Unforgettable old lovers talk about it.

Mu Xin said? When I met my former lover, the scenery on the road changed. ?

After years of separation, have you seen your former lover? When you look back at each other, are you a little bitter or helpless, and will your eyes turn red?

A reader told me.

She thought she had forgotten her first love, even her appearance and voice, but many years later, readers recognized her first love at a glance in the bustling crowd.

It was not a fall, but a fragmented memory of the past began to emerge in my mind, as if it had only been a second, and it seemed that it had been a century, and it was difficult to calm my heart.

For the first love in the past, is this life unforgettable?

Remember Zhang Xiaoxian said:

There is always only one way to forget a relationship: time and new love. If neither time nor new love can make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: time is not long enough and new love is not good enough. ?

I don't think this is for everyone. For some people, a relationship occupies their whole life, unless they have a fracture, cramp or skin-peeling.

Acacia is deeply rooted, not because I don't want to forget, but because I can't forget.

For example, in Yuan Zhen's Five Poems of Self-reflection, there is such a very beautiful and profound famous sentence:? Once I tasted the vast sea, I felt that the water in other places was pale; Once you have experienced the clouds in Wushan, you feel that the clouds elsewhere are eclipsed. ?

Why is the old lover so unforgettable? I'm afraid these four are the main reasons.

First, I can't remember the bad things about ta.

I don't know if you have ever encountered such a situation. The longer we are apart, the more we can't remember each other's faults.

No matter how stiff, intense and painful I was before parting, no matter how busy I was at that time, I hated, hated and hated each other. After a while, I can't remember anything bad.

All I can remember is each other's good.

When two people are together, the advantages will be infinitely hidden, but the disadvantages will be infinitely magnified. Similarly, if we are separated for a long time, it will be completely turned upside down.

Each other's shortcomings will be infinitely hidden, but the shortcomings will be infinitely magnified.

Even if you know each other's shortcomings, those shortcomings that once made you unbearable or even caused you to break up, you won't feel so bad.

So this? Hallucinations? It often affects the little things in our lives, and we will unconsciously compare them in our hearts. When the subconscious tends to our predecessors, no one can compare with ta.

Especially when quarreling with the incumbent, the yearning for the predecessor will reach an unprecedented intensity.

Slowly, will you leave one in your heart? Perfect ex? How can people forget beautiful things? Although it's beautiful.

Second, once love was simple.

Generally speaking, what people will never forget or miss is not someone or something, but the good feeling that that person or thing left for them.

In the final analysis, both men and women have dreams and fantasies about love in their hearts, that is to say, in our own dreams, love is pure and romantic.

However, later, the real love will let us down.

Especially after marriage, love often becomes no longer pure, mixed with life, reality, daily necessities.

But once that feeling is different, just two people simply love each other, just desperately love each other and enjoy it completely.

In other words, the former feelings, the former person, are exactly the love we hope and fantasize about, simple, pure, pure and clean.

So later, we will be so unforgettable.

I even miss it from time to time. No matter how long it took, it seems that we all hid our innocence in that relationship.

Third, what you can't get is the best.

There is a passage that goes like this:

People are sometimes pitiful, people they like can't get it, people they like don't cherish it, and when they are together, when they miss it, when they want to see it, and when they meet each other late, they are full of regrets. ?

After all, what you can't get is always the best.

People are like this. Without exception, they will get used to what they already have. If they get used to it, they will despise it. If they despise it, they will not cherish it.

We are always thinking about what we have lost, missed and can't get. We are eager to move every day, and we are controlling our feelings whether we miss or regret.

Besides, sometimes, two people will be separated, not because they don't love each other, but because they may be opposed by their families and eventually separated by their parents.

People always want to fill their previous regrets, but they always create more regrets because of such filling.

Fourth, I really gave it all.

Especially the first love, at the most ignorant age, I met the person who wanted to protect my life most, but because of mutual incomprehension, I turned love into harm.

Anyway, in that relationship, I really gave without reservation and fell in love with all my enthusiasm, passion and love.

People who love too much are not so easy to let go after all.

Although we finally separated, unforgettable love and memories remain in our hearts forever.

It is easy to fall in love with someone, but it often takes a lifetime to let go of someone.

In fact, we didn't lose to our feelings, but to our inner obsession. Someone will break into your world and leave you a lifelong memory.

Although finally separated, but later no one can replace that person's position, that position is always empty.

People can't control their feelings. The more they want to let go, the clearer their memories are, and the real letting go is always natural.

Generally speaking, the above four points are the main reasons why the old lover is unforgettable.

Shu Haicang said:? No matter how long it takes, the old lover is still quite eye-catching and distinctive. Although the earth flow is old, it is wishful thinking. ?

Even so, we should have a correct attitude.

Treat that relationship with the right attitude, treat that relationship with the right feelings, and put your predecessor in the right position.

You know, after all, we live with the days.

There are some regrets that you don't need to fill. Let them become better and become the belief that inspires you. Don't force yourself to let go, let nature take its course.

How can I put it? After all, it is something that really happened and exists in one's memory, unless there is direct amnesia.

And all you have to do is let go of the past! Live in the present and cherish the present. Life is always like this, and it should be like this.