period, with a small sum of money (for example, 10,000 yuan) to stipulate that the monthly profit is not less than 3%-5%, and at most 12 months can only have a loss of two months, and the loss cannot exceed 5%. Monthly appraisal cannot be superimposed and accumulated. You can continue to trade stocks if you meet the standards for 12 months. If not, then give up stock trading and start a business with peace of mind.
If stock speculators agree to this condition, the purpose of this project will reach 90%. Because such an assessment standard seems easy, in fact, more than 90% of people can't do it. If the stock trader really does it, let him fire it. Your family has a genius for stock trading!
The stock market suffered seven losses, two draws and one win. It is really wrong for non-professionals to indulge in the stock market and delay their careers and families, and it is difficult to have a good result. Most people should just have fun. Don't think of it as an ATM that can get rich overnight. It is no different from gambling.
I'm knife elder brother, and the stock market fluctuated in 18. Welcome to communicate.
Do you want your family to withdraw from the stock market with this problem?
Stock trading is not illegal, and many people have regarded stock trading as a profession. The addiction to stock trading shows that they focus on the stock market, which is a good thing, at least he likes this industry. I don't think it's right that you want him to quit the stock market and leave the stock market.
Interest is the best teacher, not to mention that stock trading is not an unfair profession. Just in any industry, if you want to succeed, you can't just rely on interest. Interest can help you succeed in this industry.
If you are interested, you have to have a method. Technology should also be emphasized in stock trading. You can't just buy and sell. You are addicted to stock trading. You must learn the basic theory of technical analysis. This is the basis of stock trading. Only when the foundation is solid can it be applied to actual combat.
I think, you said that your family is addicted to stock trading, and you want him to quit. It must be that he didn't make any money or even lost a lot.
Indeed, the stock market is a market where risks and rewards coexist. Many people only see the profit side, but ignore the existence of market risks and lack awe of the market. As a result, when the risk comes, they are at a loss and don't know how to deal with it, resulting in deep losses.
This should be the reason why you want to stop him from trading stocks. That's for sure. If he makes a lot of money and makes your living standard higher and higher, you will definitely support him, right?
There are many reasons for the loss. In this market, retail investors also have the same 28 rules. In a bear market, even with the 19 rule, it is difficult for most people to make money. There are always a few people who can make money and achieve long-term stable profits, which is rare.
The road to stock trading is very difficult and tortuous. To become a master and achieve long-term and stable profits, you need a long way to go, you need to keep learning, you need to keep summarizing and improving in actual combat, you need to find a trading system that suits you, and you need to overcome human weaknesses through constant tempering. This process takes at least 8- 10 years, and few people can persist.
If he is willing to insist, please understand him and let him fight with a small amount of money until he realizes stable profit for more than 2-3 years, and then add more money.
I hope my answer can help and inspire you.
Your family is addicted to stock trading, and it is difficult to quit. Persuasion from others will generally have no effect.
People who speculate in stocks are generally unable to bear the risks themselves before they can withdraw from the stock market.
There is a 60-year-old man in my community who watches other people's stock trading. He also opened an account with a securities company. The investment consultant of the securities company was very enthusiastic and said to him: It doesn't matter if you don't understand. We are all professionals and can recommend stocks for you. It's up to you to buy or not. The investment consultant spoke a lot of professional knowledge. The old man admires them very much and trusts them very much. Fortunately, the old man is still a rational person. He only invested part of his savings in the stock market. At first, he made a little money, and then he sold it in a hurry. Later, I bought small-cap technology stocks and finally got deeply involved. He specifically asked me what to do. I studied the stock and thought it would go up in the future, so I told him to leave it alone. He said that when the stock was sold out, he would quit the stock market and never speculate again.
About two months later, the stock really rose above the price he bought. I told him that I could sell it, and he told me that he had cut the meat and bought other stocks on the recommendation of the investment consultant. As a result, the old man almost lost all the money he invested in the stock market before quitting the stock market.
Your family is addicted to stock trading, so you can ask him not to invest too much money in the stock market, but to play with a small amount of money. It is difficult to persuade him not to speculate.
Stock trading should be stopped, but investing in stocks should not be stopped. So is there a difference between "stock trading" and "investing in stocks"?
Very simple, "stock trading" will speculate and lose money; And "investing in stocks" will make money, and friends must fundamentally distinguish!
Some people will say that I am playing word games. Stocks are speculative. I can't get up without speculation.
Then blow it up and see what your actual effect will be.
Stock addiction is a kind of morbid, facing the screen every day, you can live in a personal world without going downstairs to socialize!
So how to quit stock trading?
Naturally, you don't have to quit if you don't lose money You must have "fired" the stock, as I said, which had a huge negative impact on your family before you thought of quitting.
Our A shares have failed to live up to expectations for many years, which makes people joke that "stay away from drugs and A shares" is also reasonable.
The effect of making money appears. Who wants to leave A shares? I can make money easily and don't want to do other jobs.
As for how to quit "stock trading"? Or a family can sit together and have a family meeting to tell the seriousness of the matter and speak with facts.
There is no such thing as obsessing over demons, only finding the root cause.
It can't be quit overnight. We might as well give him a buffer period and ignore it. When the time comes, let's see the actual effect!
I quit "stock trading" in A-share 16 for seven years. Now I am investing in the stock market. I'm also afraid of the market, but I have a high probability of knowing when to "invest" and when not to "invest"!
When your family can understand the disadvantages of stock trading and the benefits of "investing in stocks", "stock trading" will naturally quit, so you don't have to worry!
The stock market is risky, so be careful when entering the market!
Modern biological and psychological research has found that there are three things in the world that make people indulge in pleasure, namely:
1, food, including tobacco, alcohol, sugar, coffee and tea (dopamine secretion 70%);
2. Sex (100-200% dopamine secretion);
3, drugs (500- 1000%) and behavioral science research show that!
Stock trading, like gambling, is the only behavior that can get close to drugs and secrete a lot of dopamine. So why can't many people quit stock trading?
In fact, just as they can't get rid of the temptation of food, sex and drug dependence, they are not self-disciplined enough to enjoy a short-term stimulus.
For such people, we can only make them get rid of their habits in several ways:
1, spread positive energy, and let them know some negative teaching materials;
2. Cultivate another hobby for them and divert their attention;
3. Manage their funds so that they don't have the money to try;
But!
In my opinion, if your family is an adult and you can't control it, the best way is to let him taste the "pain" of speculation and game.
Remember, detours in life are actually indispensable! Nan Qiang is his best teacher! !
I can't quit. Only when he realizes that stock trading can't make money will he consider leaving the stock market. In the A-share market, the rule of "seven losses, one profit and two draws" has been running. Many investors still insist on investing in the stock market after losing money because they always believe that they can earn back the lost principal and realize financial freedom through stock trading. As long as he has this idea, as long as he thinks that the stock market can still make money, he will not leave. This is not a simple and understandable investment.
In fact, most investors regard stock trading as a gambling game after losing money in the stock market, which is why many people are reluctant to leave because it is difficult to make money in the stock market for a long time. On the contrary, the more you invest, the more you lose, and finally you become addicted. As far as family members are concerned, they should try their best to control their own finances and avoid the common sense problem of debt caused by their various lending behaviors or more investments.
First, it is better to control his investment than to ban it.
Try to understand all his current financial situation, so as to control the phenomenon that he has been investing after the stock market losses. Most investors will invest money to cover positions or even borrow money after losses, and finally the life affected by debt will happen after serious losses.
If you just keep interfering with his stock trading and even scolding him, it will make him feel unhealthy after losing money in stock trading. It's better for him to speculate in the stock market than to gamble, but the funds he has invested are limited, so he can't borrow any more, and he can't put the remaining funds into the stock market.
Then you can supervise the stock trading account when it opens every Monday to Friday. This way seems to encourage him to trade stocks, but it is actually slowly letting him quit this addiction, because most investors actually lose money when trading stocks. As long as he can survive this loss period, he will not borrow money to cover his position, and then he will lose confidence in the stock market as the loss increases. When he thinks that stock trading can't make money, he will slowly start to quit and leave the stock market.
Second, give him encouragement and restore confidence.
Many investors will lose confidence in life and be depressed for a long time after investment losses. In daily life, since his stock funds have been trapped, we should give him more encouragement after controlling his investment, so that he can straighten his mind and return to normal life.
In other words, the fact that the stock market is losing money cannot be changed. At this time, it is useless to complain. Encourage him as much as possible in the middle, so that he can slowly feel that the stock market can't change his life, or even bring him more influence, before he can start to leave the stock market slowly.
Therefore, stock addiction is a phenomenon that exists in most investors, but it is actually very difficult for investors to quit this addiction, because many investors want to make a comeback or even invest more money after losing money. They just want to control his investment to avoid the debt situation that affects family and life because of blind investment behavior, and then start to encourage him more after controlling his investment, so that he can return to his normal life and slowly stay away from the stock market, and finally really quit.
My family is addicted to stock trading. How can I quit? Please help me find a way. Thank you.
This problem is really tricky. I know that quite a few people have lost a lot of money in stock trading, which has also brought bad emotions to their families, making people feel that it is the rhythm of obsession. As an unwitting family member, I really have a love-hate mentality, and I understand how you feel. Next, let me talk about my own ideas.
First of all, I think it is necessary for you to communicate well. Comparative investment is a part of life, not the whole thing. If you don't know much about it, you will have a problem with your mentality. It might be better to stop first.
Secondly, control the total amount of funds for stock investment, and stipulate that no additional funds will be added if it is not profitable. For example, when I first entered the market, I only invested 10 thousand yuan. First, I tried the water, then I figured it out and invested. Then there was my third wave of investment opportunities, and my capital was improved. In line with the overall risk control and the investment concept of doing what you can, you will make money with high probability in the medium and long term. Then the risk of my investment is basically controllable.
Finally, it is necessary to logically speculate whether family members invest or stock. In fact, people who speculate in stocks usually stare at the stock market every day, and even feel that their work is dispensable and they suffer. Then I think it should be speculation. In fact, to put it bluntly, it is stupid, which is no different from gambling, but the chips are different. If you invest, generally speaking, you will study the investment risk and evaluate the risk tolerance, and rarely mention the income, because in their view, it is a high probability to control the risk and make money, that is, making money is only a by-product.
In a word, stock investment is a wide-ranging industry. No matter how long your family has been in the stock market, you must first look at his mentality. But I think if he is calm and has a normal mind about stock trading, he should think about it. After all, there are good investment opportunities in the future capital market, but many people don't understand the capital market and invest a lot of money. I think this situation is very undesirable. How can I put it? My understanding is that stock investment can be done, but before a stable profit model is formed, financial quotient must be improved with a learning attitude. When financial and business problems are solved, stock investment is only a process of realizing.
The addiction to stock trading is nothing more than trying to earn more money, or trying to earn back the lost money. There is still an essential difference between stock trading and gambling. Stock trading is not a matter of winning or losing, but time reflects value. Persuade a stock fan to quit the stock addiction, it is better to encourage him to study stock knowledge seriously, and investing well is better than anything else. And sometimes encouragement is an exhortation to realize. Only by recognizing your mistakes can you really quit the stock addiction.
Encouragement is also an exhortation.
But all the people who are addicted to stock trading are adults, and they can't be ordered to stop trading like blaming children. What's more, you are a family member, and you may be an elder. It's definitely not possible to cut off addiction once and for all. There is no other way out. Stock trading is a technical job, and not everyone can do it well. If your family is crazy about stock trading, don't give him up in a hurry. You can encourage him to learn about stocks, let him learn from the strengths of others, and then change himself. For example, learn to analyze the basic information of the company and analyze various technical indicators. No matter whether he can quit the stock addiction in the future, there is nothing wrong with studying. Knowing more about stocks and listed companies can also reduce the probability of being cheated. It is difficult to persuade a person to give up what he loves, but it is easier to encourage him to learn what he loves. If he can distinguish between true and false, he will naturally not lose a lot, and it is understandable to invest in stock financing.
It is inevitable to pay for classes.
No matter what you do, you spend money to buy lessons, and the same is true of stock trading. Losing money means paying tuition. However, some people have been paying tuition fees, but they have never started. I think these people are the people we should persuade to quit the stock addiction. For these people, I think they should spend money to buy lessons, because they have no self-knowledge and think they are the next Buffett and the next Xu Xiang. But there is only one Buffett in the world, and there is only one China in Xu Xiang. The more you think, the less you get. Such people can only turn back if they spend money to buy lessons, and you can't quit simply by persuading them to quit. Since it is a family, of course, we can't let it go. I suggest that you can reduce his investment in stocks, just pay him tuition, and he will naturally quit when he comes to his senses.
Stock trading is a good business, why do you have to quit? Quantization Cheng Ge wanted to think for the following reasons:
First, the stock market didn't make any money, and it was a big loss.
If that's the reason, let's get this over with.
Quantitative brother Cheng has always stressed that not everyone can make money casually in the stock market, especially some smart people who have no choice but to be self-righteous. In fact, there is no shortage of smart people in the stock market. Many cattle people who have done very well in other fields still lose money in the stock market.
The stock market is a mirror of human nature, reflecting many weaknesses of human nature. Many people chase up and down in the stock market, showing greed, unyielding, gambling and being too complacent, thinking that losing this time is bad luck. I didn't pay attention to this loss. This loss is a policy issue. Many people blame the failure on external factors, so they are unconvinced every time and think that they will definitely come back. Many people never sum up what happened. I didn't establish my own trading model and wasted my time in the stock market day after day.
Second, is stock trading just buying and selling? Do you regard it as a war? Do you have to win? Can't you lose?
Many people entered the stock market too hastily, and went in as soon as they slapped their heads, and sold them in a panic. If we regard stock trading as a real battle, this is a place where the law of the jungle prevails, but there is no sword and shadow and no smoke in this battlefield. It has more money and less money. It has two brushes for eating meat, otherwise it is only responsible for sending money to others. This is destined to be a battlefield that attracts men enough. If you rush in without adequate preparation, this is actually a taboo for military strategists!
Third, make it clear to your family, open up another battlefield and win a good bet?
A client told me about his experience before. At first, his wife was very opposed to his stock trading, but as a relaxed worker, stock trading has become an indispensable part of his daily life. At first, he lost more and won less in stock trading, but he stayed up late every night to study stocks. His wife got angry and smashed the computer once. Later, he and his wife agreed: (equivalent to a military order)
1. Rest before 1 1 in the evening, but don't interfere with his getting up early in the morning.
He only used his own funds to buy stocks and contributed half of the profits to his wife. She can spend whatever she wants. The original capital is 2 million. If one day there is only 1 10,000 left in his account, he will quit the stock market forever.
3. If you solve the problem peacefully, you can't smash things. In order to prevent addiction and market his other works, you can kindly remind him not to change his account three times until you admit your mistake.
This contract is actually quite effective. The profitability of this customer is constantly improving, and the income from stock trading is sometimes more than his work in a year. The wife is naturally happy, and it is of course happy to make her husband confident and obedient.
In fact, from the above example, in fact, sometimes a good solution is much better than tinkering, and solving problems is the fundamental.
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