There were a lot of things I wanted to say to the other person, but for what reason I didn’t want to say anything anymore?

This is the biggest problem that arises in communication. At first, you would tell that person how to do it, but in the end he wouldn’t listen at all. So you went to tell him again, but he still hasn't changed at all. This cycle continues and you don’t want to talk about it anymore. You are tired, because you understand that no matter how much you talk, it will be useless. I gave up and silently kept what I wanted to say in my heart. It’s not that I don’t have anything to say, it’s just that I don’t want to say it, and I don’t want to say it anymore. I understand this feeling all too well, it’s very helpless. This is the case between me and my boyfriend. He is a senior otaku who doesn't like to go out and likes to stay in his room and play games. There should be a lot of boys playing League of Legends now, and my boyfriend is also a member of that army. In addition to League of Legends, there are also some other games, such as dungeons and so on. Anyway, I don’t know much about these online games. I am very opposed to him playing games. Because he wastes time playing games and has no interest in other things. Because he is addicted to games, he rarely takes me out to play. We have been together for a year and have not traveled once. I am a fun-loving person by nature and like to play around. If I stay at home for a day, I feel uncomfortable all over. Since being with him, I have been changed by him. Because he doesn't want to change, and if I don't change either, then we have no choice but to break up. I quarreled with him many times because he focused on playing games instead of accompanying me. Leave me alone and I feel the same as if I were single. When I first asked him not to play games, he still agreed. But he never changed, and he still played games every day. I quit my job and went home and played games every day where I lived. I really can't stand this kind of life. He makes money online while playing games. But I often can't control myself and play a few more games, thus delaying my time to make money. When I asked him to hang out with me and go for a walk, he said he wanted to make money. I had an argument with him and he said I was too clingy. I feel extremely wronged. He spends less than an hour with me every day. In addition to greeting me during meal time, or occasionally, I just go to the next room to surf the Internet. Now when I talk about him playing games, he is very disgusted and unwilling to talk to me. Before I could say a few words, he ran away angrily. Because he plays games, he doesn't care about anything and doesn't care at all about things happening around him. Sometimes you feel that even if you are talking to him, he doesn't seem to be interested in listening. Are there lines from the game that make people angry? How many times have we spoken, we have said all the good and bad things, the government and the opposition are quarreling, but why is it of no use at all? He still plays his games, still doesn’t spend time with me, still stays up late every day and doesn’t get up in the morning. I was really pissed off by him. I didn’t understand why I found such a boyfriend? Every time I hear the sound of him playing games, I almost go crazy. I couldn't just smash his computer, so I just sulked alone. When you tell the same person the same thing many, many times, he is still unwilling to change. He may even feel disgusted with you later and hate you for talking about it. He will find you annoying and talk a lot, will you continue to tell him about this matter? I feel tired and this is how I feel, extremely powerless. If you have a boyfriend like this, don't waste your efforts trying to persuade him to change or give up the game. It is so true that a country is easy to change, but a person's nature is hard to change. Or just tolerate him and wait for him to change. If he really doesn't change his ways, leave him.