Why do people have fewer and fewer friends around them when they grow up, and it is so difficult to find a bosom friend to talk to when they are lonely?

It's a simple thing. As we grow up, we all have our own things to do, so there is less contact. Later, you will find fewer and fewer friends around you. You have made many friends for many years, so when you make friends in the future, you always take them as a reference and don't want to be friends with people around you now.

You know, there is an old saying in China: "All good things must come to an end" and "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water".

Under normal circumstances, there will be more and more friends, depending on whether you are willing to open your heart to them. Also, it has something to do with our culture. It is always difficult for us to leave our hometown, unlike foreigners who always move (they don't pay much attention to their friends), so we always feel comfortable in familiar environments and a little uncomfortable in strange places.