How much did a stay-at-home mother in Nothing But Thirty sacrifice for her family?

After watching Gu Jia's stay-at-home mom life in Nothing But Thirty, we know that staying-at-home mom is actually a very great career, because she sacrificed a lot for the whole family.

I don't have my own career

I think people who have been full-time mothers should be very clear about this feeling, because women don't have their own careers, and if they don't get the understanding of others in the whole family, they will have no family status. And when you ask someone for money with your palms up, it will be very uncomfortable inside. Sometimes I want to go out to work by myself, but I can't bear it for the children, so I can only continue to work as a full-time housewife at home. No matter how motivated you are, you can't give up your family and children for work.

Second, I have no friends

I think it's better just after I got married and didn't have children, because at that time I can continue to work and have friends to go out to play with. But after having children, especially after becoming a full-time mother, I feel that the whole person is out of line with society. Every day, children and some trivial things around the family will gradually alienate my friends, and gradually your world will be left with only children, husbands and daily necessities. No socializing, no friends, no self.

Third, there is no freedom

Taking care of children is not as simple as lip service, because we have to educate and develop children's intelligence while raising children. It can be said that stay-at-home mothers have almost no rest for 24 hours, let alone have a holiday. If you work outside, you will have at least two days' rest a month, and some even reach eight days. But after you become a full-time mother, you can only revolve around your children all day, especially children's energy is very strong, and they are very tired at the end of the day, and you need to repeat this day after day and year after year. There is no freedom at all.

From the above points, we can know that stay-at-home mothers have sacrificed many aspects, not just their own careers, including their social life and free time. Sometimes they even feel depressed, so for the health of stay-at-home mothers, I hope all dads can take on their own responsibilities and help them reduce their burden.