Reading taught me how to speak

Because of reading, I, who was originally clumsy in speaking, learned to be eloquent and express myself correctly.

When I was a child, I was very clumsy with my tongue and was often bullied into speechlessness. Often when being scolded by others, my mind is congested and my emotions are aroused, but I just can't utter a single word. Often laughed at by adults.

Then I bought a lot of "Speech and Eloquence", hoping to learn the art of speaking and improve my speaking ability. I read the book and practiced, but it didn’t have much effect.

After working, due to his positive performance and visible abilities, he was promoted to a supervisor. There are more than 10 people in charge, and a weekly meeting must be held every week. From here on, I had the courage to express myself in front of others.

I have the courage to speak in public, but my ability to express myself verbally is limited. In order to improve my verbal expression skills, I started reading again.

The book not only contains golden houses and beautiful faces, but also teaches you tools to speak well. Teach you how to hit the nail on the head, slow and urgent, and have clear logic. Even if we quarrel, we should do so in a serious manner, rather than just swearing casually.

Reading allows us to see various aspects of life and learn principles from other people’s stories. If you know more principles, you won’t get stuck when talking, and you can talk with confidence.

When encountering something and arguing with others, the most important thing is to grasp the key points and have clear logic. You cannot talk a lot but miss the key points.

I remember once, I accompanied a friend to deal with something. My friend is very timid and awkward in speaking, and often speaks in a stumbling manner. I was afraid that she would suffer a loss, so I volunteered to accompany her. Of course she was happy for me to accompany her.

When we got there, we found that the other party was a very strong person, but fortunately he was not unreasonable. We talked about it one by one, one by one, and quickly solved the problem.

In the past, this was something that was unthinkable. I can also help others solve their problems.

Therefore, reading is urgent and imperative.

Reading taught me to convince people with reason.

I have a half-grown young man at home who is in his rebellious phase and always likes to go against me. I can't stand what others do. I either criticize this or that, and I'm an angry young man.

I say a lot of things that criticize society and history every day. I argued with him calmly every time. Strive to argue based on reason, discuss matters based on facts, and make sense. He discussed his arguments one by one, one by one, and finally he stopped talking.

In fact, he is not being arrogant. If you make sense, he will still listen.

The important thing is that you must understand the key points of his words and his logic. Let's discuss it. I won't attack him, I just need to let him understand the truth. He will think about whether what you said makes sense.

How can I do this if I don’t study, learn, or improve?

Speaking is an art. To speak beautifully, to make others comfortable, and to speak rationally, how can it be possible without reading or studying?

In reality, if you are good at talking, you will have more friends. Many people, including myself, like humorous and eloquent people.

Making friends with this kind of person is like taking a breath of spring breeze. He can always bring you joy and joy. Even if we are talking about a movie, he can talk about it vividly and with relish.

Read, think, practice, and master speaking skills. Take the weapon of good eloquence with you and overcome obstacles in interpersonal communication, and you will be successful!