Life is a failure. Don't touch the edge of love unless you become better.

1, I don't want to fall in love, because after him, I have never met anyone who is so kind to me, and I have never met anyone who makes me move.

2. Maybe there is an impossible person in my heart, always imagining and always expecting. I don't want any other feelings.

3, the past feelings are not very smooth, but when you meet someone you particularly like, you will still plunge into love regardless of everything. If you are lucky, you can meet again.

4. For those who have been single for so long, I like to pursue it by myself.

I just haven't met the right person yet. I won't give up. I will wait for the person who can spend my life with me until I can walk hand in hand with my white hair and come to the end of my life.

I dare not even touch the edge of love unless I get better treatment.

7. Keep pace, attract each other, and have a clear plan, so that the relationship can last for a long time.

8, first say love or not, then give up! I'm afraid of falling in love now, so I'd better live alone.

9. I am still alone. Although I have been in love, my sincerity is really like irony. I dare not believe in love anymore.

10, used for seven years, still can't get together, still can't escape the quarrel, don't understand, hopeless, afraid of getting married.

1 1, the so-called freshness is not to do the same thing with people you don't know, but to experience life you don't know with people you know.

12, maybe it's because I'm too free to think. Guys, I'd better get busy.

13, he said, we are still suitable to be friends, I said, friends? Preferably a stranger. I deleted him with a bang. Cool.

14, although he said he didn't love me, even though he finally said all the things that hurt me, I stayed. But the result hasn't changed. He doesn't love me.

15, it is said that the water under the bridge should always have some regrets in life. I used to feel sorry for breaking up for half a year because I stayed in a city alone. They all said for a long time that I would be together, but even if we are together, can we go back to the beginning?

17, I once did it for her! Just burn my hand with a cigarette butt. Now that I think about it, I am just stupid. What's the love? I just take you to kill time when she is bored. Look down.

18, when you become excellent, which girl can't get it? More beautiful women come to the door! Therefore, Excellence is the last word.

19, the reality has always been that you are planning your future and he is thinking about how to leave.

20, I want to really change my mind, I am really heartless.

Love advice, girls must see, 15 suggestions, can make love better.

1, all the favors are unreasonable! So! When! However! Yes

In this world, except your parents will treat you unconditionally, any other pet is because of love.

Therefore, don't be arrogant and don't spend too much on human feelings.

If others are good to you, you should be good to others.

Love is mutual, always remember this.

2. If there are shortcomings, we should correct them.

Doesn't mean that you like me and love me, you have to love my shortcomings unconditionally. Even if my shortcoming is really wrong, you can't urge me to correct it.

Such behavior and such thoughts will only make him patient and love you in the end.

Out! Grinding! Almost! Do it!

3. Don't like someone reluctantly because you are moved and suitable.

Perhaps, you will comfort yourself that after a long time, I will definitely like him.

The truth is, I don't like it at all.

From the beginning, the starting point is because he is kind to you, because you are moved, and in the end, instead of having love, it will make you feel more and more guilty.

The longer it takes, the worse it gets!

4. Work? Yes, but in moderation! ! !

There is no rule that girls can't.

Even if you do it well, you can enhance your feelings.

However, if what you do makes the other person disgusted and doesn't help your feelings, isn't it worth the loss?

It's like you like to eat. If you eat hard, you may not be able to hold on and you may get indigestion. Working for a long time is equivalent to overeating for a long time, and in the end, it will definitely hurt.

When quarreling, don't forgive each other casually.

After the quarrel, he coaxed you a little, and you'll be fine. Over time, he formed a fixed idea in his mind:

It doesn't matter much if I do it anyway. After that, you can coax it a little.

Finally, he will gradually violate your bottom line. Time and time again, in his eyes, you are a bully, easy to talk, and increasingly unimportant image.

The correct way is:

After quarreling with each other, communicate calmly, solve the problem, and then solemnly forgive him.

Quarrel and forgiveness also need a sense of ceremony.

6. Cheating is really unforgivable.

Speaking of bad things, dogs can't change their habits. Just like a man who has cheated, he will cheat for the second time. This is also nature.

Don't watch him cry after the first derailment, and swear that he will correct it. There won't be a second derailment, and people may still think you are useful.

Unforgiven!

7. Don't be a man without ambition.

Man, don't bully the poor.

You can be poor, but you should have a heart to make progress for you. Otherwise, unlike salted fish, it doesn't mean that you have a heart that is indifferent to fame and fortune and wants a plain life.

Now that house prices are so high, children need money to go to school in the future!

I want to make progress! !

A person who loves you will certainly make progress for you, grow up with you and make progress with you, instead of holding you back.

8, the boy's oath, sweet words, just listen.

There is no need to take it seriously,

People who have lived so long and vowed to live with you all their lives may also leave halfway.

9, lower expectations, don't blindly trust a person.

Just like Zhihu's fucking child said:

It's not that men don't have good things, but when you expect too much from a person, you will feel that none of them are good things.

If you don't expect it from the beginning, there will be no disappointment.

10, we should not only enjoy the right to love, but also fulfill the obligation to love.

Boys and girls are like this.

Because people are naturally selfish,

Falling in love makes many people enjoy the sweetness, sense of belonging and stability of love.

However, while enjoying these things, we should also fulfill our obligation of love.

For example, take good care of each other and show up in time when the other person is sad.

For example, learn to be patient and let two people get along more and more.

Many people, after enjoying the right to love, find that they have to fulfill their obligations and undertake bad things in love, so they immediately give up and start looking for the next relationship.

I just want to say that such people are too selfish.

With all due respect, you can never be happy if you only enjoy your rights and don't fulfill your obligations.

1 1, low-quality love is not as good as high-quality solitude.

Now some girls really see others falling in love and showing their love, and they feel that they should talk about one quickly, even if they don't love it.

They love each other not because of love, but because of loneliness, because of loneliness.

A smart girl will be alone with high quality, make herself better, meet better people, and meet people she really likes and loves.

I hope you are such a girl.

12, learn to take the initiative.

When quarreling, learn to communicate actively and solve problems.

When the relationship enters the fatigue period,

Learn to take the initiative to find ways to adjust.

Learn to communicate actively when there are problems in sexual life.

I feel that boys don't value you, don't give you a sense of security, and don't deserve you. Yes, you can. Take the initiative to tell him and see what he does next.

Don't hold it in your heart and wait for the other party to find the problem on their own initiative.

Many times, the other person is not a worm in your stomach and has no idea what you really want.

13, don't treat the boy's kindness to you as he owes you, he doesn't owe you, everyone is an only child, everyone is the apple of his family's eye, and being kind to you is because of love.

14. Respect a boy's independent personality. If he has any hobbies, as long as they are normal, he is allowed to do them.

Crazy discipline, turn him into the person in your mind, this is just in the name of love, think for yourself.

Someone said in the Zhihu:

Smoking, drinking, perming, staying up late, indulging in games and other bad habits made him quit, and once found, he was seriously troubled. Believe me, this is the safest way to stick to people, and no boy will understand people.

Yes, we really need to use this method for these bad habits, but we don't like what boys like, so we should respect them and don't slander what they like.

If boys play games properly, smoke a few cigarettes occasionally, stay up late properly, make some good friends and play basketball after work.

These can be respected. Boys will understand your respect and give you more feedback.

15, don't hurt yourself for a man.

Silly girl, the world is so rich and wonderful, and there are so many good men, you don't have to hang yourself from a tree.

Suicide is a waste of youth for a man and a relationship.

Finally:

This 15 proposal is not comprehensive.

Many times, love needs concrete analysis of specific problems, but it must be remembered that don't lose yourself because you love someone, don't lose yourself.

Inspirational talk about making yourself better (50)

First, when you have no feelings for a person, you will find many reasons not to love him.

Second, the future is confused, and I have to show my strength and courage to rush.

Third, start every day with a smile, at least it will be a good start.

Fourth, anyone who can think of others from their perspective is compassion.

Your so-called stupidity may just be insisted by others, which is different from yours.

6. Instead of waiting for others to love you, learn to love yourself more.

7. Without you, the earth revolves and rotates like the earth. Every morning, when we get up and look up, the sun still rises in the sky.

Eight, in this impetuous society, it is better to be smart than to pretend to be deaf.

If we want to retreat, God will grow a pair of eyes on the back of our head.

Ten, the so-called genius, but is the greatest perseverance.

Eleven, look too high, only yourself.

Twelve, it is very simple to make a person, but it is very difficult to make a person unchanged.

Thirteen, to persevere, the most important thing is persistence.

Fourteen, there is no absolute genius and fool in the world, the key lies in the word "diligence".

Fifteen, heartache is heartbreaking for the first time, and the second time is to let nature take its course.

Sixteen, our life, is to constantly start the rebirth posture.

Seventeen, every pain is a pillar of growth. Every blow is a strong backing.

Every successful person has a beginning. Only when you have the courage to start can you find the way to success.

I don't deny his infatuation with Chen Yi, but I don't want to lose to him.

The world will give way to people with goals and foresight.

No matter how difficult it is, no matter how tired it is, no matter how difficult it is, don't give up.

Life is always simple, but we can't help making it complicated.

23. Science is the best way to make people brave.

We are as small as ants, but we must be as strong as ants.

The biggest shortcoming is that you are not aware of any of your shortcomings.

Twenty-six, many times, a hug is greater than a promise.

27. The more people turn to the light, the greater the shadow behind them. The greater a person's ability, the greater his responsibility.

When you stop to have a rest, don't forget that others are running.

Twenty-nine, after the baptism of fire, mud will also have a strong body.

It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's not easy to stick to that promise after being dull.

No one can do bad things, only those who can't do good things.

Don't give too much imagination to the future, but give more strength to today.

Thirty-three, there is no road in the world, and more people walk, it becomes a road.

There is no perfect person, only a sincere heart.

Thirty-five, there is no way to rely on it, and there is no place to stand. This is the prominence and extremes of arrogance.

Don't waste your life where you will regret it.

Ambition and perseverance are the wings of a career.

38. It is important to have ambitious goals. You must have the ambition to succeed, and the bigger the better.

Diligence and wisdom are twins, laziness and stupidity are brothers.

The most important thing is not to see what is vague in the distance, but to do what is clear in front of you.

4 1. People who have no goals will always work hard for those who have goals.

Forty-two, insist on standing, how much courage it takes to walk to the end of time, life is impermanent and time waits for no one.

43. Love is always better than reality, so is meeting and farewell.

44. People who can't understand their own shortcomings will never succeed.

45. Give yourself happiness and live for yourself.

Forty-six, people who do what they can are individuals; He who does what he wants is God.

47. Where there is a will, there is a way.

48. As long as you are alive, something good will happen.

Forty-nine, knowledge needs repeated exploration, and land needs hard work.

As a monster, my wish is to destroy an Altman.

I want to get better and better.

I want to get better and better 1. As long as you can stick to your lofty ideals and have the will to never stop until you reach your goal, you can produce amazing power.

2. A broken flower, no matter how hard it blooms, no one appreciates it.

I always live with a pretentious attitude. I hid myself deeply, until now I want to change myself, only to find that I, who was deeply hidden by me, took root in my heart and could never get rid of it. Looking at other people's happy smiles is really beautiful and handsome, and I really can't laugh at that effect.

What many people lack is not method, but determination. It's useless to say anything when a person hasn't completely changed his mind.

I don't know how many times I made up my mind to change myself. Every few steps are smug, and then they are dragged back to their original shape by various excuses. This time, there is no excuse and I don't want so much. I just need to stick to it.

6. I have been working hard for that aimless result.

7. Sometimes a woman needs a man, just like an airplane pilot needs a parachute. If he is not here now, then he need not be here in the future.

8. If you want to change your life, you must first change yourself. There is only one life, and the road is your own decision. Only by struggling forward can we break the cocoon into a butterfly.

9. When the night passes, the sun will rise, and it is enough to work hard.

10. I have tried my best within the scope of forgiveness.

1 1. Some roads will never be beautiful until you start.

12. Only hard work is your only way out, that is, the integration of knowledge and practice.

13. Change yourself not to please others, but for yourself.

14. I will try not to let my future self hate my present self.

15. Only by comparison can we see our situation more clearly. Compared with war-torn countries, being laid off and unemployed is not the worst thing, at least the family is at peace. People in pain and difficulties may wish to use this method to turn pain into happiness and reduce your troubles and pressures. To change yourself is to change your consistent perspective and mentality of seeing through the world.

16. Don't trample on your dignity. You can live without him, but you can't live without dignity.

17. Everyone is unique. You don't need others to change yourself. Just be yourself.

18. For our eternal life, we should work together.

19. Study hard for China! A pack of China cigarettes is a lot of money.

20. Life is like a melody, and the process of life is completed in the beating notes.

I want to get better and better (Part II) 2 1. That man came to you very hard.

22. You always think too much and do too little! I want to make money, but I feel I can't. Now your biggest enemy is yourself. Bottom line: you didn't act.

23. I hate myself for not being ordinary, but I don't work hard.

The charm of newspaper lies in its ability to manipulate people's tastes and thoughts.

Don't deliberately misinterpret the goodwill of others, but think positively.

26. Never do wrong what you can, and do what you can't.

27. Go on sleeping, sleep hard, and never get up.

28. You can't change the world, you can change your mind; Can't change things, you can change your mood; You can't change other people's opinions, but you can change your own!

29. You don't have to study hard, but you must work hard.

No matter how hard I try, no matter how I change myself, the result is just in vain. I found that I have always been just a fool who can only be cheated.

3 1. Only by working harder now will you get more in the future.

There are many things in life that we can't change, but we can work hard and stick to it, and we will be winners in life.

33. I will be your friend. That's right. In this case, you will definitely change. If you change yourself slowly, your friends may also hide. Although they may be full of idiots, things will definitely change now.

34. It's time to put everything behind you and start over.

35. Today is not a continuation of yesterday, but a new beginning.

In fact, all my efforts are just to make you laugh.

37. Life is like a plate of sand, you can never catch it all, but you won't get nothing.

38. Everyone has his own independent space, and even the best friends should be close. Don't always treat yourself as an outsider.

39. If you have any questions, look for them from yourself first. Because it is easy to change yourself, but difficult to change others.

40. If you can't change the environment, change yourself.