The question of giving up your seat was repeatedly searched. Is it etiquette or ethos to give up your seat?

The problem of giving up your seat is not the atmosphere, but the etiquette.

First of all, we must know what is the ethos. National spirit refers to the long-accumulated tradition. It is true that our country advocates the tradition of respecting the old and loving the young, but giving up one's seat is not a tradition, but a matter of etiquette.

Like buses now, there are seats specially reserved for the elderly, children, pregnant women and the disabled. Everyone needs to obey this rule. This is a special seat for some specific people. Assuming that we are not such a vulnerable group, it is best not to sit in this seat.

Everyone has spent money on tickets, and it is not their obligation to give up their seats for mutual affection. If this person is willing to give up his seat, everyone will be happy. If this person is unwilling to give up his seat, there is nothing wrong with it.

Giving up one's seat should be a spontaneous civilized behavior, rather than kidnapping the other side from the moral high ground through the strong demand of one side. Actually, I personally don't like giving up my seat.

Just say that I took the high-speed train out two days ago and sat in my seat before my ass was hot. A man came up and asked me if I could give up my seat. Actually, I was a little reluctant at the time, but everyone else asked. I'm not the kind of person who will refuse others.

And his girlfriend is sitting next to me, and he wants to change seats with me so that he can sit with his girlfriend. As a result, I gave him this seat, and both of them were happy, so I was in trouble.

They didn't sit at the terminal, so I was driven away by the new bus. Then he returned to his original seat in frustration. Really, I don't want to give up my seat next time, which makes me embarrassed. It's really hard to be a man.

It is reasonable to give up your seat, but you can't ask the other party to give up your seat. You can make this request, but you can't complain even if the other party refuses. People don't owe you anything, so there's no need to give you your seat. They all spend money on tickets, and no one is nobler than anyone else.