Adults, your "love is where your money is, where your heart is"

There is an old saying: "Money is not everything, but without money, nothing is impossible."

When I was young, I thought it was vulgar to talk about money. As long as you have feelings and ideals, you can Drinking water, I feel that it is difficult to live without money as an adult, and every expense in life is inseparable from money.

Love can be independent of the world, but marriage has to face daily necessities. Most of the ways adults express love are related to money.

Taiwanese female writer San Mao once said: "If love is not implemented in real life such as dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping, it will not be easy to last forever."

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Money is the best criterion for testing relationships, and it is also the touchstone for testing relationships

There is a classic line in the TV series "Dual Core Era": Love and marriage are not based on face. To maintain, no matter how good the relationship or marriage is, money is needed to maintain it.

I deeply agree.

Love is from flying flowers, snow and moon to firewood, rice, oil and salt. It is indispensable for the romance before flowers and under the moon, and it is indispensable for the numbers in the bank account.

I believe many people have watched the popular TV series "Let's Get Married" in the past two years. The most touching scene is:

Sure enough, he proposed to Tao Zi, He took out all his property, including vehicle certificates, bank cards, real estate certificates, etc., and told Taozi their current value one by one. He was willing to hand it all over to her, and asked Taozi to marry him and stay together for the rest of their lives. .

If a man really loves you and cares about you, he will cherish you with his life and will not make you feel wronged financially. Even if you don’t say anything, he will always think about you and treat you with everything he has. Everything you want is given to you.

In a word, where a man’s money is, there is his love. A good love marriage must talk about money.

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A good marriage must be supported by money and must talk about money.

I always think that talking about money hurts feelings, but don’t talk about money in love. Does a marriage have to last forever?

Tong Jiaqian in the TV series "The Age of Naked Marriage" is a typical love-first girl. She has lived in a superior family since she was a child and has never experienced the hardships of life. However, Liu Yiyang's family conditions are very ordinary, with no house, no car, no money. Deposit, only a heart that loves Tong Jiaqian.

Regardless of her parents' objections, Tong Jiaqian married Liu Yiyang without hesitation, and rushed into the marriage hall with love first.

After getting married, Tong Jiaqian did not have her own house. She lived with her mother-in-law under the same roof. There were many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Liu Yiyang was unemployed, and the two of them were in financial crisis, and they did not even have money for milk powder for their children.

The trivialities of life and the worries of having no money exhausted the relationship between the two. The relationship that had lasted for eight years was defeated by one year of real life.

In fact, life is not that simple. When love falls into life, you need bread to avoid starving to death, a house to avoid the cold, and money to survive.

Although money is not everything, a marriage without money is like a house built on the beach. It will collapse immediately if there is even the slightest disturbance in life.

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Don’t marry a man who is reluctant to spend money on you?

The day before yesterday, my friend called to tell me that she and her boyfriend had broken up.

She said: When the two of them were shopping, they spotted a set of brand clothes that they had longed for. It was on sale and the price was reasonable and not expensive. They wanted her boyfriend to buy it for them, but he actually said that he Forgot to bring money. ”

My boyfriend’s seemingly joking words deeply chilled my friend’s heart.

I think what most women want is not the amount of money a man has, but the amount of money that money can carry. It is an attitude that you are willing to spend money for him, it is the care that money is given, and it is a feeling of being valued and cared about.

In fact, people who don’t love you are not willing to talk about money with you, and will say that you worship money when we talk about money; people who love you will take the initiative to talk to you about money, and will take the initiative to spend money for you, because they are afraid of you. If you have no sense of security in your emotional and marital life, give you a solid future.

Remember, in a relationship, if a man dares to talk about money and actively works hard to make money, living with him will not be any worse.

On the contrary, the man who is unwilling to talk about money with you or work hard to improve his life should see it clearly as soon as possible.

How can you expect someone who is reluctant to spend money on you to cherish you and spend the rest of his life with you?

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For a good relationship, you must talk about money. A relationship that does not talk about money will not last long.

Jack Ma once said, "Talk about money hurts feelings, but don't talk about money, there is no feelings." .

In fact, in a purely emotional marriage, love will eventually be implemented into real daily trivial matters such as food, drink, and clothing.

My neighbor Chunyu told me about his unhappy marriage.

She and her husband have been married for more than 10 years since they met until the birth of their two children.

Over the years, her husband has been unwilling to make progress, has been gnawing at the old age, and does not have a serious career. She has been relying on her to work alone to support the family's expenses. Her husband has almost all the food, drink, prostitution and gambling. , all the money-burning people have taken it all, even if they have a little money, they still care about their own style, and rarely take it home, let alone support the family.

My friend Chunyu manages the household expenses all by herself, and also has to deal with work and various surrounding entertainment. This kind of life is really difficult.

Just like Chun Yu’s experience, most of the luck and misfortune in life are actually related to money. After facing many real life problems, you will find that the long-term relationship must involve money and talk about it. money.

After all, life is not built on castles in the air, but must be supported by real money.

Although money is not everything, money is the foundation of feelings, and money is the foundation of material things. Talking about money between two people is truly pragmatic.

Remember, in relationships, love and relationships do not last long if you break away from life. A life with only daily necessities has no happiness index. People who love you will spend money for you and will love you to the core.

Because a good relationship must be based on both sides not shying away from talking about money. The person who loves you will bear the burden of life with you and will not leave you with the trivial life of chaos and chaos. , Only a man who dares to talk about money with you will deserve the rest of your life.