I'm only 20 years old. Why can't I enjoy my youth like others? Well, I'm working outside now, getting up early and getting greedy.

Affection is an eternal song. This song is particularly sad and moving when I say goodbye. I always have such a picture in my mind: the night is very low. The southbound train roared past with a cool breeze, and the time for parting finally came. My mother held my hand tightly and told me again and again, "Take care of yourself and don't wronged yourself at school ..." As he spoke, he choked up. Father lowered his head and quietly spit out a smoke ring. The night light pulled his back for a long time ... "Let's go, daughter, and work hard!" "A' good job', how simple, contains many expectations and hopes of my father! My eyes are moist. The train finally started slowly. I am getting farther and farther away from my parents, but I am getting closer and closer to my dream university. Stay away from love, let me know love; Being away from my family makes me cherish my family more. Here, I want to give Meng Jiao's "Wandering Sons" to my parents and parents all over the world:

The mother used the needle and thread in her hand to make clothes for her long-distance son.

Before leaving, I had a stitch for fear that my son would come back late and his clothes would be damaged.

But how much love can keep this inch of grass from growing and pay for the sunshine? .

Family ties will always move me.

Friendship is light tea. Philosophers say: true friendship is the connection between hearts, the understanding of putting yourself in others' shoes, and the consensual sharing. As I am a child studying in a foreign country, it means more to me to be friends. I still remember the birthday party my classmates gave me on my eighteenth birthday. This is really a surprise. When eighteen bright candles lit up a dozen young faces, when I was surrounded by words of blessing, my heart seemed to be bathed in the soft waves of friendship, so calm and clear. I quietly made a wish: May we all be happy, and friendship will make us happy! My understanding of friendship has been sublimated in the story of Boya and hippo chef. Yu Boya is good at drumming, Zhong Ziqi is good at listening, and Boya broke the lyre for the first time just to reward his bosom friend. In fact, isn't a person's life to find someone who is worth breaking his strings for? Otherwise, it will be really wasted! In short, a lifetime, a lifetime of love, a glass of wine, a lifetime of friends go together.

Friendship is my eternal attachment.

Love is like a hazy poem to me. Reminds me of the warm sunshine in the afternoon, the bicycle bell in Rinrin, the shy and simple smile, and the shyness when holding hands for the first time ... The wonderful words in the poem make me feel happy: "The tenderest bow is like the shyness of hibiscus out of water ..." Love makes me smile in tears, makes me sweet in bitterness, makes me truly realize the strength and beauty of life, and makes me sigh. Sometimes I think: At that time, light made me grow old. At the end of the year, I lay quietly in a rocking chair. The breeze is slow, and the sun shines on the back of the chair through the white screen window. Memories have become the most precious wealth at this moment, and the secret of growth has warmed my heart like sunshine.

Love, let me pursue, but also let me remember all my life.

I cry, I laugh, and I always walk by. After experiencing too many storms and seeing too many successes and failures, I found that family, friendship and love are the most precious wealth in my life!

Family speech

Students, in this world, many people are not necessarily smart in the team of winners, and many people are not necessarily stupid in the team of losers. In fact, one thing is more important than a smart head, and that is a person's mind and will. A person's poverty is largely the poverty of the soul, and a person's success is largely the success of the will!

When the baby is born, no one will ask whether it is the president or the minister of health; Whether to be a boss or a wage earner; Whether it is a professor or a tramp, people will only ask: Is it a boy or a girl? Young master or daughter? For a newborn child, the future is unknown. No one knows, and it is impossible to know what kind of person he will become in the future. From this perspective, people are all the same at birth, and if there are any differences, they are generally only differences between men and women. However, with the passage of time, the change of environment, the difficulty of learning, the difficulty of the world and the warmth and coldness of human feelings, people's hearts and thoughts will gradually change, leading to the gap between people, so some people are very successful and some people are very unsuccessful; Some people are excellent, others are mediocre; Some people are happy, others are miserable. If you want to be a very successful, excellent and happy person in this highly competitive society, the key lies in whether you have a heart that will never be cold or die! Is there a will that both subjective and objective factors can't beat?

Let's listen to music and enjoy it in this beautiful afternoon. Let's open our hearts, walk into our inner world and have a dialogue with our hearts. Let's recall kindergarten and find what we lost. ...

People live in the world, who doesn't want to be used by society to repay their families and comfort themselves?

However, the wind and frost of the years, the hardships of the world and the warmth and coldness of human feelings have made many people numb, indifferent, unwilling to make progress and afraid to struggle. ......

Over the years, who helped you when you needed it most? Who cares about you the most and loves you the most in the vast sea of people? Who will always think about you when you are not at home? Who is always looking forward to your coming home and waiting for you to eat? Who is most nervous and anxious when sick? Who is happier than you when you are happiest? Who is more painful than you when you are most painful? Who will comfort you and encourage you when you are most frustrated and helpless? Who will accompany you when you are most lonely? Who has the greatest influence on your life? Who occupies the most position in your mind?

You may have grown up in the countryside, and your family has been farmers for generations. In order to survive, and for you to live, study and grow with dignity like other children, your parents live and work hard all year round, but as long as their children are willing to learn and make progress, they are willing to have no regrets. Whenever night falls and you study in your room at night, your parents may not have come home for dinner. If they wander away from home, do business and collect garbage, they may often not know where dinner is, because they can't get paid and have no money. When you fall asleep, parents often worry about taking care of the family's life and your tuition and living expenses, and often can't sleep all night ... They know that today's society depends on skills to eat. Although you have studied it, there are many people competing in the society, and the competition is fierce. It is not easy for children to survive and take care of themselves, so they dare not expect too much from you all their lives. In fact, your parents' hard work is nothing more than hoping that their children will grow up and become useful, respected and respected people in society, and their efforts will not be in vain! So, please think about yourself, have you done it all? As the parents of farmers or migrant workers, when they are really old and can't walk, their lives will have no dependence. To a large extent, they will rely on their children to spend the darkest years of their lives. What can you bring them?

You grow up day by day, but your parents get old day by day. Have you seen their faces? Have you looked at them carefully? How old are they? Do you know that?/You know what? They may have become very old, because of metabolism, people will naturally get old, but it is not normal to get old too soon. Over the years, they have been running for their lives, working hard and worrying about their children. You may often argue back with them and make them angry and sad. Your study is not ideal, and your behavior always makes them uneasy. They are often worried about your future and way out. How young can they be? Besides, they may still have many diseases, and they are unwilling to look up, afraid of examination and hospitalization, and they are always so overwhelmed. Are their lives in danger? How long can they live? Anyway, you should take some time and give yourself a chance to see your parents! It is time!

If there were no parents, what would happen to your study and life? In what ways do parents earn money for your education? What happened to them? Are they good to you? Do you often think of them? Do you often greet them? Do you still talk and laugh with them often? Do you still often hold their hands in the street? Would you like them to come to see you at school? Can you introduce it proudly in front of your classmates? Do you know their birthdays? Do you remember their birthdays?

You are still a student, a minor or a consumer, and you don't need to bear any responsibility for your parents. If your parents are ill in hospital, they will be very happy if you go to see them. Some people even praise you as a very sensible child. However, when you grow up, have your own family and children, your parents are ill and hospitalized. Can you go and see them? What would you do if you needed surgery, tens of thousands or hundreds of thousands to cure their diseases and even ensure their lives? How much can I take? Will you lend it to others? Can you go all out for their health and life? Just like they did to you? In case one day, your parents suddenly leave you, and you cry a few tears, others may praise you as a filial child. However, in the future many years later, when you look back and recall the kindness of your parents, will you just cry? Is that enough?

I also grew up in the countryside. I still remember that when I was a child, I ate not three meals, but two meals, breakfast and lunch together, and dinner was white oil bibimbap. At that time, it was very cold in winter, and the clothes I wore were all worn by relatives. They didn't fit me and I didn't want them. Some of them are even work clothes worn by my relatives when they work in the factory. ...

At that time, not many people could go to middle school, and even fewer people could come out to study in Luoding. I finally passed the exam and went to a middle school in Zhong Ting. At that time, my parents were very happy. But when I came out to study, I changed, became cynical, unwilling to study, decadent and proud, quarreled with my parents and even ran away from home. At that time, I completely ignored my parents' feelings, and everything was just self-centered and ignored others. Until one day, my uncle who loved me very much suddenly left us. All his money couldn't cure his illness, and he left. I couldn't even see him for the last time. Over time, I understand that many people die of illness because they have no money to treat diseases, especially farmers in our countryside. If you want to succeed, there is no second way, only reading!

Not long ago, I heard that in the coastal areas of Guangdong, the teacher there said that there was a boy in their middle school. His father was in charge and his mother was in charge of a certain department. The boy always thinks that he can be pampered by his parents all day, has lazy habits and leads a dissolute life. With wealth, he is generous and spends money like water. His father and mother are busy with official business and social activities, so they have no time to take care of him. He's getting worse. Originally, he was a dude and his father was the head of the school. He doesn't care about the teacher at all. He has a poor foundation, is unwilling to study and is arrogant. Naturally, his study became worse and worse.

Many people have sent their children to study abroad, and the boy's father has also sent him out. When I go to school in China, I can't learn English because my heart is not in my study. How can I study in English-speaking countries in Europe and America? Although I went to the language school first, it didn't help after all.

Far from home and classmates, he doesn't understand and doesn't want to read. Coupled with the language barrier, it is difficult to communicate with people and even go shopping. After two years of loneliness and boredom, one day, he returned to China.

But when I got home, everything changed. The door has been sealed by the police, and the kind neighbor told him that something had happened to your parents! I'm locked up. According to the situation, my life is in danger.

He never knew what suffering was, and suddenly his heart was empty and his mind was blank, and he sat on the ground. After waking up, he went to the detention center. Dad, who used to be red-faced and full of energy, is now very haggard. Ask his father, and he says, Dad, how did you become like this? Didn't you tell me to rest assured? His father said, "Son, my father did something wrong. He wanted to pave the way for you, but he did not expect to harm you and himself. " Dad probably won't live long, your mother will be locked up for at least ten years, and all the property in the family will be confiscated. Our family will be completely destroyed. When mom and dad couldn't find anyone to help, the tree fell and the vine withered. We are in such a situation that you can't count on any relatives or friends to help you. You have to rely on yourself in the future. Work hard and live as far as you can! "

In order to make a living, a few days later, the boy set up a stall selling frozen fish in a corner of the food market. It used to be a few hundred dollars a day, but now a catty of frozen fish only earns a few cents. The maximum net profit after a day's work is twenty or thirty yuan. Of this money, he has to pay rent and eat, and there is not much left. I used to spend my parents' ill-gotten wealth, and I didn't feel bad about how much I spent. Now I have to consider every dollar I spend on my own money. People who used to pass by the food market and see fish were regarded as ants. Don't even look at them, even curse them when they are blocked. Now talk to them carefully and politely, always afraid of offending others. ......

So, classmates, you may often be proud of your parents being big officials and doing big business, thinking that you can live a good life in this life, you can sit back and relax, study carelessly, live casually, behave dissolutely, muddle along all day, spend a lot of money, stay up all night ... Have you ever thought about pampering yourself and spending money like water? Did their money come easily? When you squander your enjoyment, have you ever asked and weighed the source of money? They have prepared a lot of money for you. Is the paved future safe? Is it dangerous? Will they ruin their future and life for you? Your parents will give you everything, but have you ever put yourself in their shoes? In this world, almost nothing is eternal. You put all your future on your parents. What do you think your chances are of winning? Why don't you study hard and rely on yourself?

Students, no matter whether your parents are urban or rural, poor or rich, or at the top or bottom of society, they are eager for their children-you, day and night, to live in this world with promise and dignity and become a useful person to society! No matter whether you are reluctant to come to school or not, whether you study well or not, no matter what job you will do in the future and how to make a living, deep in your heart, in your bones, you have always longed to be a person who can be respected by others in the future! Be a person whose parents will always be proud of you!

But, students, what are you pursuing these years? What are you expecting? What is supporting you and making you look so strong, so confident and so energetic? What is the reason, what confuses you, seduces you, and always makes you feel uneasy and restless? Sometimes, you sit in the game room and the Internet cafe for hours. Sometimes, you inexplicably want to hit people and swear; Sometimes, you toss, hurt and spoil yourself for no reason. Why did you become like this? What is the reason? Do you have the courage to face yourself in the dead of night? Dare you look people in the eye in broad daylight? What disturbs your conscience the most? What bothers you the most? Can you still smile from your heart? Will you still be moved to tears? Do you still belong to yourself? Are you still you?

How did you get here all these years? What footprints have you left with every step? Have you tried? Have you ever succeeded? What have you done that you are most proud of? How many beautiful dreams are left when I was a child? How much confidence do you have in yourself? How much hope do you have for the future? Is every day spent in enrichment? Have you tried to be a man, study and do things? Do you dare to say what you really want to say? Do you dare to do what you like? Can your parents still be proud of you? Can you ask yourself and say confidently: Mom and Dad, your son is hardworking! Your daughter is excellent! Your only son won't let you raise it for nothing! Your daughter won't embarrass you! Your son will not let you down! Your daughter will make you happy!

Every day at dawn, you open your eyes impatiently and step into the world, then walk into the school and classroom with a straight face, and then sit in your seat blankly and stare at the blackboard. For you, everything is so boring, everything is like that official newspaper. You often can't hear a word, you can't see a word, you don't know what you are thinking, you don't know what you want to do, you don't know how to do it. As the class goes on, the days go by, and there is nothing to gain and feel in my heart. My heart is still empty, but I don't know what to enrich. You often spend your time in such emptiness, confusion and idleness, letting the boat of life drift and sway aimlessly at the mercy of environmental fate. Is this what you looked like when you were young? Is this you who was full of fantasy and hope when you were a child? Is this you who is full of family hope and shoulders the trust of your parents? This is for your future, scrimping and saving at home, spending your parents' hard-earned money to go to college?

Being at the bottom of society and life, especially when the ideal and future are slim, there are often two forces that can arouse people from their bones and inspire them to succeed and develop. The first strength is: the strength of the family, that is, the care of parents and relatives and the gratitude of parents and relatives; The second power is: ruthless power, that is, others' cold eyes, indifference, contempt and contempt, in order to show others that they are not worse than others!

Why should we be depressed by our own lack and failure, and why should we suffer from the ridicule and satire of others? These are actually blessings from God. We should accept all the unfortunate experiences in life, and we should thank God for all the unreasonable arrangements made for us! Thanks for the cruelty of society! Thank the world for its coldness! Thanks for the pain of life!

Most people's great consciousness comes from catastrophe. From this point of view, what's wrong with letting yourself be cornered once? !

Building a hometown to serve the motherland is loud and magnificent, but not everyone has the opportunity and qualification. Many people living at the edge and bottom of society want to contribute to the construction of their hometown and serve the motherland, but their hometown and motherland don't give them opportunities, because they may not have the ability and qualifications, and they may have no education, technology or skills ..... If you have the heart to contribute to your hometown and country, you must first contribute to yourself wholeheartedly and fight for yourself wholeheartedly. If you don't even care about yourself, then your hometown and motherland will be too lazy to love you and ignore you.

Maybe your plans and goals won't last for a few days; You don't even feel comfortable walking alone, and you always follow others against your will, wasting your good time; If you are sleepy and tired, you can put off what you should do today until tomorrow-can you say that you have worked hard? Did you go all out? Although paying may not be rewarded, efforts and success cannot be equated, but not paying will never be rewarded! You will never succeed if you don't work hard! Students, don't worry about the result of your hard work, you won't be rewarded. Please remember one sentence: dedication is Excellence, and trying your best is success!

You can have nothing, but you just can't live without courage. The greatest wealth of heroes and great men is courage. Most people are sometimes full of courage in their hearts, but they often lack courage in their bones. They often hesitate at the most critical time and when they need courage most, so that they miss the favorable opportunity and delay the bright future. In fact, courage doesn't cost money. Many times, you can have it if you want.

Students, this afternoon is a special afternoon. I hope you have the courage to come on stage, tell your own stories, tell your feelings at the moment and tell your plans for the future. Students, show your courage, come on, and express it on the stage. This is a new beginning. It is the boldest and most important step to show your attitude towards the future.

Students, as the saying goes, "There is no greater sorrow in my heart than death, and there is no greater poverty than poverty." Firm belief and strong will have always been the spiritual pillar and source of strength for people to survive tenaciously, make contributions and overcome everything.

It is easy to be moved for a while, and it is not difficult to stay for a few more days. However, you should imprint your moved and implanted heart in your bones, turn it into your lifelong upward belief and become your eternal motivation to pursue success!

Let's seize every minute of life and go all out to realize our dreams! In the near future, meet in a place that makes us proud!