Gossip without thinking.

It is right to realize that you always gossip about others and hate yourself!

If I guess correctly, the subject is a woman, right? In life, this kind of pouting is more common than that of men. Don't say people are long, just say people are short. Not only do I feel tired and annoyed, but I can't get along with people around me. With such a mouth, whether you intentionally or unintentionally, speaking lightly will hurt your feelings, even if you hate quarreling, there will never be peace. Nobody likes it!

Gossiping in the countryside is called "talking too much" The reasons for this gossiping mainly come from two aspects:

1. Parents who are directly responsible for discipline failed to "block" a growing woman's mouth in time, so that they formed the habit of gossiping about others when they export.

Some people talk a lot when they are young, and children don't keep their words. It's nothing. When they grow up, their words will have an impact. Parents should effectively control, prevent her from gossiping about others, analyze the harm of gossiping about others, and let her talk less empty talk, big talk, lies and gossip.

Others, to put it bluntly, are influenced by the uncertainty of their parents, making them more responsible for their parents.

Most people who gossip about others are self-righteous. Talk about others in the first half and show off yourself in the second half.

People who gossip are often poor in acceptance and self-righteous. They don't learn to see the advantages of others, and always want to win the praise of others through their mouths to satisfy their vanity.

"Good birds don't crow, but they don't like to crow." In fact, they love to gossip about others and often make irresponsible remarks behind others' backs.

Our forefathers said, "When the master leaves, the westerners will sit down, but it's also wrong not to say right and wrong", so we should keep our mouths shut.

1, don't be a trivial activist and don't blindly join in the fun.

2, gossip, is "leisure", do your own thing more practically, and you won't have so many "leisure" words when you are busy.

Respect others more in front of others, use your eyes and brains more, use your mouth less, talk more and think more, and don't rush to say it.

4. Make more arrangements to do your own thing and ask less about other people's things.

I think, as long as we can do the above four points, maybe gossiping about others can be effectively controlled.