Be calm and strong

——About: Lin Huiyin’s 39 beautiful essays——

1. Finally understand that some roads can only be walked alone. Those who have invited people to go with them will spend time together in the rainy season, but one day they will eventually be separated at a certain ferry. Walking alone on the worldly road, the green radish brushes the skirt of the clothes, and the blue clouds wet the promise. Mountains and water can be forgotten, and the sun and the moon can have nothing to do with each other. At that time, there was only one person's joy in the floating world, and one person's long flowing water.

2. It is said that the world is blurred, and we often lose ourselves in the sea of ??smoke, and the fireworks that surround the world always choke you and me from breathing freely. Thousands of sails have passed, and when I look back at those years, that pure dream has already faded away. Now, what is left behind by the years is only desolation.

Lin Huiyin's watercolor painting "Hometown"

3. Some people say that falling in love with a city is because someone you like lives in the city. In fact, falling in love with a city may be because of a vivid scenery in the city, a childhood memory, or a familiar old house. Perhaps, just for this city. Just like falling in love with someone, sometimes there is no need for any reason, no antecedents, nothing to do with romance, just love.

4. We should believe that everyone comes to the world with a mission. No matter how ordinary, insignificant and insignificant he is, there will always be a corner where he will be put aside, and there will always be someone who needs his existence. Some people stay in their own small world, guarding simple stability and happiness, and live their lives without any disturbance. Some people, in the chaotic world, perform the joys and sorrows of life with gorgeous gestures.

5. It only takes a moment to meet someone, but it often takes a lifetime to fall in love with someone. It is not a fault to meet by chance and then turn around, nor is it perfect to be in love forever. In the destined encounter, we really have no other choice.

Lin Changmin and Lin Huiyin in the 1920s

6. Everyone knows that there is no such thing as a banquet that lasts forever, but they still swear to make a forever promise. How far is forever? How many people have asked this question. Some say it is always tomorrow; others say it is forever; still others say it is eternity. Maybe they were all right, or maybe they were all wrong, or maybe nothing in this world lasts forever. You once traveled thousands of miles to make a covenant, and one day you will suddenly leave, and it will be a lifetime before we meet again.

7. Many people have become slaves of time, following time in a hurry, forgetting what they wanted to pursue in the first place and what they have got now.

8. Waiting for a colorful flower event is happiness. Building dreams with the person you like under the sun is happiness. It is also happiness to grow old slowly while guarding a period of time that is intertwined with warmth and coldness.

9. Staying is a moment, turning around is the end of the world.

10. People who are destined to be together, no matter how far apart they are, will eventually get together and join hands in this world. People who are not destined to each other, even if they are close at hand, are like strangers and have no chance to meet.

In 1922, Lin Huiyin and Liang Sicheng were at their home in Xuechi Hutong, Jingshan Back Street, Beijing

11. Time flies by so fast that some stories have no time to really start and are written yesterday ; Some people become passers-by before they truly love each other.

12. Everyone’s life is filled with scenes of drama, whether true or false, long or short, happy or sad. The me you played in this scene, and I played you in that scene, each smiled and each shed tears. The end of one scene means the beginning of another, so we don't have to be too immersed in yesterday. Whether you remember it or forget it, life is a reincarnation. It comes and goes without ever stopping.

13. You are the cause of my planting, and whose result am I?

14. It is said that time is the best medicine. When you feel that you are unable to do what you want, it is better to leave everything to time. It will make you forget everything you should forget and let you start from a story carelessly. Go into another story.

15. The past is gone forever, but why do people always miss the past uncontrollably when they are sad and melancholy? Maybe it’s because we are all too ordinary and cannot withstand the humiliation of ordinary life day after day. I think back when we were standing at the farewell ferry, how many people said the words that they would never look back.

In the end, it is those who need to rely on memories to survive, turning out the yellowed youth book and reading it over and over again.

In 1933, Lin Huiyin was at Kaiyuan Temple in Zhengding, Hebei Province

16. Life is always praying for perfection. I feel that good tea needs a good pot, good flowers need a good vase, and beautiful women also need to be matched with each other. Be worthy of a talented person. But I don’t know that sometimes shortcomings are a kind of beauty, and being casual can make you more happy. Too delicate, too perfect, and it will lead to a life of shock. Even if you plan to survive in this world, don’t expect too much and don’t ask too many questions about why. And when every road is a deserted path, everyone is a passer-by, and every memory is the past.

17. A person has to experience too many separations and separations in his life, and those sudden separations often leave people unprepared. We don't meet each other everywhere in life, but sometimes we turn around and it's really a lifetime. From now on, we will never see each other again.

18. A person will encounter countless encounters in his life. Some people are scenery that you will forget after seeing them. Some people take root in your heart. Those inexplicable feelings are all caused by unreasonable fate. The fate is deep and shallow, and it has been known for a long time. No matter how you and I practice in the future, we cannot change the way we were at the beginning.

19. Happiness is such a luxury thing. There are always too many regrets in life, and it is not up to you and me to indulge in happiness.

20. People say that when you carry your luggage, you are a passerby; when you put down your baggage, you have found your hometown. In fact, everyone understands that there is no absolute stability in life. Since we are all passers-by, we should walk through the ups and downs of the world with a calm and indifferent heart, and watch the ups and downs of the world with a smile.

In 1934, Liang Sicheng and Lin Huiyin went on an inspection trip

21. Everyone has a hidden wound in their heart. This wound is not easily revealed to others, and they do not dare to touch it easily. I always hope to be hidden in the deepest corner, covered by the moss of the years, shielded from sunlight, rain and dew, thinking that one day the wounds will fade away with time. Maybe it's true. Time is the best medicine in the world. It can heal your wounds and make the once deep-rooted love become blurry.

22. The greatest pain in life is to watch the person around you dying, but you have no way to save him.

23. Only when a person's life ends can he find his true destination. For the rest of the time in this world, he will always be a passerby.

24. Dynasties change, mountains and rivers change owners, and everything in the world will change. In fact, we don’t need to work tirelessly to pursue eternity. Live in the present, do everything you want to do, go to every city that is destined to you, see every touching scenery, and cherish every passerby you pass. Even though I went through ups and downs and suffered all the hardships, I had no regrets.

25. No matter how you hide it and want to retain the innocence of youth, time will still ruthlessly leave the marks of growth rings and wind and frost on your face.

In 1941, Lin Huiyin was ill in Lizhuang

26. Everyone’s life is a journey, but the paths they take are different, the directions they choose are different, and the emotions they pay are different. , and the stories that happened are also different.

27. Keeping a memory is only for a moment, but cherishing a memory is forever.

28. The passage of time is like water, and it will never come back. The scenery we have seen may be able to be seen again, but the people who have passed away will never look back. No matter how many thoughts you have, except for the occasional wandering in your dreams, the rest of the time he is just a vague impression.

29. Many love affairs in the world are actually just lies spread by time, but we are willing to persist in a lie without regrets, even recalling it for the rest of our lives.

30. Only when one gets rid of loneliness can he regain the hustle and bustle; only after he has gone through all the sadness can he see joy again; after he tastes all the bitterness, can he regain his sweetness naturally.

Lin Huiyin with the children

31. There are too many past experiences in life that cannot be copied, such as youth, such as emotions, such as happiness, such as health, and many good things in the past together with the past. The tragedy cannot be repeated. This is fine, since you have had it before, there is no need to fear losing it at this moment. Some people say that the longer a person is on this earth, the more he will lose. Because we watch the people around us leave us one by one, and we are unable to bring them back, but the new greenery is always incompatible with us.

Perhaps this is the price of the annual rings, the price that everyone must pay. Time does not allow you to bargain. What should be gone will eventually no longer belong to you.

32. There are too many things in this world that we cannot let go of. Even a person who has lost all hope may still have a glimmer of hope for survival before dying. For example, you can see a ray of warm sunshine, an ant strolling in the garden, or a piece of green grass swaying in the wind. In just a moment, he may understand that life is so good. Life is often like this, there are many truths that cannot be understood through hard thinking and meditation, but in an ordinary moment, everything has the answer.

33. Life is unpredictable, with ups and downs, but once it has passed, everything will become calmer. Whether it is sadness or joy, the time that has been passed cannot be repeated. The things you were once obsessed with may no longer be worth mentioning, and the people you once loved may have become strangers. These seemingly simple truths can only be understood through personal experience.

34. We all know that although the colorful spring scenery is pleasing to the eye, it cannot match the changes of the four seasons. It will always open when it is time to open, and it will eventually end when it is time to end. But we can plant a bodhi tree in our hearts and it will remain green all year round.

35. Maybe we are too busy and ignore the fresh scenery in the noisy market, or maybe we are always missing some important fragments in the process of cultivation. Perhaps, life needs to be left blank. A broken lotus and missing moon are also a kind of beauty, and a simple meal is also a kind of happiness. Life is not about begging, so no matter how embarrassing your life is, you must go on calmly and live up to your life.

Comic manuscript written by Lin Huiyin to his daughter Liang Zaibing

36. Therefore, many things that seem to be owned may not actually be owned. Those who seem to be leaving may not actually be leaving. If there is a definite destiny between cause and effect, one day, everything that should be forgotten will be forgotten, and everything that should be reunited will be reunited. It's just that time flies by in chaos, and by that time, it may have changed to another way, another state of mind. And people who are wandering in search of dreams meet on the crowded road, maybe they are strangers, maybe they are familiar; they may be dependent on each other, or they may be divergent.

37. Not all the past is beautiful, there are still many traces that we want to erase but cannot. Some people say that you can choose to forget the painful past, but even if you forget it, it does not mean that it really does not exist. Since it was a process that could not be omitted, I had to endure it silently, just treating it as an ignorant mistake made by a young and inexperienced person.

38. No fate can last a lifetime. No matter how gorgeous the banquet is, it will come to an end one day. Knowing this, why bother to gather and disperse the two Yiyi. We are all passers-by in the scenes of life. Some people come to this scene, and some people are lost to that scene. If we can't keep the promise, don't make it lightly. Even if we grow old, we can still taste the cup of wine brewed with worries and happiness alone.

39. A landscape, a passerby, a story, no one has to explain to anyone when leaving. Since we are destined to be separated, it doesn't matter whether you and I at the end of the world are well on our own, whether the weather is sunny or not. Talk about healing the heart: We must be strong in silence and unhurriedly

1. The stronger a person's ability to heal himself, the more likely he is to be close to happiness. Be a man of few words, but have a big heart. Don't hurt others or yourself. Be peaceful and comfortable in indifference.

2. It is better to laugh it off than to be unable to express it; it is better to be calm and confident than to be unable to let go.

3. No matter how many times you argue or how many hurtful words you say, you will eventually reconcile because you can’t let go of the other person. This feels really good.

4. If someone helps you, you are lucky; if no one helps you, it is a just fate. No one should do anything for you, because life is your own and you have to be responsible for yourself.

5. I hope you will become such a person: don’t show off, don’t quarrel, and be a knowledgeable person. Don’t be empty, don’t be impetuous, be a rich person. Even if life is exhausted, we grow old in grace.

6. No one can bear it for you, and no one can take away your strength. Everyone is a lonely walker, slowly becoming stronger in the process of walking.

7. Be gentle, but not compromising. We must be strong in silence and unhurriedly.

8. Life always leaves us bruised and bruised, but please believe that the suffering you suffer today, the losses you suffer, the responsibilities you bear, the sins you bear, and the pain you endure will all turn into light in the end and shine. Light your way.

9. Don’t buy useless things no matter how cheap they are; don’t rely on people you don’t love no matter how lonely they are. Only if you can endure loneliness can you maintain prosperity.

10. There are some things that give you a headache if you think about them too much, and feel bad if you think about them. So, if you can't think about it, don't think about it. If you can't get it, don't ask for it. Why should you wrong yourself. Put down your baggage, forget all your worries, and spend every day happily. Very classic sentences in the circle of friends: In 2021, take your time and be an old gangster

1. I can’t stop him from running towards someone better than me! Everyone knows that Shan Ling is happy, but no one knows that Lu is sad!

2. Instead of worrying about the future, it is better to seize the present and don’t pin your dreams on someone easily. The future is your own. Only you can give yourself the greatest sense of security. No matter where we are in life At that stage, you should work hard to manage yourself well.

3. When two people miss each other, it is called love, but when one person misses each other, it is called pain!

4. Life’s little surprises are sometimes not the joy of going well, but every moment filled with gratitude and contentment.

5. Think openly or not, but you have to think openly in the end. Why not think openly in advance, why are you looking for so much grievance? Whether you can let it go or not, you will eventually be let go. Why not let it go happily? What should you do if you are so tired? There are flowers in spring, moon in autumn, cool breeze in summer and snow in winter. If there is nothing to worry about, it is a good time in the world.

6. Do you know that I miss you, but you told me that it is not convenient for me to contact you recently, but you have not contacted me at all, and you have no identity or reason to talk to you.

7. Sometimes, sadness comes just as it comes.

8. What you really want is not just as simple as tiptoeing. You must go all out to gain all the gains, regardless of your own safety.

9. The most heart-warming thing is that when you say something casually, someone listens to it carefully and remembers it, and does it without making a sound.

10. You need to walk the road of life by yourself. There are always things that you need to do by yourself. No one, no matter how close or distant you are, can't replace you, nor can you replace it. You have to bear the hardships by yourself, and feel the joy by yourself. The ups and downs of life, ups and downs, everything in life, mainly depends on yourself, that's how life is.

11. Life is like this. You have to experience it before you can grow. You have to go through pain before you can understand. You have to lose before you can know. No one can go through life smoothly all the time. Throw away your innocent reveries, let go of your simple thoughts, and face reality. Even if it is cruel, you should not escape. When facing life, don’t be greedy, don’t be in love, and be indifferent. So, very good.

12. Eat the sweetest candy, sleep on the softest bed, kiss the girl you love most, be the wildest wolf, 20xx, be an old gangster without any hurry.

13. The right person does not necessarily have to have high emotional intelligence, but he must understand your point. Know how to make you happy, so that living a long life will not be too strenuous. He will not reason with you when you are emotional, nor will he confront you head-on when you are so angry that your head is smoking. Just like playing badminton, you take turns serving, and you will never be the one picking up the ball all the time.

14. Please treat hard work as a habit, not a three-minute heat. Your life will never fail you. Those wrong turns, those wrong roads, those tears shed, those drops of sweat, those scars left behind, all make you uniquely you.

15. To be honest, I will still miss you. The problem is not big and can be overcome. Incisive sentences about taking one's time and settling down oneself in difficulties (a collection of 40 sentences)

Incisive sentences about taking one's time and settling down oneself in difficulties (Part 1)

1. Sometimes in life You need to settle down and have enough time to reflect in order to make yourself more perfect.

2. If you can consider things with the attitude of enjoying loneliness, reflect on your life in the precipitation of loneliness, and face yourself truly, you can find a broader sky in your life, including the pursuit of ideals. Persistence, love for life, and some insights into life!

3. The first colors of summer are scattered in the clear sky in May. The wind blows away the dust, and what settles is the mutual affection. The weather is getting warmer, and so is my heart.

4. Shenzhen is a prosperous big city. The fast pace of life keeps me accelerating the pace of progress, but the reality is always cruel and makes me unable to see the road ahead clearly. However, there is only silence. Decide to calm down your heart and see what you really need so that you won't be confused and insecure!

5. Constant determination, love gradually deepens, and time slowly precipitates feelings.

6. If you keep shaking, you will be in a state of chaos. Give yourself some time to settle and communicate with yourself every day, so that your heart will be relatively calm and no longer so irritable.

7. Instead of complaining and being restless, it is better to calm down and calm yourself down. The essence of sadness lies in poverty, and the root of anger lies in incompetence. Time flies by and looks grow old quickly. Cherish your time and seize your youth. The mountains will fall, but the water will flow. If you don't work hard, who will be strong for you? The road ahead will be long, but I hope I won’t spend the rest of my life in regret. ***Mian. In today's era, you can calm down, enrich yourself, and improve yourself. Such an excellent actress must be cheered for! ! !

8. Calm down and let yourself settle. Forget the honors and disgrace of the past, cherish the time now, and keep improving yourself. Set goals.

9. Time carves memories, and years precipitate emotions. Because we were touched by the past, we are unforgettable.

10. The calmer the mind is, the more objectively it can understand the world. Often, it’s not because we don’t have the ability to see through, but because our hearts are too confused. Quietness can generate wisdom. The reason why a wise person is not confused is not only knowledge, but also more importantly, calm mind. If you want to see the world clearly, you must first calm your mind. When your heart is in turmoil and everything is in turmoil, don't let a pebble break your mind.

11. I don’t know when I started, but I just want to be a sincere woman, with shallow lines and words, to calm myself in tranquility, to understand joy in simplicity, to grasp a piece of poetry, and to grasp a piece of understanding. In this world of mortals, only when your heart is calm can you hear the sound of flowers blooming. Only when you experience it can you know the tranquility and beauty of life. Only when you wake up can you understand the preciousness of life.

12. I also want to have a country house covered with thick snow, a truck, and a job that is not too hard. Occasionally one morning, a moose with gorgeous antlers walked by. In the evening, sit in a gaudy country restaurant and drink wine, accompanied by the noise, to calm yourself.

13. People are far stronger than they think, especially when you look back, you will find that you have taken a road that you never expected. Life can be wandering and lonely, but the soul must have a refuge. As long as you say goodbye bravely, life will give you a new beginning.

14. Delaying time will delay your actions, evading responsibilities will destroy your beliefs, and looking for excuses will destroy your confidence. Only by taking action, fulfilling your commitments, and taking responsibility can you The road to success!

15. I felt like a fly. I was hit countless times by a fly swatter but didn’t die. In the end, I suddenly realized that my problem was not why I didn’t die, but why I was beaten like this. Look, why do you still stay under this beat?

16. We can’t control other people’s mouths, but we can look at all the troubles with a calm heart. Only when the mind is calm can one hear the sounds of all things, and only when the mind is clear can one see the essence of all things. Calm your mind and watch the changes. To get along with others, you need to pay attention to methods. Some things need to be tolerated and not angered; some people need to be given up but not held accountable.

17. Time changes, and the growth rings have carved deep marks on your face. You are old. But there is such a person, when you become old and ugly after going through many vicissitudes, he will love you even more for those shining qualities and rich connotations that have been accumulated in your body through the baptism of time. This kind of love transcends the vain appearance and goes straight to the depths of the soul. , this kind of love is true love!

18. Living is a state of mind. In life, instead of constantly pursuing and being unable to satisfy, it is better to calm yourself first and see clearly the true needs deep in your heart.

As long as you are willing to open your closed heart, experience and embrace the happiness in front of you, you will live richer and happier than others.

19. In life, instead of constantly pursuing and being unable to satisfy, it is better to calm yourself first and see clearly the true needs deep in your heart.

20. Time is a magical thing. With ups and downs and stumblings, I have made a lot of progress over the years, but I am still getting more and more confused. It is time to calm down, settle down, and set a goal for myself. I was still pretty cool before. of. 21. Don’t envy other people’s splendor, don’t be jealous of other people’s success. Behind any splendor and success, there are sorrows and pains. , melting tears and hard work. Wonderfulness and success are just the way things end. Actions and processes are the threads that connect our lives. If you want more excitement and success, you must have firm determination before taking action, unbreakable resilience during struggle, and the courage to deal with defeat. Success means that we defeat ourselves.

22. Precipitation, the only way to change is to be restrained. In the new year, don’t let yourself be the same as before, okay?

23. Never be frightened by the difficulties in front of you. The so-called "threshold" means that when you have the ability, it is the door and the way out; when the ability is not enough, it is the threshold and the obstacle. Try to improve your abilities and precipitate yourself. One day, you will be amazed by your radiant self.

24. It is an opportunity but also a temptation. The more you desire something. It’s easy to amplify subjective feelings. Maybe it's my own misunderstanding. When you are depressed and irritable, you should calm down and think rationally. Give each of you some time to settle down some ideas. What can you tolerate, what can you understand that you cannot change, what are the bad habits that shine brighter than your behavior, and what are the reasons why you are willing to trust and stick to them. Believe that you will find the answer.

25. Only by experiencing some joys and sorrows in life, and walking through some open or dark roads, can we be ourselves with an independent mind and personality.

26. When you start to feel that life is unfair to you, it is time to calm down and settle yourself.

27. Solution: Calm down and settle yourself, read more books, read the micro-questions and answers repeatedly, and think about the consequences before doing anything. Don’t be happy for a while. It will be very painful to pay off the debt later.

28. People need to settle down and have enough time to reflect in order to make themselves more perfect.

29. It is a rare time to be alone with myself. I am grateful to my fate for allowing me to calm down and think about myself. Start getting busy, tomorrow will be better.

30. I need to calm down and calm myself down. In the face of temptation, I have to control myself, control, not get too hot, and be myself.

31. Integrity is like a bright moon. Only by looking into the bright moon from above can the true attitude towards life be precipitated.

32. Time settles and accumulates little by little in the long life. And people are floating and rolling in the long river of time, like duckweed that has been polished and settled with the years. In the wasted years, it forms its own unique fragrance, which is emitted in life, penetrates little by little, and penetrates into one's own life little by little.

33. Sometimes, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart, but not in your life. I know I need to let go but I can't because I'm still waiting for the impossible to happen. This feeling is really uncomfortable. When you can't bear it, just understand it, understand the arrangement of reality, settle the hardship, and let yourself go. One of the greatest challenges in life is to hold on to yourself in a world that loses you.

34. When you are not qualified to pick and choose, take a long time to calm down and settle yourself.

35. Some people will hate us because of our shortcomings, but there will also be people who like us because of our truth. We don’t have to let people who don’t like us like us, but insist that people who should like us find ourselves as soon as possible.

36. If you want to succeed, you must keep looking. Only in this way can you have a chance. Don't be discouraged, even if we don't succeed, at least we have already had experience that is more valuable than success.

37. The flowers bloom red for no one, and the flowers are fragrant for no one. Don’t be alarmed or disturbed, neither arrogant nor impetuous. Precipitate yourself in silence and realize joy in simplicity.

When your mind is calm, you can hear the sound of flowers blooming; when you experience it, you know the tranquility and beauty of life; when you wake up, you understand the preciousness of life.

38. The memory of cocooning, the thoughts of knotting ropes; after the pain, the person of yesterday died sadly.

39. Autumn brings us a bright color, which can make life as gorgeous as a picture, make the world as legendary as a dream, and make the days settle into a time that is always worth remembering and savoring in the long river of time.

40. In such a complicated and highly competitive entertainment industry, it is really valuable that he can calm down and settle himself. He supports him in everything he does and always believes in his decision. I wait for him quietly.