How to get her love?

At the end of August, she asked me for her mobile phone password and a family number. There were only three people in this group: her, me, and her boyfriend.

On September 8, she said she would call me. When I saw the text message, I called her. That time, we chatted for an hour and a half.

Gradually, I began to like her. I called her and sent her text messages every day. The phone calls lasted about 15 minutes. Once, her boyfriend had her QQ number "stolen" (stolen because her boyfriend got the number back from Tencent within 2 hours without knowing any information). Later, I called her and I told her that I suspected her boyfriend had stolen the number. She said that she also thought it was. When she scolded the person who stole the number, her boyfriend said not to scold him! She said she believed me more. A few days later, she told me that they broke up, and I advised her not to do anything she would regret. As a result, they reconciled the next day. But she said she still didn’t know if she would ever feel the same as before.

On National Day, I saw her boyfriend’s photo in her QQ space (her boyfriend uploaded it himself) and told her. She said she wanted him to delete the photo. Later, Sure enough it was deleted. The next night, she said, "I was in a bad mood, maybe because of the photo, me and him..."

On October 14, she said that she had not eaten, and at noon on the 15th, I called her and asked her why she didn't eat. At first she refused to tell her and just said it wasn't because of you. I asked her if her family had said anything to her and she said no. I said I guessed. When we arrived, she asked me to tell her, and I said it was him. She said, "Well, I don't know if we will still have the same feeling as before." I said, don’t you keep in touch often? She said, no, we were in contact last night. After about two or three seconds, she said that I broke up with him...

On the night of the 15th, I asked her if I could be a GF, and she said that she didn't want to fall in love now. (See the text message record for details)

We were chatting like this. One day, she asked me whether blue clothes look better or white clothes. I said white makes people feel pure, and she smiled. , I asked her what color she bought, and she said white (she was also wearing white clothes when I went to see her yesterday). I asked her to send me a text message after she got to school, and she did.

Because they went home privately on Saturday, the school said they would be punished. I said, don’t be afraid, I will support you. She said, "You support me, I am so touched!" I asked her After processing, she told me the results. She sent them over at around 8:00 (I went there at 7:15)

A few days ago, she seemed to be very angry because of a small thing. After apologizing, she calmed down.

Yesterday, I went to see her and asked me to buy something for her, but she asked me not to spend money randomly. When I gave her the AVON cosmetics I bought, she didn't want them at first, but I persisted and she accepted them. Later, I sent a text message saying thank you, she liked it, and asked me if I would go home now.

PS She goes to a vocational middle school and I go to a supplementary class for senior high school students. From her boyfriend’s space, it can be seen that they only got together in August (I asked her how many times they have been together. It has been a long time (she said 5 or 6 months), and the diary in which he said he loved her was only posted in August. At that time, I didn't have much feelings for her, so I asked her to help me find another girl. A few days ago, I sent her a letter. She seemed very anxious and always asked me when I sent it and why it hadn't arrived yet.

Because I am in Pugao, and my previous school was a provincial key middle school, and she is in vocational high school, I always feel that there is a distance between us. She said that I am very good, and I asked her if she was lying to me. I'm not going to lie to you.

Since the end of September, I called her at 5:25 every morning to wake her up.

(She knew that I had to go to bed after 23:00 at night and asked me not to do this, but I still supported it)

Her boyfriend’s mobile phone was shut down recently. He told her that he is now using His father's card prevents him from contacting her too much, and since the breakup on the 14th, his QQ signature and QQ space introduction have been changed. He used to say that she was his favorite person, but now he is "depressed." , "Give me five years to become an IT elite; give me a lifetime to be with the one I love."

On National Day, I translated the novel she wrote into It's in English.

We met briefly in April and May this year, but we haven’t seen each other since. On November 1st, I went to their school at noon and we met for the second time.

Can you tell me what should I do? I really like her so much. Can I win her heart by treating her like this?

Attachment: SMS chat history (Y refers to her, M refers to me)

(October 14, 2007)

M: Yang Yang, I reported on time~ Yang Yang, let me wake you up tomorrow morning. Is it still 5:25? Haha~

Y: Whatever! You are so late at night and so early in the morning. (21:10:42)

M: It’s okay. Didn’t I say that I am willing to protect you for the rest of my life? For you, no matter how hard it is, no matter how tired it is, it is all worth it, and I am willing to do it! I have a question, I don’t know if I should ask it. . . .

Y: Dizzy, so stupid! Ask! (21:18:40)

M: Haha, protecting you is not stupid, but a decision made from the deepest part of my heart! The question is, can you agree to be my GF?

Y: Sorry! I don't want to fall in love right now. (21:24:22)

M: Well, just pretend I didn’t ask this question. I will wait for you until the mountains are clear! I have a request. When you want to talk, please think of me first, okay?

Y: Let’s talk about it then! Do you know why he and I broke up? Maybe they both have their own difficulties! Emotions are cultivated. Once you have this kind of emotion, it is difficult to forget it. Do you understand? (21:34:29)

M: I know, but we always have to face reality. A wave will not take away the sadness of yesterday, but a smile will greet the opportunities in the future! If it's hard to decide now, I won't force it. ××, I believe you can come out of the shadows and get back on your feet! Come on, the future is welcoming you with open arms! I will still care about you, protect you, and support you! come on!

Y: Haha, I will, you have to seize opportunities by yourself! You go to bed early! Good night! There are many things between me and him that you don’t understand! (21:47:16)

M: Well, ×× should go to bed early too. I have to get up early tomorrow morning. Haha, smile and fall asleep confidently~

( October 15, 2007)

M: You must be tired these days! ? Good night, please cover yourself with a quilt when you sleep. It's very sad if you catch a cold. I’ll wake you up tomorrow morning~

Y: Why are you so nice to me? (21:38:11)

M: I don’t know, it seems like this thing comes from deep in my heart... I really fall in love with you.

Y: Haha, but I only regard you as a friend! (21:41:47)

M: I am willing to pay for the one I love! To be honest, I have never been so nice to another person!

Y: Haha... I went to sleep

(October 16, 2007)

M: ××, I’m sorry, I woke up at 5 o’clock , but I accidentally fell asleep and didn’t call you until 5:35. I’m sorry!

Y: It’s okay! I just got up at that time, haha.

M: My heart is full of guilt. I love you so much that I don’t want to do anything to make you sad, even if it’s a very small thing. hehe. Since ×× is not angry, I feel relieved.

Y: Halo, don’t be like this! I just hope we can be best friends.

(07:22:30)

M: I know you don’t like me, and I also know that feelings can’t be forced, but you can’t stop me from liking you and loving you. I beg you not to regard me as a burden to you. I only hope that, just a small wish, you can let me stay by your side to take care of you and protect you... Even if it is just a good friend, it doesn't matter to anyone. , as long as you don’t let me get stuck on you. . .

Y: Sorry! I didn't mean it either. (08:18:31)

M: It doesn’t matter. I know the difficulties of XX. It’s useless to force someone if you don’t like it. I don’t want to and can’t bear to force you to do something you don’t want to do. No matter what, I will still care about you and take care of you as before!

(October 18, 2007)

M: Haha, I envy you (watching TV)! From the moment I started making that picture, I decided that I would never bother with it again and would never like other girls again!

Y: Dizzy, he and I don’t know if we can have the same feeling as before. . . (18:51:41)

M: What? Are you reconciled again?

Y: Pretty much! I don’t quite understand either. (18:53:13)

M: In the past few days, I have been on Baidu Tieba. Many people are asking this question, and the answers are almost the same: Just like a plate, with Cracks are just cracks. Although the surface can be smoothed with plaster, the cracks inside can never be repaired. I probably shouldn't say this, but we are good friends. Think about it, how many times have you divided your calendar in a month? Do you want to keep doing this? He gives me the feeling that he knows how to cherish you and make you sad again and again. ××, don’t be fooled by superficial phenomena. Instead of living in such pain, it is better to break up completely and find a better person. The long-term pain is not as good as the short-term pain.

Y: Well, I know, you are right, maybe I am too willful sometimes! But I think he still has me in his heart! And there is a reason why we say break up. . (19:13:10)

M: In fact, the kind of person you only know to cherish after losing it is not worthy of your love. Although there is no room for even a grain of sand in the eye of the beholder, as a boy, you have to be tolerant towards the one you love. His behavior can only show that he is selfish and doesn't care about your feelings at all. The most important thing in love is to be considerate to each other! Does it make sense to love a selfish person again?

Y: Haha, I don’t know what you guys are thinking. . . (19:28:45)

M: Let me tell you! From a boy's point of view, I really don't think he has ever truly loved you! His current behavior is just that he doesn't want to be embarrassed, I think it's still the case. . .

Y: There are some things you don’t know. If a boy is willing to shed tears for a girl, what does that mean? A boy made this girl angry because he said something wrong. He didn't even attend class and went all the way to the girl's school to tell her three words: I'm sorry. . . What does that mean? (19:40:14)

M: Tears can only show that he is not strong. . If you have to come all the way here, why did you say that in the first place?

Y: Halo, no, that was last month, I know! At least he won't hurt me. Not every girl is so easy to bully, haha! (19:52:19)

M: Dizzy, it happened a long time ago. Boys change very quickly. I was still sad for you tonight. After a good sleep, I might kill you tomorrow. forget! He used to have "No one can take you away from me..." on his QQ, but it's gone now!

Y: What? Why have I never seen this sentence before? When did you go to his space? (20:04:28)

M: It’s not his QQ space, it’s QQ signature. You didn’t fill it in ××. It was deleted by him in the past two days.

Y: Then can you tell me what it was like before? Now what? (20:08:30)

M: It used to be "No one will take you away from me", but now it has been deleted and there is nothing left.

Y: That’s a song! Do you think I love him very much? (20:15:34)

M: At that time, he should have used lyrics to express his feelings. This is the psychology of boys. But deleting it now only means that he doesn't treat you well. . .

Y: I understand, you are right, I will think about it again. . . (20:30:00)

M: Well, if you think about it again, you shouldn’t be too confused by the past. The past is past, the future will be better! If you have anything you don't understand, just tell me. Two people are better than one.

(October 19, 2007)

Y: I won’t call you when I get to the classroom! I've been very busy today, how are you? (12;17:51)

M: Haha, don’t tire yourself. I've been thinking about a question these days. . . By the way, how are you thinking about ××?

Y: What are you thinking about? (12:25;23)

M: It’s the question last night. Didn’t you say you’d think about it again?

Y: Well, I don’t know either. I don’t know when I hear his voice. . . (12:28:47)

M: Haha, you must be strong-willed! Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain. Although it almost feels like flesh is being cut off from the body now, it is better than being fatal in the future! The voice cannot represent the heart, but his voice is quite seductive.

Y: I’m so faint, no, it’s just a matter of falling in love now. . . And I am very happy without him! (12:36:56)

M: "And I am very happy without him!" In this case, why bother. . . Every time you feel sad, isn’t it you who suffers the loss? The future I am talking about is not the future, but the future. . . Maybe tomorrow.

Y: My friend said that I don’t care about him at all. I did before, but I should feel it now! (12:43:45)

M: That’s right, there’s no need to like or love someone you don’t have feelings for, that’s just deceiving yourself. The feeling I feel now is just your pity, girls are prone to this. . .

Y: Go to sleep! Stop worrying about me. (12:51:10)

(October 24, 2007)

M: ××, what kind of fragrance do you like? There are mint, green tea, pineapple, citrus, and strawberry.

Y: Pineapple, haha. (21:22:49)

M: Haha, I also like pineapple. Before long, you will have the smell of pineapple in your mouth and the smell of flowers in your hands!

Y: Why? Sometimes I wonder why you are so nice to me! (21:34:03)

M: Didn’t I say I would care about you and take care of you? Or, I don't care about you anymore. . . Hahaha, no, I will always protect you. . .

Y: But. . I still think this is bad! Very unfair to you! (21:40:33)

M: It’s okay. What does it mean to pay for the one you love? hehe. . . It is said that it will rain tomorrow. ××Please remember to bring an umbrella~

Y: No, it will rain! Halo, I got it! hehe! You should go to bed early too! Also, don’t focus on these things now, study hard, okay? Don’t forget, you are repeating the course, so remember what your goal is! (21:49:49)

(October 27, 2007)

Y: I’m home! Just turned it on. Thank you for helping me top up my phone bill again, me. . . (16:36:35)

M: It’s nothing, funds are a bit tight recently, so I can only recharge 30. I will show you the third part when I go to see you. Haha, I will be anxious if you reply to QQ messages at that time!

Y: If you shut down your phone anytime, I will help you recharge it. Why do everyone want to come see me? He also said he came to see me.

(16:48:53)

M: Okay, but I guess I won’t shut down. Oh, did he say when he would come to see you?

Y: No, he didn’t tell me when he came back to see me last time, so I was angry! (16:51:48)

M: Let me tell you, okay? I’m going on November 1st, which happens to be that day when I’m going to Hai’an. You don’t need to eat at noon. I’ll buy KFC. There are, of course, other things for you.

Y: No, why are you so polite! Let’s talk again! I shouldn’t have rested that day! (17:07:42)

M: That was Thursday. It’s not exactly polite! Because I, your lover, have fallen in love with you. I’ll call you later around 18:00. What’s your number?

Y: I’d better call you! After all, you are at home! Oh, really? What do you like about me? hehe. (17:27:38)

M: Okay, I will be free from 17:40 to 18:20. If I don’t answer, I will call you again. I still have more than 200 minutes of family number left. If you really like someone, you will like everything about him. I remember you once said this to me. Indeed, if you like someone, you will like everything about him! I care about everything about you! You don't reply to text messages, I'm very upset! Hearing your voice makes me 100 times happier. . .

Y: Haha, how can I say hello? (17:47:32)

M: I thought nothing could affect my mood, but I was wrong. I found that I care about you too much. Your words can change me from a sunny day to a sunny day. Storms, from squalls to spring breezes. . . What ×× means is, don’t you accept my love?

Y: I just received your message, I don’t know either! only. . . Don’t forget, you are now in your senior year of high school and you have to focus on your studies, you know? (18:32:08)

M: Falling in love with you may be a mistake, but at least it is a beautiful mistake with no regrets and no regrets. If you are wrong to the extreme, it is right! So I will not give up, I will make mistakes no longer mistakes.

Y: Fool, maybe I’m not worth what you do! (19:36:36)

M: How could you say that? No matter what, I am willing and it is worth it. To love someone is to care for someone with your heart. Since fate has brought us together, I will not let it slip away easily! Give me a chance, okay?

Y: I don’t know either, he and I didn’t post anything. . . (20:11:44)

M: When I saw the text message, there was a pain in my bones. It was so uncomfortable. . A few years ago, a model airplane stabbed my eye. My mother and the others cried, but I remained strong and did not shed a tear. I did not do well in the college entrance examination, but I did not cry. . . . I haven't been suffering for a long time, and today, I finally couldn't bear it anymore. . . This is the first time I cry for a girl, and maybe the last time I cry for a girl, because I will always be "stupid"!

Y: Don’t be like this! I'm not worth what you do! You should put all your attention on studying now and not think about these things. (20:54:24)

M: I can’t control myself now. . . I guess there is nothing left to express what I feel inside now but tears. . .

Y: Then be happy! Don't think about this, study hard first! (21:01:26)

M: Happiness seems to be just a thing of the past, and all I have now is despair. . .

Y: Don’t think that way, you still have control of your future! So you must have confidence in yourself. (24:09:11)

M: I know that the future is in my own hands, but where would tomorrow be without today? Today's sadness, loss, and despair will be eternal pain tomorrow! This scene today will always cry in my heart. No matter what, I will persist.

Y: Okay, let’s go to bed first! Also, now you have to focus on your studies.

(21:18:56)

(October 31, 2007)

Y: I arrived in the classroom and was watching TV. Haha, I was very busy today, so I didn’t answer the phone. , aren’t you angry? (18:09:20)

M: I’m very angry. What do you think I should do?

Y: What else can I do if I just say I’m sorry? (18:14:50)

M: I want you to say those three or four words.

Y: I don’t understand.

…………

Y: Don’t you think we sent too many messages this month? (21:44:07)

M: What, does Yang Yang think I’m annoying?

Y: No, you also know it. If he knew it, he would definitely be very angry and send you so many messages. He asked me tonight. (21:47:05)

M: Does he know your password?

Y: He doesn’t know, he just said that I have many friends. . . I knew he meant what he said. Good night! (21:57:24)