After every quarrel, my wife calls her parents in front of me and says it's not me. What should I do? Don't say anything to her mother, it hurts,

It's true that couples have time. Let me give you a suggestion. When you feel that something is wrong and you may quarrel, you can change the subject and let go of what just happened. We often do this, and now it has become a tacit understanding. Now think about some things that are ridiculous. Impulse can't solve the problem. Hope to adopt