My mother just died and my father is going to remarry. My stepmother gave me a piece of paper at the wedding. Is it wrong to call mom after reading it?

This is not the role of a piece of paper, it is the role of a content, and this is a stepmother who is responsible for the family.

We ask us to think about this problem. In Origin and Fate, if mom and dad are not good to themselves, we will still say, am I raised by my stepmother? Why don't you kiss me? It is conceivable that if you have a stepmother, what life will be like next.

We have a custom here that it takes three years for someone in the family to get married, so either these two conditions are the only conditions for holding a wedding in the funeral year. Shortly after his mother died, his father remarried and held a wedding. Does this mean that we have discussed it?

I don't think it is easy to reach an understanding and make a decision in such a short time. How should you switch between sadness and happiness?

As a father, how do you face your dead wife and the woman who is going to marry you and your children? Should you be sad or should you enjoy it?

Marry again for the children or for yourself. Marriage itself is for a better life, and secondly, for the purpose of carrying on the family line and establishing a new family, so for those who are widowed or married twice, the nature is completely different.

It is especially difficult for him to find a new home if he takes care of children. No woman wants to be a mother or someone else's child as soon as she gets married. I think this is a complicated family and a complicated relationship.

Therefore, as a child, I think it will be difficult to enter such a family in the future. If you are 18 or even 20 years old, you will enter a new family in the eyes of others, but in your own eyes, it will add chaos to other families.

If we divorce, then the children will try to follow their mother. I think children's childhood life will be better, but we can't choose death. Anyway, we hope everyone can be safe.

Maybe there is a mother's sustenance on this paper to call herself a strange woman? I find it difficult. The roles of mother and father are really different. You can call a man father at will, but I think it is really difficult to call a woman mother. How many times do you have to meditate and struggle in your heart before you can make up your mind? When we have our own ideas, it is difficult for us to change our view or address of a person.

But if there is a mother's sustenance and instructions on it, can we forgive my father?

There is a saying that the dead are the biggest.

Before writing this question, I'll look at other people's answers. Some authors are telling stories, but here, because gentlemen are involved, I don't think we can talk about others casually. Even if I tell a story, I don't think life and death can be told casually, including illness violating some morals. As an author, there is a bottom line. We can't make up some facts that don't exist for the sake of flow.

In fact, sometimes calling a mother or stepmother can change a person's attitude. Mother's name is actually great. I came home from school for a long time, and my mother's heart was warm as soon as I entered the door.

But the stepmother is also a mother. When entering a new family, do you understand one thing, that is, how your stepmother treats you depends on what you call her. Maybe a woman won't take care of a mature child completely, not like the original mother, but never like a stranger. Therefore, it depends on how children call their elders. You call them aunts.

Responsibility and obligation are the same. You will grow up and she will grow old. Maybe being nice to you now is planning for the future.

That's all for today's question. What I hope is that everyone around me is safe and sound. The topic involves knowledge. I think I hope the person who asked the question really happened, and I feel confused or don't know what to do. I think as an author, although I can't help you in other ways, I think I can help you in psychological comfort.

The emotional writer around you has not answered such a profound question for a long time.

May the dead rest in peace in the spirit of heaven, and may the living know how to cherish it more.