Apart from "kicking widows' doors and digging homeless graves", what other immoral things are there in the countryside?

Respecting the old and loving the young is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and caring for the disadvantaged groups is the obligation of every citizen. There used to be an old saying in the countryside that "kick the widow's door and dig the orphan's grave." This is the second of four immoral things that can't be done in rural areas, so what are the other two? Let's talk about the first two evil things.

Bullying widows is a heinous thing. In the ancient society where men were superior to women, the life of widows was extremely miserable. At that time, it was not as open as it is now, and women could not remarry. We should not only respect the three obedience and four virtues, but also not show our faces in the outside world. You can imagine how miserable their lives are.

If her husband is a martyr who died in battle, he can be taken care of by the local government. If she dies unexpectedly at home, due to feudal superstition, she will still be regarded as a punished woman, instead of being hated by her husband's family, making life worse. Therefore, bullying widows is something that everyone spurns.

Digging a grave for an abandoned child is also a wicked thing that people and gods are angry with. In fact, whether you are an orphan or not, digging a grave is a disgusting thing. The grave is the resting place of the dead. Digging graves makes them die unsafe. How can I make people not hate?

This is especially true when digging graves for orphans. The orphan is already alone, with no future generations to take care of him. Besides, people are dead, so why move their graves? So what are the other two immoral things?

One is to eat moon milk. In the past, the medical and living conditions were underdeveloped, so it is better to use the developed technology of milk powder. In the second month, children can only drink milk because of their delicate intestines and stomach, so the milk in the second month is especially important for families with new children.

Those who have money at home can also find a wet nurse to feed their children, or milk cows and sheep at home to feed their children. Those who have no money at home can only watch their children starve. Therefore, eating a child's second month's milk is equivalent to killing the child, and his heart can be punished.

Another thing is to beat the blind and scold the dumb. It is unforgivable for a person with perfect limbs to bully a disabled person. It's even more disgusting to hit the blind and scold the dumb with your mouth open. After all, after you hit the blind man, he is powerless to fight back, because he can't find you. He can't come back after you scold the mute, because he can't speak. Beating the blind and cursing the dumb is equivalent to bullying a person who has no ability to fight back.

Everyone with physical or mental disabilities deserves our help with a compassionate heart. No one knows what will happen tomorrow. We should repay the society and help others with a grateful heart. In this way, when we need help one day, we can accept others' help without blushing.

Of course, since ancient times, there have been many people who cheat under the guise of disability, which sometimes makes people feel chilling. But we can't ignore those friends who really need help. In fact, this is also our own blessing and the virtue of future generations. As the old saying goes, good and evil will eventually be rewarded, but we should do more good deeds and refuse to do evil.

I have finished the four immoral things that my ancestors said, "Kicking the widow's door, digging a cold door, eating moon milk, beating the blind and cursing the dumb".