There is a saying in the countryside that "people don't walk three ways when they are thirty, and people don't touch three things when they are forty".

As the saying goes, "people get married at the age of 30." In the past, people generally got married earlier, usually after they got married. Many people get married and have children in their teens. At this time, they need a stable family and career environment. We need to know what to do in the future and what direction their careers should go.

When I was a child, I often heard from the elders in the village that when people reach the age of 30, no matter how their career develops and where their life goes, there are three ways to think clearly, and it is best not to go. First, don't go astray. The so-called "crooked ways" refer to crooked ideas and crooked ideas. Not everyone can have a good family and career at the age of 30. Some people just want to take a shortcut to success, and they can't take a step. Even if they succeed, it is only temporary.

Second, don't take the road without goals. Of course, if you want to succeed, you need to be down-to-earth and have a clear goal, otherwise it will be like a boat in the vast sea, and it will be difficult to reach the coast without the guidance of a lighthouse. Third, don't leave in a hurry. After the age of 30, people should have the ability to think carefully and be calm when encountering problems. Always being told not to walk in a hurry is telling future generations not to pursue speed blindly, sometimes haste makes waste, and to remain calm when encountering difficulties.

People don't touch three things when they are forty. When we reach the age of forty, we are no longer young people. For most of us ordinary people, our health and family career have reached the peak of our lives. As I grew older, I began to decline in many ways. At this age, there are three things you can't touch: first, you can't touch it on the wine table. I don't look old. It's okay to have a few drinks. It's harmful to your health to be young at forty. In the long run, your body will be overwhelmed.

Second, not at the expense of others. You can't do things that harm others and benefit yourself just because love takes advantage of small things. Third, the couple can't live up to it. As the saying goes, "eighteen flowers for a woman, one flower for rhapsody in July". In the eyes of many women, 40-year-old men are more mature, more considerate, more attractive and more emotional, attracting women to like them. If you do something sorry for the original match at this time, you will often be regarded as a laughing stock by others, and you may end up in a situation where your wife and son are separated.