Zhang Shousheng passed away - no one has an easier life than anyone else

In the past month, something has made me feel very uncomfortable. It is the death of Zhang Shousheng. God is too partial to Zhang Shousheng and gave him talent. He won the European Physics Prize, the Buckley Prize, the Dirac Prize, the Urey Prize, and the Franklin Prize, the grand prize in physics. He almost won them all, and was only one short of a Nobel Prize. The Nobel Prize is also a matter of time. God also allowed him to be young and rich, and he owns his own investment company. God also made him full of artistic talent. He is often accompanied by dramas, operas and sculptures. What makes many men even more jealous is that God gave him an elegant and handsome face. Therefore, when Zhang Shousheng appears in front of us, he always looks radiant, making us feel: "If I can live like this, this life will be so worth it." But we never imagined that such a person with infinite scenery could actually Committed suicide on December 1st. He actually lives a very difficult life and has suffered from depression for many years. "

It's Qiu Chen who is suffering from cancer. Debating in "Qi Pa Shuo" is really too stressful. How big is it? So big that just to grab some makeup time, the two of them actually got into a fight. Yes. Some time ago, a colleague saw a long scar on Qiu Chen’s neck and asked, “What’s going on? Qiu Chen shrugged and joked: "I changed my head." "But on the night when she was diagnosed with cancer, Qiu Chen was still communicating with her partners about work, and signed up to participate in the reading sharing competition the next day. Next, even more terrifying, she participated in the half-year-long recording of "Qi Pa Shuo" . In the past six months, many healthy people have been exhausted, but have you seen Qiu Chen suffer when she comes out? No. We only see her brilliance on the court, but we can't see her off the court. Clenching my fists and desperately fighting against death.

I have lamented more than once: "God, why are you so unfair to me?" "I was born in a rural area and have never enjoyed good educational resources since I was a child. In the first two years when I worked, my income was meager. After paying the rent, I could only eat steamed buns and steamed buns every day. I couldn't afford books, but in order to accumulate knowledge, I read I went to Chongqing Bookstore after get off work and sat on the cold tiles to copy notes. My friend was sick and had no money to visit me. I sold my mobile phone for 300 yuan... At that time, I often couldn't help but sigh, and even took it with me. A bit of a complaining tone: "Why do others live so well, but I live such a miserable and unlucky life? God, why are you so unfair? ”

But after experiencing many things and meeting many people, I slowly understood a truth: no one has an easier life than anyone else in this world. It’s just that some people choose to cry out to heaven and earth, while others choose to remain silent. Silence. For example, Qiu Chen, such as Zhang Shousheng.

I once knew a sister who was a very chicken-hearted person. She always had two sentences in her notebook: "Since you have chosen a distant place, you will only care about the wind and rain." . "Those who don't work hard are not even qualified to outline the future." "In our impression and perception, she is always omnipotent and rock-solid. It wasn't until I went on a business trip with her that I saw her fragility. That time, I lived in the same room with her, and she treated me Said: "It's been a tiring day, you go to sleep first, and I'll make another plan." "So I went to sleep first. I woke up in the middle of the night and found that she was still asleep. She was sitting on an open chair without turning on the light. The notebook on her lap was glowing, and the light reflected on her face. Her face, I was actually filled with tears.

At that moment, I suddenly understood: many people are not actually living as well as we imagined. What we see is just the glamor on others’ surfaces. The tossing and turning behind, and the crying behind the glamour, are all left to themselves in the dark night. Although they look glamorous on the surface, in fact, their socks have already slipped to the soles of their feet.

There is a post on Douban——< /p>

“Tell me about a time or moment in your life when you felt it was difficult? "Many people left messages below: After graduating from college, I went to work in a company to do sales. If there was no business for me, I would be responsible for the debt for more than 5 years. When I went to Danyang, a customer said directly at the wine table: "You can ask for money, just a drink. 10,000. "I drank more than 20 drinks in one go. I couldn't remember anything after drinking. When I woke up, I was lying in the bathroom private room with a headache that felt like it was going to explode. At that time, I felt that life was really too difficult. I opened the window, I almost jumped.

——Quasimodo’s blessing

My family has no money, so I work very hard, and my only wish is to buy one in a big city with my girlfriend. house.

I work overtime every day and save money, but I respond to my girlfriend’s requests and the things I buy for her are all very expensive. On Christmas Day, I planned to give my girlfriend a surprise and ordered 520 roses. But before I had time to surprise her, she broke up with me and fell in love with a rich second generation. I called the store: Can I return the flowers? The store asked: Why should I return it? I choked and said: I don't want to give flowers to a cheating person. The store said: But the flowers really cannot be returned. I sat on the ground and cried silently, with only one word in my mind - death.

——Seasee Youl

I am 25 years old and my family comes from a rural area. My father died early, my brother had a stroke, and my mother suffered from rheumatism and was paralyzed in bed. My monthly salary is only 3,000 yuan, but I have to take care of the whole family. Life is so difficult. I have thought about dying countless times, but I cannot die because if I die, no one will take care of my brother and mother.

——Silence

When I came home from school, I saw my mother in the cow pen, beating the cow with a rolling pin. Because the cow broke away from the reins and ran into the granary and wasted a lot of grain. My mother was crying and scolding: "Why are you wasting food? Why are you so disobedient?" The cow's eyes were filled with tears, but it did not hide and stood there silently being beaten. I felt so sad at the time: "The cow is the lifeblood of the farmer. Even if you beat it, it won't understand." Later, my dad said: "The cow broke free because it was extremely hungry. It has been working a lot recently, but it always I can’t eat enough.” I will always remember this moment. I felt that it was so hard for the cows, so hard for my parents, and so hard for life.

——Fan Xiaoming

There are many, many such messages. After reading these messages, I feel that my little hardships are nothing compared to others. I like the words of a philosopher: "When you complain that life is too difficult, please remember that some people have it harder than you. The pain you have experienced has been experienced by many people around the world. The pain you have not experienced is even more difficult. There are people in this world who have experienced profound pain. "No one has it easier than anyone else.

Zhu Deyong has a famous cartoon work - "When I Jumped from the Eleventh Floor". It was about a woman who committed suicide by jumping from the 11th floor. As she was falling, she saw——

A couple known for their love on the 10th floor was fighting.

The 9th floor was usually strong. Peter is crying secretly,

A-mei on the 8th floor found her fiancé in bed with her best friend,

Dandan on the 7th floor was taking her anti-depressant medicine, < /p>

Ah Xi, who is unemployed on the 6th floor, buys 7 newspapers every day to find a job.

The respected Councilor Wang on the 5th floor is secretly wearing his wife’s underwear.

4 Rose on the second floor is breaking up with her boyfriend.

Abo on the third floor is looking forward to someone visiting him every day.

Lily on the second floor is still looking at photos of her husband who has been missing for half a year.

At this time, the woman who jumped from the building realized: "Before I jumped, I thought I was the unluckiest person in the world. Now I realize that everyone has unknown predicaments. After I saw their situation, I suddenly felt that I was actually doing pretty well. All the people I saw just now were looking at me. I thought they would also feel that they were doing pretty well after seeing me jumping off the building. "Zhu Deyong just wants to tell us with this cartoon: Please don't rush to deny your own life, and don't rush to envy other people's scenery. The present that you can't escape may be the distance that others long for.

I really like the movie "The Pursuit of Happyness". Smith has been struggling at the bottom of society. His wife abandoned him. He and his son fought alone to complete an impossible task. He only had 21 yuan left in his account and could not afford to rent a house, so he had to live in the toilet of the subway station. He spread a layer of toilet paper in the toilet and let his son fall asleep in his arms. But at this time, there was a sudden knock on the door, and the staff wanted to knock on the door and drive him out. Smith pressed his foot against the door, covered the child's head with his hands, and tears kept falling like a knock on the door. I can't help but cry every time I watch this movie. Isn’t the Smith in the movie just like us in life? At a certain moment and period, we always felt that we couldn't endure it any longer, but we still gritted our teeth and persevered. As a result, just like Smith, we finally welcomed the starry sky.

Did you know that when answering "Tell me about a time or moment in life when you felt it was so difficult", many people added a sentence at the end after describing their tragic experiences: "It's all gone now." , I am living well.”

Why should I write this article? In fact, what I want to say is: each of us is our own hero. As if in the blink of an eye, 2018 is coming to an end. This year, many people must have experienced a lot of difficulties and pain like me, but no matter what, we finally got through it again.

We finally got through it again, and we deserve to be proud of ourselves.

I often go for a walk to various places alone. The walk home is very long, but the sky at night is filled with many stars. Walking on the road, I often think of a famous saying: "Later, many people asked me how I felt when I was wandering on the road alone at night. What I thought of was not loneliness and the long road, but the magnificent ocean and the shining stars in the sky." "This Killer Is Not a Killer" There is a classic scene in "Too Cold". Mathilde asked: "Is life always so difficult, or is it only like this in childhood?" Lyon said: "It's always the case." Yes, although 2019 is still difficult, although this life is always difficult, we are still in the gutter. Looking up at the stars.

Whether you fall out of love or lose your job, what should come will come. Those who should leave will not stay until now.