Why do contemporary young people tend to live alone?

A person can eat the food he likes, sleep where he likes, walk the path he likes, and keep the pets he likes. No need to accommodate, no need to get angry, it is very comfortable to take a day off and stay at home once in a while. The roommates are indifferent to each other. We see our friends a few times a year and call our family members often. Call me selfish or callous, but it is true that my life alone is more exciting than ever.

You can also do what you like as you please. The pressure is getting bigger and bigger. I just hope that I can have my own quiet moments after get off work, not being restrained, and being able to relax freely. No one can empathize with it. Only you can understand what you have experienced and what you are enduring. However, this emotion cannot be released when there are many people.

1. Modern society has reduced the social pressure on those who live alone.

In primitive societies, independent individuals cannot resist adverse external factors well and often need the help of peers. More conducive to survival. And for the sake of racial reproduction, it is necessary to have a stable partner, which means that the family can be passed on and the offspring can be given stable and good care. Therefore, groups tend to encourage men and women to live together and suppress individuals who live alone and are single.

When we are in a modern society, offspring can be well taken care of. Even if some young people of working age have not yet given birth, it will have little impact on the inheritance of the group, which naturally reduces the pressure on people living alone.

2. One of the consequences of gender equality

For thousands of years, all countries in the world have been male-dominated societies. Women have no independent source of livelihood and must get married to survive. Now that women can make a living independently, whether to get married is no longer a single lifestyle option. In other words, living alone has become another possible option, so many women have actually made another choice.

3. Realizing self-worth is one of the motivations for living alone

In the past few years, how many young people have given up their comfortable lives in their hometowns and traveled to crowded first-tier cities just to realize their dreams . As material life continues to improve and our other needs are gradually met, the realization of self-worth is naturally pushed to the center.

4. Some people are unwilling to have children

In addition, people who are unwilling to raise children also feel that marriage is not absolutely necessary, and do not want to have children and just want to enjoy their own lives. , has now become the design of many modern people's way of life.

As China gradually evolves from a traditional society to a modern society, more and more young people are seriously considering a lifestyle of living alone. It can be said that this is both a personal choice and a It is said to be caused by social changes. In the future, more and more people will choose to live alone.