Are stingy friends worth making?

Cheap means that a person is financially stingy, unwilling to pay, and values money more. There is no problem in other aspects.

One of my female colleagues is a typical case.

I've known her for 4 years, but I haven't seen her give out red envelopes. I just grabbed them.

Once I did her a big favor and joked that I would give her a red envelope. She didn't send it either.

Later, through in-depth understanding, I learned that she was born in the countryside and her parents were farmers. Three brothers and sisters. When I was a child, my family was particularly poor. Later, with the efforts of my parents day after day, I slowly saved a little money.

When buying a house, her parents and the other parents tried their best to bring a lot of foreign debts before they managed to get enough down payment. The economic foundation of small families is particularly weak. Coupled with raising a baby, the economy is relatively tight.

Neither her family background nor her present situation allows her to be a generous person.

Knowing this, I will understand.

However, this female colleague is particularly smart and has strong professional ability. She can learn the same thing faster than others. When we were still confused, she could tell the essence of the matter at once.

Besides, if she understands, she is willing to teach us. For example, our group often issues some wonderful systems or fancy format files for us to learn to operate. I often ask him, and she always helps me warmly and meticulously.

What is more commendable is that although female colleagues are stingy, they are very principled. It's her turn to take it, she takes it; She won't take what she shouldn't. Is by no means a person who likes to take advantage of petty advantages.

And friends, as well as colleagues, are also very clear and never let each other suffer.

So, the longer I stay, the more I like her.

Therefore, being stingy is not terrible, but it is necessary to distinguish what kind of meanness it is. Never harm others and benefit yourself.