The husband made a small achievement and asked his wife to be a nanny. How should the wife respond at this time?

We can meet all kinds of people in the blind date market.

Some people have a low eye and a low hand, and the conditions are not excellent, but they want to find a partner who is much higher than themselves.

Some people belittle themselves, knowing that they have good conditions, but because of external conditions such as gender, height and weight, the criteria for choosing a spouse are lowered.

Usually what we hear is "wonderful blind date". The reason why we can call it "wonderful blind date" is that it is unreasonable and taken for granted in our own eyes, but it is ridiculous and generous in the eyes of others.

Because there are not a few jokes about blind date, I didn't expect that at this age, some people even hold the idea that "finding a wife is looking for a nanny" and openly put unreasonable demands on the table.

For such a man, the specific evaluation is left to the reader.

0 1 a man's monthly income 1.6 million, and he wants to find a daughter-in-law to go home and wait on his mother.

Aunt Zhang, an old matchmaker, is willing to arrange several blind date banquets because her son has three storefronts in a shopping mall, and she cries that young people around her often get together and get to know each other.

Aunt Zhang was just thinking about this excitement. Who ever wanted to be worthy of her? There are really several couples together, and three or four couples get married. She just wants to hold the blind date banquet for a long time and be an old matchmaker completely.

Therefore, most of the strange blind date objects are also chatted by Aunt Zhang. Today, a blind date made Aunt Zhang shake her head and sigh: How can there be such a strange boy in this world?

Wu Yi, a blind date male, 3 1 year old, unmarried, working in a first-tier city, with a monthly income of 1.6 million. He is looking for someone to be virtuous and willing to go back to his hometown to take care of his mother.

Wu Yi introduced his family situation. /kloc-When he was 0/6 years old, his father died of illness, leaving his mother to send him to college. He works in a first-tier city, and his mother is left unattended. I hope he can get a wife as soon as possible and go home to live.

Aunt Zhang asked, "Did you quit your job and go back to your hometown after you married your daughter-in-law?"

Wu Yi said, "No, just let her stay with my mother. I send money home every month. I earn 16 thousand a month and can give her 5 thousand living expenses. "

Aunt Zhang is even more sarcastic: "Young man, you found a nanny."

Wu Yi scratched his head and thought this was a bit ugly. He argued that it was not a nanny, but that it was not easy for him to find a mother for his feet on the ground. At least he couldn't find a wife to go home and make her angry.

He thought it was filial piety, but he forgot the girl. Why did he marry him? He gave birth to a child and waited on his mother.

The man's abacus rang: no room and no car, not only to find a nanny, but also to have children.

When Wu Yi was dating, she told Aunt Zhang that she earned a lot of money and could afford anything.

The bride price is not a problem. As long as the other party can live and work in peace and contentment, he is willing to give everything to the other party.

Aunt Zhang asked him, "In that case, how much can you give the girl?" 1 ten thousand? "

Wu Yi said, "I don't have that much, 1 10,000 is gone."

Aunt Zhang asked again: "Is that 500,000 ok?"

Wu Yi shook his head again: "Not so much, there are hundreds of thousands."

Aunt Zhang said, "What about the house and the car? Is there, how big and what brand? "

Wu Yi said, "I live in my hometown with my mother. I haven't bought a car yet, but I can buy it. "

Hearing this, Aunt Zhang couldn't sit still and laughed at him: "Young man, is this what you just licked your face and said you can afford?"

Wu Yi smiled shyly and said, "I will give her money in the future. I give her 5000 yuan a month, and she doesn't have to go to work. In our hometown, there are already many. "

Aunt Zhang asked, "Then why don't you just find a nanny to take care of your mother?"

Wu Yi said: "The nanny is not from her own family. My mother is looking forward to having grandchildren when she is old. We have to have children after marriage, and we can't delay. "

Aunt Zhang repeated his words and said, "Your abacus is really ringing. You found a nanny to take care of your mother and a daughter-in-law to have children, which is equivalent to empty gloves and white wolves. "

"Aunt, this is a bit ugly. I just want to find someone to live a down-to-earth life. "

Aunt Zhang sighed and didn't want to go on. She knew that no matter what she said, Wu Yi would not change her mind. He can't tell how unreasonable his request is.

But in the end, she couldn't help making fun of him: "son, you are not bad, you are stupid." You may hit the wall more often, and today you may understand where you are wrong. "

03 blind date can have requirements, but it can't put the cart before the horse.

Why does Aunt Zhang joke about martial arts? It's not bad, it's stupid.

This is because he puts his requirements on the surface, while some people will hide their ideas, don't make it clear when dating, and wait until they get married to directly implement their ideas.

At that time, if a woman tries to escape again, she can't escape.

Someone asked, can there be requirements for blind date?

Of course, but the main appeal of blind date should be emotional. Get along with each other and talk to each other. Only with feelings can we move on to the next step.

The foundation of marriage is based on emotion. Two people must like each other before they can get married, otherwise it is difficult for the relationship to come to the end.

Wu Yi's idea of "empty gloves and white wolves" is not whimsical.

But in the blind date market, it is really wonderful enough. It is difficult for such a boy to find a partner.

Aunt Zhang warned him like this: "Young man, I suggest you find a nurse to take care of your mother first. You are not very old. Take time to find a partner. You must talk about marriage, because you have feelings for each other, and you can't get married until you have a heartfelt impulse to be nice to her. Never put the cart before the horse and get married for the sake of marriage, so no one will be happy. "