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The more people you know, the better. Don't squeeze into the circle where you can't squeeze in, and don't brag about who you know and who you have seen. Hold your horses and don't always try to please others. Other people's miracles have nothing to do with you. Don't chase after what you really can't get. Never pay attention to what makes you angry. Read more books and walk more. It is a trip on the way to school and work. ? -just work hard and don't force it. See * * *.

Learn to maintain a certain sense of loneliness in the crowd, and don't tell others immediately if you have an idea. Besides, don't take what others say too seriously. Don't expect too much from others, whether morally or ideologically. We should cultivate an attitude of being indifferent to other people's opinions, because this is the most practical means to cultivate commendable tolerance.

Many things are powerless: a good body suddenly became seriously ill, people who once believed in it suddenly betrayed, years of friendship suddenly broke down, people who were still laughing suddenly cried, and finally people who understood love-people who loved it very much suddenly stopped loving; Finally know how to cherish-the person who regards you as a treasure has completely left your world? In desperation, you have no choice but to be strong.

If you are right, try to make the other person agree with you tactfully and skillfully; If you are wrong, admit it quickly and enthusiastically. This is much more effective and interesting than arguing with yourself. Aggressive and sometimes stupid. ? -gentle people always win in the end; Aggressive, the more you win, the worse you lose.

Everyone makes mistakes. If you really love someone, no matter what he has done to you or made any mistakes, you will try to forgive him and even find reasons for him. If you don't love someone, maybe the other person just made a mistake and immediately turned against you and broke up. So, when a person catches your little mistake and breaks up, it's not because of your fault, but because he doesn't love you. Forgiveness is only related to the depth of love. How much love, how much forgiveness.

Sometimes people are like this. When something big happens, they will endure, and they will endure. When they hear a word of comfort from people around them, they will be defeated in an instant. Later, I learned that what I was afraid of was not indifference, but sudden tenderness, not suffering alone, but that people around me felt sorry for you, not loneliness, but disappointment.

Don't believe what others say about loving you and supporting you. More importantly, feel what a person has done for you, especially a woman. It is best to be a pragmatist, depending on actions and results. Whether others support you or not is someone else's business, and hard work is your own business. Finally, the same sentence: I am strong enough, and nothing else matters; If you are not strong, you will be afraid of everything.

All feelings begin with the ups and downs of emotions. Qilu said that when you start to feel nervous about someone, you start to like them. When you are sad for someone, that's when you begin to love. A person you don't care about won't be happy and sad for him. Only the people you care about are really crazy. Therefore, it doesn't matter whether you love it or not. What matters is who you are attracted to. If you are tempted, you lose.

You value yourself too much, and at the same time you value other people's comments too much. You are scared silly by the strength of others' bluff. You start to doubt yourself, and you don't express your opinion. Even if you have foresight, you will never dare to take a step before your foresight is proved. You were knocked down by yourself step by step, and from the day you began to make excuses for your retreat, you began to look down on yourself.

I always feel that I am still young and can greedily enjoy all the good things. Later, I was surprised to find that I didn't know since when. I can clearly see the shells in the sugar coating, read the murder after smiling, and know how to deal with perfunctory improvisation and face things I never thought I would face. On the surface, it seems harmless to people and animals, but the self-defense knife has always been behind him and has never left his hand. At that moment, I finally admitted to growing up, but I didn't know whether it was good or bad.