Say with distress

With the rapid development of social networks and information technology, more and more people like to post stories online to record and share their daily lives. Still struggling to find something unique to talk about? The following is my collection of words about distress, welcome to share.

1, people came into the world, not for distress. In life, there are entanglements and extrication, and there are choices and abandonment. Simplicity is a state of mind, not mental retardation; Simplicity is a state of mind, not recklessness. Extremes meet, elephants are invisible, and the ultimate complexity is simplicity. People who look down on small things will inevitably work hard on smaller things in the future.

2. Life is always thinking and looking forward to the future in confusion. If there is no sadness and distress in life, no joys and sorrows, then life is blank and desolate. The beauty of the flower season and the sadness of the rainy season are gradually forgotten with the growth rings, half of which is the pursuit of beauty and half of which is the acceptance of incompleteness.

3. At the beginning of love, it was beautiful. When love ended, I was very sad. We often threaten the people who love us the most in the most childish way. For example, if you threaten that you don't need the other person anymore, and watch him look for you like a madman, you will get unprecedented satisfaction and revenge, but then you may lose this person. When he stops looking for you, you will suddenly realize that the only person who wants to be bullied by you is gone.

4. Learn to resolve your distress and treat it well in your life, just like treating your cousin who comes back from afar. Hello, cousin, you can go wherever you want.

The most precious wealth of mankind is hope, which relieves our pain and paints a bright future for us to enjoy the present happiness. If human misfortune only focuses on the present, then people will stop sowing and planting, and people will be prepared for nothing; So in this earthly enjoyment, people will lack everything.

6. Sometimes, it's hard to avoid being a little oversensitive. Too many eyes will make you allergic to small things. When others look at themselves one more time, they will be hostile to themselves. If you don't see enough, you feel that you are deliberately snubbing yourself. People who are overly sensitive are doomed to have a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions; Paranoid people are always trapped in a mess of thoughts and can't move. Sometimes, it is better to care less than to care more.

7. It's not that we have suffered too much, but that we don't understand life; It's not that happiness is too little, but that we don't know how to grasp it; There is no perfect life in real life, just as there is no pure comedy on the historical stage. Don't feel sorry for everything you have lost, because they will still exist in the future; Don't wait for everything in the future, because they all start from now; The key to solving the problem is to open the door yourself, so that you can go out of the room and enjoy the sunshine.

8. Everything depends on your own mentality, and everyone has troubles. Real life is like a pile of scattered notes, and everyone has his own staff. In the symphony of emotional variation and fate, whether the state of existence can become a beautiful movement, rather than a chaotic noise, depends entirely on our mentality.

9. Copying other people's troubles. Commit your own stupidity, continue the boring years and sketch the sadness of tomorrow. Year after year, year after year. Looking back, I found myself wandering in the same place, sighing.

10, people don't come into the world to be distressed, so we can't keep a straight face every day and feel sad, distressed and depressed all day long. There is no fun in this life. There is no absolute happiness in the world, only a heart that refuses happiness. The world is like a mirror. If you smile at it, it will smile back at you.

1 1, life is so beautiful, why haggle over every ounce; Sighing that making too little money is really asking for trouble; I can eat enough every day and my clothes are not bad; If you have nothing to do, go to Shang Chao to play, don't buy it; Take advantage of youth, leaving beauty and beauty; It's good to remember being young when a beauty is old!

12, there are some pressures and troubles in life that need to be solved. No one can escape the confusion of troubles. Even if you are tired sometimes, remember to slow down and don't pursue it deliberately. Life is always moving forward, why not? The direction of life is also in this inexplicable confusion. Living a breakthrough is self-esteem, looking down on it, there is no need to make a fuss, be tolerant.

13, many troubles in life come from "knowing". Many things in the world, when you "don't know, there is no so-called pain". Don't ask things you shouldn't see, words you shouldn't listen to, and secrets you shouldn't know-I don't know is bliss. Happiness is as simple as that, in the palm of your hand, you can hold it when you close your hand; Happiness is so hard, just in front of you, but you walked across Qian Shan and missed it because you didn't look back.

14, don't touch other people's lives, especially don't casually mention other people's suffering. Only those who can understand the pain of others can do it. They can understand and share the pain of others, without sympathy and comfort. Everyone has his own life, the taste of which others can't understand. Then, please don't touch other people's lives before entering another spiritual world.

15, why do we feel fear, fright, sadness and distress when we are alive? Because we only look at the written words, but forget that the words are written on the endless stream of water. They don't care about each other and go with the flow. People's pain is that the floating grass in front just missed the floating wood in the back, and the blisters in the back wanted to see the floating raft in front.

16, life is impermanent, sometimes ups and downs, not because we are too distressed, but because our hearts are not open enough; A quiet heart means knowing how to be content. In fact, living in this world, there are some things that we can change through the efforts of the day after tomorrow, and some things are destined to be difficult to change, or even impossible to change forever.

17. Most of the troubles when people get along with each other come from "thinking too much" for others and "thinking too little" for themselves. Yes, there are always people who love to ponder over other people's psychology or what others think of themselves, and then draw negative "conclusions" about other people's psychology and what others think of themselves, so they always make themselves anxious. In fact, all these "conclusions" you waste come from your inferiority complex, so you have to admit it.

18, pain makes you feel bad, just because you are afraid of it and blame it; Pain will chase you because you want to run away from it. So you can't run away, don't blame and don't be afraid. You know it yourself and you know it in your heart-there is only one kind of magic, one kind of strength and one kind of happiness in the world, and that is called love. So, love pain. Don't disobey the pain, don't escape the pain, and taste the sweetness in the depths of the pain. Hermann Hesse

19, the reason why life is often miserable is not that I have too little, but that I want to have too much. Man's desire is endless. If it is too strong, it will cause all kinds of pain and misfortune. The less desire, the happier life. Therefore, in order to pursue the happiness of life, we must maintain a normal heart, be indifferent to clear aspirations, be indifferent to interests, be indifferent to color, be unwilling to lose, and be proud to gain.

I think that as long as you smile every day, you can encounter any distress. I thought I could not see the whole world as long as I closed my eyes. I thought that as long as I covered my ears, I wouldn't hear those troubles. I thought I was injured and would recover one day, but I was wrong. I thought the bird couldn't fly across the sea because it didn't have the courage to fly. It turns out that it is not birds that can't fly, but the other side of the sea, and there is no waiting.