Requesting: A short story that embodies the warmth of father and daughter

The following are some philosophical stories that I have collected. These little stories have inspired me a lot, and I hope they will be helpful to you:)

1. Mentality

The father and son saw a very luxurious imported car. The son said disdainfully to his father: "Anyone who rides in this kind of car must have no knowledge in his belly!" The father replied lightly: "Anyone who says this kind of thing must have no money in his pocket!

--Does your view of things also reflect your true inner attitude?

2. The situations are different

A piglet, a sheep and a cow, Once, when the shepherd caught the piglet, the piglet howled loudly and resisted violently. The sheep and cows hated the piglet's howl, so they said, "He often catches us, but we don't scream." "Squeal." The little pig replied: "Catching you and catching me are completely different. He only wants your hair and milk to catch you, but he wants to catch me for my life!"

--It is difficult for people with different standpoints and different environments to understand each other's feelings; therefore, it is not appropriate to gloat about others' frustrations, setbacks, and pain, but rather to have a caring and understanding mood.

3. Rely on yourself

The little snail asked her mother: Why do we have to carry this hard and heavy shell since we were born?

Mom: Because our bodies do not have the support of bones, we can only crawl, but not very fast. So you need the protection of this shell!

Little Snail: Sister Caterpillar has no bones and can’t crawl fast. Why doesn’t she have to carry this hard and heavy shell?

Mom: Because the caterpillar sister can turn into a butterfly, the sky will protect her.

Little snail: But the earthworm brother doesn’t have bones to crawl fast, and he won’t turn into a butterfly. Why doesn’t he carry this hard and heavy shell?

Mom: Because the earthworm brother can drill into the earth, the earth will protect him.

The little snail cried: We are so pitiful, neither the sky nor the earth protects us.

Mother Snail comforted him: "That's why we have shells!" We don't rely on heaven or earth, we rely on ourselves.

4. Sharks and fish

Someone once did an experiment and put one of the most ferocious sharks and a group of tropical fish in the same pool, and then separated them with reinforced glass. Initially, The shark keeps colliding with the invisible glass every day, but this is just in vain, it can never cross to the other side, and the experimenter puts some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark has no shortage of prey, but it still thinks of it. I went to the opposite side, wanting to taste that beautiful taste, but I still kept bumping against the glass every day. It tried every corner, and tried its best every time, but it always ended up with scars every time. There were several times. The whole body was broken and bleeding, which lasted for several days. Whenever there was a crack in the glass, the experimenter immediately added a thicker piece of glass. Later, the shark no longer collided with the glass, and no longer cared about the colorful tropical fish, as if they were just moving murals on the wall. It began to wait for the crucian carp that appeared every day, and then used its agile instinct to hunt. , as if returning to the sea with unparalleled ferocity, but all this is just an illusion. At the final stage of the experiment, the experimenter took away the glass, but the shark did not respond and continued to swim in a fixed area every day. Not only did he turn a blind eye to those tropical fish, but when the crucian carp escaped over there, he immediately gave up the chase and refused to go there again. The experiment was over, and the experimenter laughed at it as the most cowardly fish in the sea.

--But anyone who has ever been in love knows why, it is afraid of pain.

5. Miracles

In a remote town in France, it is said that there is a particularly efficacious water spring that often performs miracles and can cure various diseases.

One day, a veteran with a cane and one missing leg limped across the street in the town. The townspeople next to him kissed back with sympathy and said, "Poor guy, does he want to ask God for help?" Pray for another leg?" This sentence was heard by the retired soldier. He turned around and said to them: "I am not asking God for a new leg, but praying for ? Help me that I don't have one. Even with one leg, I know how to live my life."

--Just imagine: Learn to be grateful for what you have lost, and accept the fact of loss. Regardless of gains and losses in life, always make your life full. Bright and glorious, no longer shed tears for the past, and work hard to live out your life.

6. Fishing Rod

There was an old man fishing by the river. A child walked over to watch him fishing. The old man was very skilled, so he caught a basket full of fish in a short time. The old man caught a basket full of fish. Seeing that the child was very cute and wanted to give him the whole basket of fish, the child shook his head and the old man asked in surprise: "Why don't you want it?" The child replied: "I want the fishing rod in your hand." The old man asked: "You want it?" What's the fishing rod for?" The child said, "This basket of fish will be eaten soon. If I had a fishing rod, I could catch it by myself and never finish it in my lifetime." I think you will say: What a smart kid. Wrong, if he only needs a fishing rod, he won't be able to eat a single fish. Because he doesn’t understand the skills of fishing. Just having a fishing rod is useless, because the important thing about fishing is not the , but the . Too many people think that they have the fishing rod in life and no longer have to be afraid. Due to the wind and rain on the road, it is inevitable that you will fall on the muddy ground. Just like a child looking at an old man, he thinks that as long as he has a fishing rod, he will have endless fish to eat. It is like an employee looking at his boss, thinking that as long as he sits in the office, he will have a lot of money.

7. How to employ people

Everyone who has been to a temple knows that as soon as you enter the temple door, the first thing you see is Amitabha Buddha, with a smiling face to welcome guests, and to the north of him, there is a black Buddha. Wei Tuo, who has a bad mouth and a bad face. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but were in charge of different temples. Maitreya Buddha was enthusiastic and happy, so many people came, but he didn't care about anything, was careless, and didn't manage the accounts well, so he still couldn't make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo was a good accountant, he had a gloomy face and was too serious all day long, which led to fewer and fewer people, and finally the incense was cut off.

The Buddha discovered this problem when he was checking the incense, so he put them both in the same temple. Maitreya Buddha was responsible for public relations and welcomed guests from all directions with a smile, so the incense flourished. However, Wei Tuo was selfless and meticulous, so he was asked to be responsible for the finances and strictly control them. Through the division of labor and cooperation between the two, the temple was thriving.

--In fact, in the eyes of a master employer, there is no useless person. Just like a master of martial arts, he does not need a precious sword and can hurt people by picking flowers and flying leaves. The key is how to use it.

8. Parrot

A man went to buy a parrot and saw a parrot with a label on the front: This parrot can speak two languages ??and the price is two hundred yuan.

Another parrot has a sign in front of it saying: This parrot can speak four languages ??and sells for 400 yuan.

Which one should I buy? Both have bright coats and are very flexible and cute. The man was spinning around, unable to make up his mind.

As a result, I suddenly found an old and toothless parrot with dull and messy fur, priced at 800 yuan.

The man quickly called the boss: Can this parrot speak eight languages?

The shopkeeper said: No.

This man was surprised: Then why is he old, ugly, and incompetent worth this amount?

The shop owner replied: Because the other two parrots called this parrot Boss.

--This story tells us that a true leader does not necessarily have how strong his own abilities are. As long as he knows how to trust, how to delegate power, and how to cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself, thereby improving himself. worth.

On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities are too perfectionistic and have to do everything by themselves. No one is as good as themselves. In the end, they can only be the best researchers and sales representatives, and they cannot become excellent leaders.

9. Kangaroo and Cage

One day the zookeeper found that the kangaroo ran out of the cage, so they held a meeting to discuss and agreed that the height of the cage was too low.

So they decided to increase the height of the cage from the original 10 meters to 20 meters. As a result, the next day they found that the kangaroo still ran outside, so they decided to increase the height to 30 meters.

Unexpectedly, the next day they saw all the kangaroos running outside, so the administrators were very nervous and decided to increase the height of the cage to 100 meters. One day, the giraffe was chatting with some kangaroos, "Do you think these people will continue to raise your cages?" the giraffe asked. "It's hard to say." The kangaroo said: "If they continue to forget to close the door!"

--Management experience: Things have "the root and the bottom", "the priority" and "the priority". Closing the door is the foundation, and the improvement is The cage is the weak point, and if you abandon the fundamentals and pursue the weak points, you will of course miss the point. What is management? Management is to first analyze the main contradictions and secondary contradictions of the matter, understand the "root and cause", "severity" and "priority" of the matter, and then start from the important aspects.

10. Bian Que’s medical skills

King Wei Wen asked the famous doctor Bian Que: "You have three brothers who are all good at medicine. Which one is the best?"

Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother is the best, the middle brother is second, and I am the worst."

King Wen asked again: "Then why are you the most famous?"

Bian Que replied: "The eldest brother treats diseases before the onset of the disease. Since most people do not know that he can eradicate the cause of the disease in advance, his reputation cannot be spread; the middle brother treats diseases at the beginning of the disease. Most people think that he can only treat minor illnesses, so he is only famous in his hometown. But when the illness is serious, most people see me inserting needles into the meridians and applying medicine on the skin. I was waiting for major surgery, so I thought that my medical skills were excellent, and my reputation spread all over the country."

-Management experience: Control after the event is not as good as control during the event, and control during the event is not as good as control beforehand. Unfortunately, most business operations. None of them realize this, and wait until their wrong decisions have caused significant losses before seeking to make amends. And often even if the famous "airborne troops" are invited, the result is of no avail.

11. Qu Tu Tu Xin

A guest came to someone's home and saw that the chimney on the host's stove was straight and there was a lot of wood next to it. The guest told the host that the chimney had to be reshaped and the wood had to be removed, otherwise there might be a fire in the future, but the host didn't say anything.

Soon after, a fire broke out in the owner’s house. The neighbors rushed to put out the fire, and finally the fire was put out. So the owner cooked sheep and cattle and entertained the neighbors to reward them for their efforts in putting out the fire, but did not ask for their original suggestions. He is the one who removes the timber and re-curves the chimney.

Someone said to the host: "If you had listened to that gentleman, there would be no need to prepare a banquet today, and there would be no fire damage. Now you will be rewarded based on your merits. The person who originally gave you advice has not been thanked. It's really strange that the person who put out the fire is a guest!" The host suddenly realized and hurriedly invited the guest who gave the suggestion to come and have a drink.

--Management experience: Most people think that those who can resolve or solve various thorny problems in the business process are excellent managers. In fact, this is open to question. As the saying goes: "Prevention is the key." "It is better to prevent problems before they happen than to cure them after they have already happened. From this point of view, the preventers of corporate problems are actually better than the solvers of corporate problems

12. Rescue

During a fierce battle, the captain suddenly discovered an enemy plane diving down towards the position. As usual, when you find an enemy plane diving, you should lie down without hesitation. But the captain did not lie down immediately. He found a little soldier still standing four or five meters away from him. Without thinking too much, he jumped forward and pressed the little warrior tightly under him. At this time, there was a loud noise, and flying mud fell on them one after another. The captain patted the dust on his body and looked back. He was shocked: the place where he was just now was blown into a big crater.

13. Going out

In ancient times, two brothers each took a suitcase on a long trip. Along the way, the heavy suitcases weighed down both brothers. They had to switch to their right hand when their left hand was tired, and to their left hand when their right hand was tired.

Suddenly, the eldest brother stopped, bought a pole on the roadside, and hung two suitcases on the pole, one on the left and the other on the right. He picked up two boxes and set out on the road, feeling a lot more relaxed.

--It may be a bit far-fetched to connect these two stories, but they do have striking similarities: the little warrior and his brother in the story are lucky, but even luckier is the Captain and Big Brother, because when they help others, they also help themselves!

--Management experience: On the road of our lives, we will definitely encounter many difficulties. But don’t we all know that on the way forward, removing stumbling blocks from others’ feet is sometimes just paving the way for ourselves?

14. The Fish King’s Son

There was a fisherman who had first-class fishing skills and was respectfully called the ‘Fisher King’. However, the 'Fisher King' was very distressed when he was old because the fishing skills of his three sons were all mediocre.

So I often tell people my troubles: "I really don't understand, my fishing skills are so good, why are my sons so bad? I have taught them fishing skills since they were sensible. , starting from the most basic things, telling them how to weave a net to catch fish most easily, how to row a boat without disturbing the fish, and how to lower the net most easily to attract fish into the urn. When they grow up, I also teach them how to read the tide. , I have learned all my hard work over the years and imparted it to them without reservation, but their fishing skills are not as good as those of the fishermen’s sons.”

After listening to his story, a passerby asked: "Have you been teaching them step by step?"

"Yes, in order to let them obtain first-class fishing techniques, I teach them Very carefully and patiently."

"Have they been following you?"

"Yes, in order to avoid detours, I have been asking them to follow me."

The passerby said: "In this way, your mistake is obvious. You only taught them the skills, but you did not teach them the lessons. For talents, no lessons are the same as no experience. Neither can make a person great!"

15. Apples by the River

An old monk, surrounded by a group of devout disciples. On this day, he asked his disciples to go back to Nanshan to collect a load of firewood. The disciples hurried to the river not far from the mountain, and everyone was stunned. I saw the flood rushing down the mountain, and there was no way I could cross the river to collect firewood. After returning without success, the disciples were a little downcast. Only a young monk faced the master calmly. The master asked why. The young monk took out an apple from his arms and handed it to the master. He said that he could not cross the river and could not collect firewood. I saw an apple tree by the river, so I picked the only apple on the tree. Later, the young monk became the successor of the master.

--There are endless roads in the world, and there are also rivers that cannot be crossed. It is also a kind of wisdom to turn back when a river cannot be crossed. But true wisdom also needs to do one thing by the river: fly the kite of thought and pick an "apple". After looking at the past and present, people who hold on to such a belief in life have finally achieved breakthroughs and transcendence in life.

16. The right hand holds the left hand

There is a popular jingle at the table: Holding your wife’s hand is like holding your right hand with your left hand.

Whenever someone reads: Familiar or unfamiliar people at the table will laugh out loud knowingly, and the atmosphere will immediately relax. Of course, this is based on everyone's unanimous understanding of the jingle - it feels accurate and the description is spot on.

One day at the dinner table someone recited this jingle, and the men laughed heartily as usual. Later I discovered that a woman at the dinner table was not smiling. The men were busy saying that they were just joking and should not be taken seriously. Unexpectedly, the woman said seriously: The best thing is this "right hand holding the left hand". First, the left hand is the most trustworthy of the right hand; second, the left hand and the right hand belong to each other; third, no matter how the other hands make you happy and excited, you can throw them away afterwards. Only the left hand can be thrown away. If you lose it, you will be disabled, right? The men at the table all admired it and praised the woman for her profound and unique understanding. The woman said lightly: If there is anything profound and unique about it, you might as well go back and read it to your respective wives and see what they say.

Sure enough, some of the brave men went back to test their wives. Sure enough, the wives all had the same understanding as the ladies at the table.

They are all left-handed, and men must of course be counted on their left hand.

And they are all right-handed, so of course they think right-handedly

17. Choice

A farmer rescued his wife and children from the flood. But was drowned.

Afterwards, people talked a lot. Some say he did the right thing, because the child can have another child, but the wife cannot die and be resurrected. Some said he made a mistake because his wife could marry another, but his children could not be resurrected from the dead.

After listening to people’s discussions, I also felt puzzled: If I could only save one person, should I save my wife or my child? So I went to visit the farmer and asked him what he thought at that time.

He replied: "I didn't think about anything. When the flood hit, my wife passed by me, so I grabbed her and swam to a nearby hillside.

When I returned , the child has been washed away by the flood.”

On the way home, I thought about the farmer’s words and said to myself: This is how many choices in life are made.

18. Simple truth

Once upon a time, two hungry people received a gift from an elder: a fishing rod and a basket of fresh and huge fish. One of them asked for a basket of fish, and the other asked for a fishing rod, so they parted ways. The person who got the fish used dry wood to set up a bonfire and cooked the fish on the spot. He wolfed it down, and before he could taste the aroma of the fresh fish meat, he ate up all the fish and soup in a flash. Soon, he was Starved to death next to an empty fish basket. The other man carried the fishing rod and continued to suffer from hunger, walking hard step by step towards the seaside. But when he saw the blue ocean not far away, the last bit of strength in his body was exhausted. He could only pass away helplessly with endless regrets.

There were two hungry people. They also received a fishing rod and a basket of fish as gifts from the elder. But they didn't go their separate ways, but agreed to go find the sea together. They only cooked one fish at a time. After a long journey, they came to the seaside. From then on, the two began to fish for a living. , a few years later, they built a house, had their own families, children, built their own fishing boats, and lived a happy and healthy life.

--A person who only cares about immediate interests will eventually get short-term happiness; a person has lofty goals, but he must also face the reality of life. Only by organically combining ideals and reality can we become a successful person. Sometimes, a simple truth is enough to give people meaningful life inspiration.

19. It’s not what you think

Two traveling angels stayed at a wealthy family. The family did not take kindly to them and refused to let them spend the night in the cozy guest bedroom, instead finding them a corner in the cold basement. As they were making their bed, the older angel noticed a hole in the wall and repaired it. The young angel asked why, and the old angel replied: "Some things are not as they seem."

The next night, the two stayed at a very poor farmer's house. The host and his wife were very warm to them. They took out the little food they had to entertain the guests, and then gave up their beds to the two angels. Early the next morning, the two angels found the farmer and his wife crying. Their only source of livelihood, a cow, had died. The young angel was very angry. He asked the old angel why this happened. The first family had everything, and the old angel helped them repair the hole in the wall. The second family entertained guests warmly despite being poor, but the old angel did not stop the cow. death.

"Some things are not as they seem." The old angel replied, "When we spent the night in the basement, I saw through the hole in the wall that the wall was filled with gold nuggets. Because the owner was corrupted Bewitched by desire and unwilling to share his wealth, I filled the hole in the wall. Last night, Death came to summon the farmer's wife, and I put the cow in her place. So some things are not as they seem. ”

--Sometimes things don’t appear to be the way they should be.

If you have faith, you just have to believe that your efforts will always pay off. You may not find out until later...

20. How to raise cattle

We traveled to the countryside and saw an old farmer shoveling the fodder for cattle into a small house. On the eaves of the thatched house, he couldn't help but feel strange, so he asked: "Old man, why don't you put the grass for the cattle on the ground and let it eat?"

The old farmer said : "This kind of grass is not of good quality. If I put it on the ground, it will ignore it. But if I put it on the eaves where it can barely reach it, it will work hard to eat it until it eats up all the grass."

21. Lover’s Heart

This is a true story that happened in England.

There was a lonely old man who had no children and was frail and sick. He decided to move to a nursing home. The old man announced that his beautiful residence was for sale. Buyers flocked to the store after hearing the news. The base price of the house was ￡80,000, but people quickly fetched it up to ￡100,000. Prices are still rising. The old man sunk deeply into the sofa, his eyes full of melancholy. Yes, if it were not for his poor health, he would not have sold the house where he spent most of his life.

A young man in plain clothes came to the old man, bent down, and whispered: "Sir, I really want to buy this house, but I only have 10,000 pounds. However, if you sell the house Give it to me, and I promise that you will still live here, drink tea, read newspapers, and take walks with me, and be happy every day - believe me, I will take care of you with my whole heart!”

The old man nodded and smiled, and sold the house to him for 10,000 pounds.

--To realize your dreams, you don’t have to fight coldly and cheat. Sometimes, as long as you have a loving heart.

22. Giving

An old carpenter was preparing to retire. He told his boss that he wanted to leave the construction industry and go home to enjoy family happiness with his wife and children. The boss was reluctant to let his good worker go and asked him if he could help build another house. The old carpenter said yes. But everyone could see later that his heart was no longer in his work. He was using soft materials and doing rough work. When the house was built, the boss handed him the key to the door.

"This is your house," he said, "a gift from me."

He was stunned with shock and ashamed. If he had known that he was building a house for himself, how could he have done this? Now he has to live in a shoddy house! We are not like this. We carelessly "build" our lives, instead of taking positive actions, we deal with it passively, refusing to strive for excellence in everything, and failing to do our best at critical moments. By the time we are shocked to realize our situation, we are already deeply trapped in the "house" we built. Think of you as the carpenter, think about your house, every day you hammer in a nail, add a board, or erect a wall, use your wisdom to build it! Your life is the only creation in your life. It cannot be erased and rebuilt. Even if you only have one day to live, you must live it beautifully and noblely on that day. The nameplate on the wall reads: "Life is what you create."

23. Remind yourself

There was an old lady sitting on the side of the road looking at a high wall not far away. She always felt that it would collapse soon. When she saw someone walking towards the couple, she She kindly reminded her: "That wall is going to fall down, so stay away." The person who was reminded looked at her in puzzlement as she walked along the base of the wall in a grand manner - the wall did not fall down. The old lady was very angry: "Why don't you listen to me?!" Someone came over again, and the old lady gave another advice. Three days passed, and many people walked past the wall without encountering danger. On the fourth day, the old lady felt a little strange and a little disappointed, so she couldn't help but walk to the base of the wall to take a closer look. However, at this moment, the wall fell down, and the old lady was buried in dust and masonry, and died.

--It is often easy and sober to remind others, but it is difficult to remind yourself soberly at all times.

Therefore, many dangers come from oneself, and the old lady's sorrow arises from this

24. Window

There is a lady who has been complaining for many years that the lady opposite is lazy, "That woman Her clothes are never clean. Look, the clothes she hangs outside in the yard always have spots. I really don’t know how she can even wash clothes like that..."

It wasn't until one day that a perceptive friend came to her house and discovered that it wasn't the wife opposite who couldn't wash her clothes cleanly. The attentive friend took a rag and wiped off the dust stains on the wife's window and said, "Look, isn't this clean?" It turned out that the window of his own home was dirty.

25. Leave a gap for others

A famous entrepreneur was giving a report, and an audience member asked: "You have achieved great success in your career, may I ask, what do you think about it?" "What is the most important thing?"

The entrepreneur did not answer directly. He picked up the chalk and drew a circle on the blackboard, but it did not draw a circle completely, leaving a gap. He asked, "What is this?" "Zero." "Circle"/"Unfinished Business"/"Success", the audience in the audience answered in various tongues.

He did not comment on these answers: "Actually, this is just an incomplete end. You ask me why I have achieved brilliant results. The reason is simple: I don't do things perfectly. , just like drawing a full stop, I must leave a gap for my subordinates to fill it.”

-Leaving a gap for others does not mean that one is not strong. In fact, this is a kind of management wisdom, a kind of overall perfection at a higher level. Give a monkey a tree and let it climb; give a tiger a mountain and let it roam freely. Perhaps, this is the highest state of enterprise management and employment.

26. Horses

Horses were free to run wild in the mountains. They would drink from the mountain spring when they were thirsty and sleep on the ground to bask in the sun when they were tired. They were carefree. But since the arrival of Bole, the horse's fate has changed. If you put a bridle on its head, put a saddle on its back, and tie it, the horse's mortality rate is already 23 out of 10, and then again Force it to transport things, force it to travel thousands of miles a day, and nail its feet with iron shoes, and the death rate of the horse will be more than half. The horse is originally an animal with no rules and no use. Let it absorb the essence of the sun and the moon, the aura of the heaven and the earth, and be useless and do nothing. You can still enjoy the whole life of the horse, educate it, and make it understand the etiquette, but it will harm its life.

--Aren’t people like this? Under the constraints of rules, have we also lost our identity, followed the etiquette and justice set by others all day long, and forced ourselves to do things we don’t want to do? How much is left in our limited life?

27. The director is useless

There was a man from Lu who was good at weaving straw sandals, and his wife was good at weaving white silk. He wanted to move to Yue. The friend said to him: "You will definitely be poor when you go to Yue country." "Why?" "Straw sandals are used for walking, but Yue people are used to walking barefoot; white silk is used to make hats. But the people of Yue are accustomed to letting their hair be disheveled. Is it possible to keep yourself from poverty by relying on your strengths? In order for people to use their expertise, they must meet the needs of the social environment. If it is separated from the needs of the social environment, its expertise will lose value. Therefore, we must decide our actions according to the needs of society and better utilize our expertise.

28. The mouse on the pagoda

A wandering mouse made a home on the top of the pagoda. Life in the pagoda is really happy. It can not only travel between the floors at will, but also enjoy rich offerings. It even enjoys privileges that others cannot imagine. It can chew the unknown secrets at will; it can rest freely on Buddha statues that people dare not look at. When it rises, it can even leave some excrement on the head of the Buddha statue. .

Whenever the faithful men and women burn incense and kowtow, this mouse always looks at the intoxicating smoke rising slowly. It sniffs fiercely and laughs secretly in its heart: "Ridiculous human beings, My knees are so soft, I just kneel down!" One day, a very hungry wild cat came in and caught the mouse.

"You can't eat me! You should kneel down to me! I represent the Buddha!" ??protested the noble captive. "People kneel down to you, just because of the position you occupy, not because of you!" the wild cat sneered, and then it broke the mouse in half like a hamburger.

29. Opportunity

A works as a white-collar worker in a joint venture company. He feels that he is full of ambition and is not appreciated by his superiors. He often thinks: If one day I can meet the boss, I will have the opportunity to show off myself. Your talents would be great! ! A's colleague B also had the same idea. He went a step further and asked about the boss's commuting time and calculated when he would probably enter the elevator. He also went to take the elevator at this time, hoping to meet the boss and have the opportunity. You can say hello. Their colleague C goes a step further. He learned about the boss’s struggle in detail, found out the school where the boss graduated, his interpersonal style, and the issues he cared about. He carefully designed a few simple but meaningful opening remarks, took the elevator at the planned time, and said hello to the boss several times. Finally, I finally had a long talk with the boss one day, and soon I got a better position.

--Fools miss opportunities, wise people seize opportunities, and successful people create opportunities. Opportunities only come to those who are prepared. The word preparation is not just talk.